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Brother texts greetings in Welsh

236 replies

MoHub · 22/04/2025 02:20

My brother lives in Wales but he is English. He doesn't want to be Welsh, but every time he texts me at Christmas, New Year, birthday, etc he will do it in Welsh. So this weekend it was
Me: Happy Easter DB
DB: Pasg Hapus to you too

Don't get me wrong I like Wales, it's a lovely country, I like the Welsh and if a Welsh person wished me Happy Easter in Welsh that'd be fine but my brother is English and so am I. Every bloody time he does it.
A greeting in Welsh means nothing to me and yes I can work it out, but it doesn't half irk me and I know it's annoying me far more than it should.
AIBU to just want greetings in the language we both speak?

OP posts:
eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 22/04/2025 18:03

My brother married a Jewish woman... Now he wishes us "Shabbat Shalom" every week. It annoys the feck out of me!

They are not practising Jews btw.

LlynTegid · 22/04/2025 18:04

Noswaith dda.

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest, be it Welsh or another language were a family member to live elsewhere.

TheWonderhorse · 22/04/2025 18:13

Arlanymor · 22/04/2025 17:29

So am I, but it didn't come across that way in your post. Not at all.

No idea why, I just pointed out that they call us foreigners everywhere, not just on the website.

Arlanymor · 22/04/2025 18:14

TheWonderhorse · 22/04/2025 18:13

No idea why, I just pointed out that they call us foreigners everywhere, not just on the website.

My error then.

nomas · 22/04/2025 18:34

CatSnackTagine · 22/04/2025 17:35

They would. You're being quite silly and rude to be honest. Other people have tried to explain this to you.

Most people would recognise a foreign greeting on a special day. Sorry, but that's that.

It’s not silly to point out most people wouldn’t know know what below means.
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And I would have more respect for your opinion if you had challenged the people calling posters fucking idiots and fucking morons. But guess what, you didn’t. Says a lot, eh?

nomas · 22/04/2025 18:35

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

And yet you were the one deleted for rudeness.

Arlanymor · 22/04/2025 18:36

nomas · 22/04/2025 18:35

And yet you were the one deleted for rudeness.

Edited

You’ve called me that once already. Keep up with your insults and disgusting attitude.

CatSnackTagine · 22/04/2025 18:37

nomas · 22/04/2025 18:34

It’s not silly to point out most people wouldn’t know know what below means.
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And I would have more respect for your opinion if you had challenged the people calling posters fucking idiots and fucking morons. But guess what, you didn’t. Says a lot, eh?

Calm down

nomas · 22/04/2025 18:38

Arlanymor · 22/04/2025 18:36

You’ve called me that once already. Keep up with your insults and disgusting attitude.

Time for you to step away and have a coffee maybe.

nomas · 22/04/2025 18:38

CatSnackTagine · 22/04/2025 18:37

Calm down

Go have a nice lie down.

Arlanymor · 22/04/2025 18:40

nomas · 22/04/2025 18:38

Time for you to step away and have a coffee maybe.

Don’t drink coffee, I’m going for yoga on the beach. But as you’re being patronising, maybe time for you to step away and consider how abhorrent your attitude is towards people who speak a repressed language that has a massive history behind it that you care neither to understand nor acknowledge.

nomas · 22/04/2025 18:42

Arlanymor · 22/04/2025 18:40

Don’t drink coffee, I’m going for yoga on the beach. But as you’re being patronising, maybe time for you to step away and consider how abhorrent your attitude is towards people who speak a repressed language that has a massive history behind it that you care neither to understand nor acknowledge.

Can you quote which bit was abhorrent?

DefinitelyMaybe92 · 22/04/2025 18:44

I think it’s lovely if he has started to assimilate himself with the place he lives. Though could easily just be an annoying brother thing.😂 I think YAB-a tad-U to be wound up by it though. Slight tangent but I personally think it’s brilliant to use the language. I am English and have often thought it would be nice for children to be taught at least one of our neighbouring languages (Welsh, Irish Gaelic or Scottish Gaelic) in schools, instead of - in many cases - two continental languages.

CatSnackTagine · 22/04/2025 18:46

nomas · 22/04/2025 18:38

Go have a nice lie down.

Nomas plenty of people have called you out on this silliness
There's no need to keep lashing out and posting Chinese characters that people can easily Google in this day and age for a bit of international fun on a birthday.

I don't need a nice lie down but you do need to perhaps calm down a bit you're coming across so horribly.

nomas · 22/04/2025 18:49

CatSnackTagine · 22/04/2025 18:46

Nomas plenty of people have called you out on this silliness
There's no need to keep lashing out and posting Chinese characters that people can easily Google in this day and age for a bit of international fun on a birthday.

I don't need a nice lie down but you do need to perhaps calm down a bit you're coming across so horribly.

Plenty of people being you?

If people disagree with you politely, you don’t get to shut them down by calling them fucking idiot and fucking morons. Which is what people have done on this thread.

Maybe you should be telling those people to calm down?

CatSnackTagine · 22/04/2025 18:56

nomas · 22/04/2025 18:49

Plenty of people being you?

If people disagree with you politely, you don’t get to shut them down by calling them fucking idiot and fucking morons. Which is what people have done on this thread.

Maybe you should be telling those people to calm down?

And a fair few others if you care to look

You haven't been shut down, people are just saying you are wrong in their opinion, I tend to agree with them though

What you said about people being unable to translate obvious common greetings didn't really work with most people's views, although you're entitled to your view it seems to be unpopular and you aren't able to handle that

Nobody has called you an idiot as far as I can see and I have read the full thread...

The only person I can see being aggressive to others is you, Nomas

nomas · 22/04/2025 19:00

CatSnackTagine · 22/04/2025 18:56

And a fair few others if you care to look

You haven't been shut down, people are just saying you are wrong in their opinion, I tend to agree with them though

What you said about people being unable to translate obvious common greetings didn't really work with most people's views, although you're entitled to your view it seems to be unpopular and you aren't able to handle that

Nobody has called you an idiot as far as I can see and I have read the full thread...

The only person I can see being aggressive to others is you, Nomas

That’s so incredibly arrogant, to tell people their opinion is wrong. You can respectfully disagree but calling people names for their opinion is what’s wrong.

You have conveniently ignored the aggressive posts, or they have been deleted.

Anyway, it’s clear we’re not going to see eye to eye on this so maybe just leave it.

CatSnackTagine · 22/04/2025 19:08

nomas · 22/04/2025 19:00

That’s so incredibly arrogant, to tell people their opinion is wrong. You can respectfully disagree but calling people names for their opinion is what’s wrong.

You have conveniently ignored the aggressive posts, or they have been deleted.

Anyway, it’s clear we’re not going to see eye to eye on this so maybe just leave it.

I didn't say your opinion was wrong, I said

"People are saying you are wrong, in their opinion"

I think the actual problem is your comprehension of what's being said to you. I don't think you are reading post properly and just going for peoples throats because you feel like nobody is agreeing with you.

Then you started to be rude to people. You now want to leave it, because you've not got your point across and have resorted to telling people to go have a coffee or a lie down which is not really constructive or relevant.

ASimpleLampoon · 22/04/2025 19:18

Mae eich brawd yn wych.

InSpainTheRain · 22/04/2025 19:36

I would use Google translate and change every message into another language, even the important stuff 😀

DrPrunesqualer · 23/04/2025 14:01

CatSnackTagine · 22/04/2025 18:46

Nomas plenty of people have called you out on this silliness
There's no need to keep lashing out and posting Chinese characters that people can easily Google in this day and age for a bit of international fun on a birthday.

I don't need a nice lie down but you do need to perhaps calm down a bit you're coming across so horribly.

It’s fine to have different opinions.
OP feels the same which is why the thread exists…..to ask for opinions.

There's no need for anyone to pile on another just because they have a different opinion.
It’s called democracy and I think it’s great to hear how others feel about a particular issue. Hopefully it will make us all a little more accepting

DrPrunesqualer · 23/04/2025 14:04

CatSnackTagine · 22/04/2025 19:08

I didn't say your opinion was wrong, I said

"People are saying you are wrong, in their opinion"

I think the actual problem is your comprehension of what's being said to you. I don't think you are reading post properly and just going for peoples throats because you feel like nobody is agreeing with you.

Then you started to be rude to people. You now want to leave it, because you've not got your point across and have resorted to telling people to go have a coffee or a lie down which is not really constructive or relevant.

If anyone is rude or making personal attacks then they should be reported to MN
Ihavent gone back over the whole thread but other MNs posts have been deleted.

Lets all report if there’s an issue

OhWhistle · 23/04/2025 14:28

Pax et bonum

Mothership4two · 23/04/2025 15:39

Heddwch ac ewyllys da

TheMauveBeaker · 23/04/2025 18:30

My sister’s English but lives in Ireland. She texts me greetings in Irish, I text her greetings in Irish. It’s amusing for both of us when I do it, as often Google Translate doesn’t get it quite right 😂. YABU, it’s harmless.