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To wonder who is buying chocolate cereal

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Blueyseviltwin · 21/04/2025 18:56

Who om each is buying Lion bar and Oreo cereal? See also lucky charms, nesquick and coco pops
These aren't breakfast foods (or any sort of food). I literally cannot imagine anyone thinking it is a reasonable way of feeding children?

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TonictheHedgehog · 21/04/2025 19:23

Blueyseviltwin · 21/04/2025 19:11

Porridge and fruit? Scrambled eggs? Wholemeal toast and pure nut butters?

I've never once fed my kids a breakfast cereal. I understand now why childhood obesity is so rife.

My kids have the odd ice cream, chocolate etc. I'm not a fun sponge but I just can't get over serving that as a meal before expecting concentration at school for example.

As for cost of living, porridge is much cheaper.

Is normal butter also on your sin list?

TyrannasaurusJex · 21/04/2025 19:23

Blueyseviltwin · 21/04/2025 19:20

A pulled pork, salad snd wedges,

Jacket potatoes

Curry/ chilli

oh shut up you do NOT serve pulled pork at kids parties 🙄

RisingSunn · 21/04/2025 19:24

Oh please OP.

FleurDeFleur · 21/04/2025 19:24

WithOnlyTheMemories · 21/04/2025 19:23

Have you ever been to a party? I'm just imagining turning up at the local bouncy castle place to find it is lentil curry for all the 3 year olds

😂😂😂
I was imagining their joy at a plate of pulled pork 😂
No dessert, no birthday cake!

AutumnLeaves24 · 21/04/2025 19:24

ChompinCrocodiles · 21/04/2025 19:06

You know what I haven't had for donkeys years? Rusks. I'm not sure the dc would even recognise them.

Fuck me, I'm buying rusks tomorrow. This thread has inspired me 😍

Depends how old you are and how many years ago you last had them, but personally speaking as someone with a few years behind them (55) they are just not right any more, they used to be like tasty bricks!! Something babies could really keep on and grateful for when you were having problems with your wisdom teeth! They're not like that anymore.

Dartmoorcheffy · 21/04/2025 19:25

I grew up in the 70s. Breakfast was cereal with added sugar on it. We also had full.sugar drinks.

There were very few obese kids, probably because we didn't snack, we had a lot more exercise and didn't sit staring at screens.

FlibbertyGibbitt · 21/04/2025 19:25

I’ll put my hand up and admit I love a couple of weetabix with coco pops on top. Bloody lovely thanks.

arcticpandas · 21/04/2025 19:25

RoseAndGeranium · 21/04/2025 19:22

This just isn't true. I was brought up in precisely the way @Blueyseviltwin describes and all that happened is that I developed a taste for healthy options and a basic understanding of nutrition. SOME children might react as you describe -- but those children might also struggle with moderation if those foods were habitually available in the home.

My mum was very into healthy eating (think everything home made : sourdough bread, even home made pasta and some treats). In my teens I got obsessed with UPFs and bought them in secret or at friends.

Threecraws · 21/04/2025 19:25

Best thing is ready brek and add your own hot chocolate powder

JandamiHash · 21/04/2025 19:25

Blueyseviltwin · 21/04/2025 19:03

I am a right judge pants when it comes to feeding kids.

I walked down the cereal aisle today and was aghast that such rubbish is being fed to kids. (Healthy adults I also judge a bit but if you have a normal bmi and an otherwise good diet then it's up to you.).

I just don't understand why you wouldn't want to give your kids a healthy diet, especially to start the day.

I judge people who have food complexes as they ALWAYS rub it off on their kids and risk giving them a one way ticket to an eating disorder. But each to their own.

Blueyseviltwin · 21/04/2025 19:25

FleurDeFleur · 21/04/2025 19:22

So: nothing sweet. No birthday cake.
Your friends serve pulled pork at children's parties do they? 🤔

Obviously my kids have a birthday cake?

Two are summer born so we tend to BBQ.

If they go to a soft play party then they might have beige buffet. As I say, I don't stop them but mine eat a brilliant range of foods. Honestly they aren't missing out as they think smoked salmon, steak, strawberries, duck, melon etc are sll fantastic.

We don't have good snd bad food, just food. However, 80,% of what they eat at home is whole food's.

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LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 21/04/2025 19:25

I buy cocopops. Have them as a snack when working from home. Figure it’s healthier than a chocolate bar.

Straightjacketsandroses · 21/04/2025 19:25

OP you sound like the height of fun; imagine eating bolognaise and a yoghurt simultaneously! I can’t imagine such dizzy heights of exhilaration and debauchery.

I like to think of the phrase: both things can be true. You can be right about cereal being unhealthy in some forms, but we can be right about our kids eating these in moderation and also healthy. The two aren’t mutually exclusive.

You’re not one of these refined sugar free mums are you, because I use that parenting style as a bit of a friend filter if I’m honest IRL

TiredyMcTired · 21/04/2025 19:26

My son. he has SEN and is very picky about food/flavour/texture. I’d rather he had something to eat than battle over ‘healthy’ food that he hates. At least he gets milk with his cereal 😬

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 21/04/2025 19:26

Blueyseviltwin · 21/04/2025 19:11

Porridge and fruit? Scrambled eggs? Wholemeal toast and pure nut butters?

I've never once fed my kids a breakfast cereal. I understand now why childhood obesity is so rife.

My kids have the odd ice cream, chocolate etc. I'm not a fun sponge but I just can't get over serving that as a meal before expecting concentration at school for example.

As for cost of living, porridge is much cheaper.

Porridge is disgusting though. My kids won't touch it and I can't say I blame them.

My son started asking for porridge after we read Goldilocks and the three bears, so one day I made him some. The look of confusion and disappointment on his little face after the first spoonful still haunts me.

Totot · 21/04/2025 19:26

arcticpandas · 21/04/2025 19:20

Tbf also kings of eating regular healthy meals instead of non stop snacking so you got some things right:)

We love a snack, we have every crisp you could imagine, the supermarkets have aisles dedicated to them (was a bit disappointed with the selection over here, but it’s got better!). Also so many cakes, and not just the fancy ones, aisles of the sugary upf laden sweet cakes and breads that will probably survive an apocalypse. We also have a lot of ready made aperos, but M&S are very good for those now too!

FleurDeFleur · 21/04/2025 19:26

TyrannasaurusJex · 21/04/2025 19:23

oh shut up you do NOT serve pulled pork at kids parties 🙄

I'm quite disappointed it's not venison, tbh
Then a spirited game of "I Spy" and home for some plain porridge and an improving book.
It'll probably be no better when they turn 5.

Daisypod · 21/04/2025 19:26

Two of my ASD kids do, on advice from our dietitian. One of my kids is very underweight due to food aversions so she said to just get wherever I can into him and at least the cereals have added vitamins in them. She also advised adding cheese, cream, butter and full fat milk to whatever I can to try and get his weight up. I hate my kids diets, it certainly isn’t what the rest of us eat but I feel like I can’t do right. He eats shit and I get judged, I don’t let him eat shit and he ends up in hospital due to being so underweight. Your judgment really doesn’t help.

RoseAndGeranium · 21/04/2025 19:26

Straightjacketsandroses · 21/04/2025 19:17

So I use a generic banana bread recipe (you can add oats if you like, but I add 2/3 tbsp milled flaxseed, a couple tbsp chia seeds and some mixed seeds). If the mixture is dry add more milk (I like Greek yoghurt for extra protein). I also add dark or white chocolate chips but don’t tell the OP. The banana can be substituted for canned pumpkin. I vary the spices depending on how I’m feeling (nutmeg is great with pumpkin muffins). I also halve the sugar the recipe calls for (especially if using very ripe bananas) but do this to taste!

This sounds great. I make a lot of banana muffins (also with chocolate chips and often with cocoa powder) but I've never thought of adding milled flaxseed. Sounds like an easy nutritional win! Thank you!

Sesma · 21/04/2025 19:26

I like chocolate ready brek

Cyclingmummy1 · 21/04/2025 19:26

I like porridge.

Particularly with chocolate spread.

And I have a box of the chocolate batons that go in pastries that a PP mentioned. I'll get my coat.

QuickPeachPoet · 21/04/2025 19:27

I was the weird child who was allowed coco pops etc on holiday or as a treat but tried it once and hated it! Preferred corn flakes or porridge.
My kids aren’t allowed it flat out.

RoseAndGeranium · 21/04/2025 19:28

arcticpandas · 21/04/2025 19:25

My mum was very into healthy eating (think everything home made : sourdough bread, even home made pasta and some treats). In my teens I got obsessed with UPFs and bought them in secret or at friends.

Sure, but what about now? Once you got past the teenage rebellion (and teenage preoccupation with instant gratification) how did your relationship with food progress?

Blueyseviltwin · 21/04/2025 19:28

TyrannasaurusJex · 21/04/2025 19:23

oh shut up you do NOT serve pulled pork at kids parties 🙄

I absolutely do. It's easy. Throw a big pork in the slow cooker. Wedges, coleslaw, buns. Easy.

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FleurDeFleur · 21/04/2025 19:28

Blueyseviltwin · 21/04/2025 19:25

Obviously my kids have a birthday cake?

Two are summer born so we tend to BBQ.

If they go to a soft play party then they might have beige buffet. As I say, I don't stop them but mine eat a brilliant range of foods. Honestly they aren't missing out as they think smoked salmon, steak, strawberries, duck, melon etc are sll fantastic.

We don't have good snd bad food, just food. However, 80,% of what they eat at home is whole food's.

I would never have a BBQ.
So unhealthy. All that charred meat 🤢

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