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lulubellaa · 19/04/2025 13:56

Some opinions needed please.
Got back with my partner been on an off for a few years we are long distance, next weekend would be our child free weekend we would usually spend together he's said he's going away for the weeekend with some friends he's known since end of Jan. I mentioned that we won't have a night together till mid may. I feel like this isn't a great start to being back together and giving this another go one of his new friends is just doing 1 night away for this reason but he's told me he's going both nights so I can like or lump it. Feel abit unimportant in honesty he's went on how much he's wanted me back I get we are allowed lives aswell but how is this showing me he's serious about us when we now won't see each other for weeks when we had the oppertunity feeling confused xx

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Pineapplewaves · 19/04/2025 14:00

He can only go away with friends on his child free weekend can’t he? So if this weekend away with friends is a one off then I think it’s okay.

It sounds like you are regretting getting back together with him? Perhaps call it a day and find someone that lives closer to you. Why put yourself through the stress of a long distance relationship when there could be someone better round the corner.

lulubellaa · 19/04/2025 14:09

Absolutely he can! I just probs would have done it different and went one night being so early doors with us so we had best of both worlds not sure if my feelings are justified just feeling abit like I'm not a priority for him even at this early stage of being back together xx

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HeatedBlanketAllYear · 19/04/2025 14:43

Actions speak louder than words. You’re not a priority. Act accordingly.

lulubellaa · 19/04/2025 15:11

@HeatedBlanketAllYear my thoughts too 🥲

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