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2 year old who doesn’t like clothes and to leave the house with me

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ellie1789 · 17/04/2025 10:15

Hi,

I’m looking for some tips for my tricky son to get him dressed and leave the house. He does it for everyone else but me and his dad, except when it’s football. He’ll get dressed for that. I’ve tried letting him choose his outfit, distracting him, forcing it on, leaving without him etc, and nothing works. He’s fussy with clothes and textures, but for others will wear them. He initially hides and smiles as it’s a game. I try to be firm but he ends up crying and taking the clothes off. I’m a SAHM with a 6 month old too, and it feels like we spend all of our time at home as my 2.5 year old is so tricky to manage. He’s been hypersensitive since he was born, and I don’t think he was ADHD nor autism. He certainly has traits of both but I think he’s just being a determined and clever child. I think pre-school will help but am slightly nervous for how we’ll get there on time. I’d get him dressed in the car if I could but he currently won’t even put his nappy on and I think it’ll be too hard to do with him he prams and car seats in the car too

I’m so tired and overstimulated from breastfeeding and being at home with two. Any tips would be appreciated as this has been going on for a long time now

OP posts:
Lioncubhearted · 17/04/2025 16:46

is there any consistency in what he doesn't like? Could it be buttons? Poppers? Zips?
Shorts vs trousers?
Long sleeved vs short sleeved?

DS wouldn't wear a coat but he would wear a thick jumper. (I always had a coat hanging on the buggy to stop all the comments that he should be wearing one!) He hated trousers and wore shorts (long socks in winter) pretty much all year round until he was about 8.

bridgetreilly · 17/04/2025 17:01

ellie1789 · 17/04/2025 11:07

thank you. I find buying clothes hard as he won’t try anything on. Currently have a large pile of H&M clothes that he won’t try on. I’ll try to see if he’ll wear his football shorts out

He’s 2. He really doesn’t need to try things on. You get to decide what’s in his wardrobe and there are good suggestions on this thread about what to look for. It sounds as though he is used to being in charge and he needs to learn that you are in charge. Sometimes he can make choices but not always.

Needlenardlenoo · 17/04/2025 17:34

Is there any reason he can't just wear football kit? My daughter's autistic and went through a phase of this.

Longer term, the company Sensory Smart (among others) sells clothes that might help.

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