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To report this as benefit fraud

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ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 15:08

A relative is claiming benefits, can’t work due to health but is one of those who is always complaining about something wrong with her but is always able to do the things she wants to do. Can holiday abroad, always down the gym, etc. When she was working she was always making complaints against employers- one of life’s victims.

She sold a property a couple of years ago and has squirrelled about £40k away through investments. I think has got her mother to do this for her.

I’m so fed up of seeing people like her take the piss. I 100% support a welfare system and it really pisses me off to see it abused like this. And meanwhile we are working our arses off and not able to afford the foreign travel and gym memberships.

I’m so tempted to report her secret savings to DWP.

OP posts:
Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 17:45

ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 17:44

You don’t have to prove when you report.
you make a report and it is investigated.
There would be deeds of sale etc held in record.
I wouldn’t be expected to conduct the investigated.
Uncurl.

You’d never find out the outcome - so you’re just stirring up trouble because you’re jealous. Ugh.

Notposting · 15/04/2025 17:47

Cctviswatchingme001 · 15/04/2025 17:42

I would report and have done before. SIL was claiming she was a lone parent, she wasn't. BIL was earning over 1k a week ( trade), she was getting lone parents, rent paid, medical card, back to school allowance, the works. Needed a new washing machine, fridge, buggy she got it of the social. Never worked a day in her life and had tonnes of help from her family. Meanwhile myself and DH were working our asses of to pay mortgage, car, medical etc with no family help.

She was never investigated. They were able to buy a 400k house with a deposit of over 150k. After she secured the house she thought she was great that she decided to give her social welfare books back. It was like we should all be proud of her. 12 years of having her rent and expenses paid by the tax payer. It's wrong.

social welfare books
That must have been a really long time ago. Order books haven't existed for about twenty years.

Montea · 15/04/2025 17:50

ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 15:08

A relative is claiming benefits, can’t work due to health but is one of those who is always complaining about something wrong with her but is always able to do the things she wants to do. Can holiday abroad, always down the gym, etc. When she was working she was always making complaints against employers- one of life’s victims.

She sold a property a couple of years ago and has squirrelled about £40k away through investments. I think has got her mother to do this for her.

I’m so fed up of seeing people like her take the piss. I 100% support a welfare system and it really pisses me off to see it abused like this. And meanwhile we are working our arses off and not able to afford the foreign travel and gym memberships.

I’m so tempted to report her secret savings to DWP.

“can’t work due to health”
what condition has she got? You do know you need evidence including evidence from witnesses to be signed off from work for the unforseeable with regular reviews

”but is one of those who is always complaining about something wrong with her but is always able to do the things she wants to do.”
what did she say was wrong with her and what exactly is she always doing that contradicts that? How often does she go out, to do what and for how long? How does she get to the gym and how often does she go? Is it possible that physio have recommended she uses the gym. Does she ever have to cancel plans?

”When she was working she was always making complaints against employers- one of life’s victims.”
what were the complaints and what were the result of those complaints? How many jobs has she had?

”She sold a property a couple of years ago and has squirrelled about £40k away through investments. I think has got her mother to do this for her.”
is she in charge of her own finances? Did the property belong to her, was it in her name? Why did she sell the property? How was the money invested?

Urchinel · 15/04/2025 17:50

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Everlore · 15/04/2025 17:52

I just needed to remind the OP that PIP is a non means tested benefit which one can claim regardless of income or savings. It is awarded based on a person's disability or health condition and how it affects their daily lives.
I'm always amazed by how open the supposed 'benefits cheats' referenced in these posts are to share their entire medical records and financial statements with the posters, I assume this to be the case if the poster feels qualified to state that they are not medically entitled to benefits.
I have been severely disabled since birth and, shock horror, I sometimes go on holiday so I'm not sure this is the smoking gun the OP thinks it is! Us disabled people are allowed to leave the house occasionally you know, even if we need support to do so.

BlessedBeTheGroot · 15/04/2025 17:53

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 17:42

If more people reported it there would be less occurrences of things like this happening, she is not a productive member of society, she is a drain on society and others are funding her lifestyle

ANy fraud aside, there is no need to say she is a "drain" or not a productive member of society.
I am unable to work and I claim UC. I already feel like a fucking burden to mankind without comments like yours.

Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 17:54

@Hastentoadd work will set you free, eh?????

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 17:54

BlessedBeTheGroot · 15/04/2025 17:53

ANy fraud aside, there is no need to say she is a "drain" or not a productive member of society.
I am unable to work and I claim UC. I already feel like a fucking burden to mankind without comments like yours.

You have a valid reason for being on benefits, the person the OP is referring to doesn’t …..big difference

Unsureabouteverything · 15/04/2025 17:55

BlessedBeTheGroot · 15/04/2025 17:09

In the mean time, she will have her benefits stopped. That could put her in real hardship.
By all means report someone you know to be committing benefit fraud, but only if you are 100% sure. And no one needs MN to validate that.

Oh right, I'm not in the UK so don't know how benefits there work. But that's ridiculous - surely there are then people (e.g. abusive ex husbands) who would maliciously report someone just to hurt them. Then other people, like the OP, might honestly suspect fraud but not say anything because they're not certain and don't want someone innocent punished.

Crazy system, completely twisted incentives.

Notposting · 15/04/2025 17:55

BlessedBeTheGroot · 15/04/2025 17:53

ANy fraud aside, there is no need to say she is a "drain" or not a productive member of society.
I am unable to work and I claim UC. I already feel like a fucking burden to mankind without comments like yours.

I am a taxpayer payer and happy to support people who are in need. Don't let the nasty buggers get you down.

Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 17:56

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 17:54

You have a valid reason for being on benefits, the person the OP is referring to doesn’t …..big difference

You don’t know that, and neither does the OP. See the problem?

ShanghaiDiva · 15/04/2025 17:56

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 17:54

You have a valid reason for being on benefits, the person the OP is referring to doesn’t …..big difference

We don’t actually know that there isn’t a valid reason…
op doesn’t know which benefits the relative receives.

ilovesooty · 15/04/2025 17:57

Happyspendingthedayinthegarden · 15/04/2025 17:45

So agree with you.

Benefits are there to support the most vulnerable people in society. Also to support people on a temporary basis when they're between jobs or too sick to work.

I work with vulnerable people who have to claim benefits in order to survive. I encourage them to establish a routine, move on to doing some voluntary work, gaining work-related skills & basic qualifications. I don't accept the 'I'll never work' narrative' - even if it takes several years to get them there. I've had people who were street homeless & substance abusers stop me in the street or serve me in a shop telling me what a difference I made to their lives & how well they getting on.

Such a satisfying job.

I did a similar job for a long time. How is it relevant to the OP's situation?

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 17:57

ShanghaiDiva · 15/04/2025 17:56

We don’t actually know that there isn’t a valid reason…
op doesn’t know which benefits the relative receives.

She can report it and there will be an investigation to determine whether she is entitled

BlessedBeTheGroot · 15/04/2025 17:58

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 17:54

You have a valid reason for being on benefits, the person the OP is referring to doesn’t …..big difference

I think the fraud aspect here is that the person OP is referring to has hidden savings.
The fact she goes on holidays and to the gym, and has had issues with ex-employers is just something else entirely and is almost like OP wants to paint a bad picture of this relative.

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 17:59

BlessedBeTheGroot · 15/04/2025 17:58

I think the fraud aspect here is that the person OP is referring to has hidden savings.
The fact she goes on holidays and to the gym, and has had issues with ex-employers is just something else entirely and is almost like OP wants to paint a bad picture of this relative.

Sounds like the woman the OP is referring to does not have a valid reason not to work, she sounds fit, able and active

ShanghaiDiva · 15/04/2025 17:59

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 17:57

She can report it and there will be an investigation to determine whether she is entitled

Yes, she can absolutely report it. Not sure why she needs mumsnetters to validate her decision.

ilovesooty · 15/04/2025 18:00

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 17:57

She can report it and there will be an investigation to determine whether she is entitled

And presumably her benefits will be stopped while she's being investigated?

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 15/04/2025 18:00

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 17:59

Sounds like the woman the OP is referring to does not have a valid reason not to work, she sounds fit, able and active

Why, because she goes on holiday etc? Disabled people are allowed to have a life and holiday.

Happyspendingthedayinthegarden · 15/04/2025 18:01

ANy fraud aside, there is no need to say she is a "drain" or not a productive member of society.
I am unable to work and I claim UC. I already feel like a fucking burden to mankind without comments like yours.

You are obviously a genuine claimant to UC.

In my opinion UC fails many very disabled/sick people.

Under the old system, if anyone had the highest rate care component of Disability Living Allowance (DLA) & in receipt of Incapacity Benefit, they automatically went into the 'Support Group' which meant DWP would send them a nice letter every so-often asking if they would like to have a meeting with a Jobcentre Work Coach to talk about any work-related activities such as training, education courses etc, but, if not, they were left alone. They also got an extra amount of money. Not so with claimants in receipt of UC & in receipt of enhanced care PIP.

ClareClareClareClare · 15/04/2025 18:01

ilovesooty · 15/04/2025 18:00

And presumably her benefits will be stopped while she's being investigated?

Is this a fact?

OP posts:
ilovesooty · 15/04/2025 18:01

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 17:59

Sounds like the woman the OP is referring to does not have a valid reason not to work, she sounds fit, able and active

I'm sure you have a budding career as a DWP assessor waiting for you.

Anothercoat · 15/04/2025 18:01

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 15/04/2025 18:00

Why, because she goes on holiday etc? Disabled people are allowed to have a life and holiday.

That’s not what disability is meant to look like though, for the hard of thinking…

”They” should be at home, making craft items from used dressings or something.

BlessedBeTheGroot · 15/04/2025 18:03

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 17:59

Sounds like the woman the OP is referring to does not have a valid reason not to work, she sounds fit, able and active

Depends why she is not working. OP does not even know what benefits she claims, so it stands to reason that she wont know why she can't work either.
In any case, it is between the relative and the DWP as to why she can't work. It is not up to OP or anyone on here to decide otherwise based on the very limited information. And as had been said by a PP. - you can be disabled and still go to the gym and on holiday.

Hastentoadd · 15/04/2025 18:04

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 15/04/2025 18:00

Why, because she goes on holiday etc? Disabled people are allowed to have a life and holiday.

spends a lot of time at the gym
The OP knows her well so would have mentioned if she had some Physical disability
No harm in reporting suspicious behaviour, it can be investigated and if she is actually entitled the all is fine

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