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Most shops are just landfill waiting to happen.

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SummerDaytoNight · 13/04/2025 10:47

I mean, all are to a point, but I’m talking about the non essential ones.

Our society is engineering its own collapse. We only need food, health, house basics and clothing. And I suppose, technology.

Fast fashion could go. Housing should just be the essentials.

My friend took me into a shop called sostrene grene. It was lovely, but nothing was essential. Most shops are like that.

The horse has bolted, but I wish we could limit the unnecessarily stuff and just have the basics. Im not talking Amish level, but there’s no need for all this waste. It would be so much better if only the essentials were produced.

At the point of production, it’s already basically landfill.

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Bingbopboomboomboombopbam · 13/04/2025 13:52

Sostrene sells a lot of craft material so I’m not sure it applies.

Fast fashion is an absolute disease and really should stop, though. We just don’t need these many clothes and most of them are poor quality as it is.

Matronic6 · 13/04/2025 13:52

I completely agree. What's even more frustrating is poor recycling awareness, habits or people just not caring. We live in a flat so have shared waste disposal and the level of cross contamination is shocking. People chuck food waste in with recycling or small electrical items just chucked in the rubbish.

Mrsbloggz · 13/04/2025 13:52

Hfjfjfjfjfj · 13/04/2025 13:47

Completely agree. Hate seeing the seasonal things binned so often. Saw it first in the US - Halloween bagged up and waiting for the rubbish truck. Then in the UK after Christmas - plastic trees with their lights still attached waiting for the rubbish truck. Also the sheer plasticness of it all.

Fast fashion was deeply concerning 25 years ago. How there haven’t been brakes applied is a political disgrace.

Fast fashion makes big profits.
Big profits give you the power to lobby governments so that laws are made in your favor and you can continue to make big profits by destroying the planet and exploiting the poor.

quantumbutterfly · 13/04/2025 13:54

SaladSandwichesForTea · 13/04/2025 13:38

I agree, but people love shopping because its passive and easy and gives a dopamine hit.

Far easier to buy table dressing decor than to actually set the table and pack it away for next year.

I do like charity shops but the culture of buying stuff just to use for a season e.g. eastr, and then chucking it to the charity shop to store for a year is shitty consumerist behaviour.

Supermarkets have a lot to answer for, people are.always buying supermarket homeware on impulse. Buying a vase because they've seen one and think "oh that's nice" rather than needing a vase and shopping thoughtfully for one that will suit them for the flowers they buy, the room it will go in etc.

And finally, I wish reusable could also be linked to being suitable for purpose. Reusable plastic bottles are always being dropped on the school run and replaced; far better to buy a metal one, they aren't much dearer and there are plenty secondhand. It'll don't get why anyone would find that gross when people are happy to use restaurant cutlery and cups that've been used bynhundrend of people.

You'll also avoid the potential for BPA if you use a metal bottle, though opt for stainless steel rather than aluminium.

Sortalike · 13/04/2025 13:55

I think since Covid, I've made a concerted effort not to buy for the sake of buying and am applying that principle across my life.

Sitting in my lounge and looking at the furniture and soft furnishings I can only see a handful of items which we have bought brand new since DH and I moved in together 15 years ago. I like neutral tones, everything blends, and actually the overall look is one of a cosy Nancy Myers aesthetic before that was even a "thing".

I don't want to be surrounded by seasonal throws, mugs and cushions, anything I do buy (and only when I absolutely need to) is bought because it has been considered not to just fulfil a want.

Planetary resources are finite - so I do my bit.

stclementine · 13/04/2025 13:55

The big question is……how many times can the word tat be used in this thread…..

Mightymoog · 13/04/2025 13:55

Gowlett · 13/04/2025 13:29

Yes... Just spent 100 quid in IKEA on bits & bobs. Why?!
Just because it’s there. I’m sick of owning so much stuff.

what did you actually buy.
maybe it will help with the WHY you are buying it?
( and I'm nosy!)

Happyearlyretirement · 13/04/2025 13:56

TiredEyesToday · 13/04/2025 13:02

The trouble with threads like this, is that they’re demonstrative of a lack of understanding about the poverty tax.

If you are poor, you cannot afford to buy a £500 pair of shoes, that you will buy once, and buy well. You probably cannot afford to save up for a £100 pair of shoes. Instead you will buy £40 shoes- because shoes are an item that you need urgently, and you can’t wait the X months to save up for the £100 shoes, or the X years for the £500 shoes. And they will wear out in a years time and you will buy them again and again all your life- and here’s where it becomes a poverty tax- you will spend way fucking more than your rich pal with their £500 shoes will.

Similarly- if you are poor, you will not be able to justify to yourself spending £10 on glass food storage that will last forever, even if you happen to have the cash- as opposed to the £1 plastic food storage in B&M- that probably has a cutesy little emoji face on it or something. You probably wont be able to EVEN IF someone were to sit you down and explain to you the environmental impact, the long term savings, the fact that you may save more money in saved food in the long term etc. why? Because you are in survival mode. Survival is immediate. You cannot look ahead to 20 years down the line. You probably can’t imagine next week.

you can apply this to mattresses, toys, shoes, coats, sofas, whatever you want.

So many people on MN can’t fathom just how great a % of this country are now in “survival mode”. And what that does to your “choices” such as they are. And why, frankly, you don’t give a flying fuck about the planet, when your immediate existence is so fraught.

Absolutely nailed it. We have a new ‘The Range’ open, the people shopping there are not shopping at John Lewis, why shouldn’t they be allowed to decorate their homes. I have very ecliptic taste so most items on sale don’t interest me I’d rather go around auction houses or charity shops but that suits me not everyone. Allow other people joy to decorate as they want.

quantumbutterfly · 13/04/2025 13:56

Frozenpeace · 13/04/2025 13:39

Agree. It's also the needless environmental harm of manufacturing and shipping all the crap we don't need from places like China. Huge container ships chugging pollutants across the ocean just to make some shite tat that will be bought,.clutter up a house and then be binned.

There is a massive human cost to leveraging cheap manufacturing (poor working conditions) too.

IdLikeThingToSpiralIntoControl · 13/04/2025 13:57

Up to 30% of clothing manufactured apparently goes to landfill without being sold. This giant clothing landfill is visible from space, appalling if all true.

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ohtowinthelottery · 13/04/2025 13:57

I'm in my early 60's, so grew up in a time when there was much less plastic tat than there is now. We also had far fewer clothes and furnishings were only changed when they wore out. Whilst I do despair at the amount of crap people buy and the fashion for constantly changing colour schemes, I equally appreciate that it all keeps people in jobs (retail and delivery - as most of the manufacturing is not in this country).
I think it applies equally to the food industry. So much choice that we never had when i was young and most of it highly processed and not good for our health. Would people really suffer if ice cream only came in vanilla, strawberry and chocolate as it did when I was a child? I doubt it. In fact there are far too many choices to be made in every aspect of shopping now which only serves to stress people out as far as I can see, before you even get onto the waste of cheap disposable tat and it's packaging.

Mightymoog · 13/04/2025 13:58

Happyearlyretirement · 13/04/2025 13:56

Absolutely nailed it. We have a new ‘The Range’ open, the people shopping there are not shopping at John Lewis, why shouldn’t they be allowed to decorate their homes. I have very ecliptic taste so most items on sale don’t interest me I’d rather go around auction houses or charity shops but that suits me not everyone. Allow other people joy to decorate as they want.

personally, I care not how much something is or whetehr some would view it as tat or as classy.
I think there is just too much stuff being manufactured full stop.
if you buy christmas cushions for £4.50 each or £45 each they are still unnecessary, using energy, and creating a disposal problem

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 13/04/2025 14:01

TiredEyesToday · 13/04/2025 13:02

The trouble with threads like this, is that they’re demonstrative of a lack of understanding about the poverty tax.

If you are poor, you cannot afford to buy a £500 pair of shoes, that you will buy once, and buy well. You probably cannot afford to save up for a £100 pair of shoes. Instead you will buy £40 shoes- because shoes are an item that you need urgently, and you can’t wait the X months to save up for the £100 shoes, or the X years for the £500 shoes. And they will wear out in a years time and you will buy them again and again all your life- and here’s where it becomes a poverty tax- you will spend way fucking more than your rich pal with their £500 shoes will.

Similarly- if you are poor, you will not be able to justify to yourself spending £10 on glass food storage that will last forever, even if you happen to have the cash- as opposed to the £1 plastic food storage in B&M- that probably has a cutesy little emoji face on it or something. You probably wont be able to EVEN IF someone were to sit you down and explain to you the environmental impact, the long term savings, the fact that you may save more money in saved food in the long term etc. why? Because you are in survival mode. Survival is immediate. You cannot look ahead to 20 years down the line. You probably can’t imagine next week.

you can apply this to mattresses, toys, shoes, coats, sofas, whatever you want.

So many people on MN can’t fathom just how great a % of this country are now in “survival mode”. And what that does to your “choices” such as they are. And why, frankly, you don’t give a flying fuck about the planet, when your immediate existence is so fraught.

There's a lot of truth there, but that's not what the thread is about. It's not (to use one of your examples) about one pair of £40 shoes that are less good quality than the expensive pair, but about the person buying 4 pairs of £10 shoes that are even worse quality.

And people buying seasonal cushion covers, plastic ornaments and pet accessories from B&M are not in "survival mode".

Iamnotalemming · 13/04/2025 14:01

I agree.
I do what I can but have a constant battle with DH who whenever he cant find something in 30 seconds will say "I'll just order another one from amazon, it will only be a few quid"....

Mrsbloggz · 13/04/2025 14:04

Iamnotalemming · 13/04/2025 14:01

I agree.
I do what I can but have a constant battle with DH who whenever he cant find something in 30 seconds will say "I'll just order another one from amazon, it will only be a few quid"....

That fecking Jeff bezos, hoarding all the wealth while the rest of the world drowns in plastic rubbish shipped out in his name 🤬👎🏻

Topsyturvy78 · 13/04/2025 14:04

Agree I've noticed there's a lot more Easter tat than there used to be. I hate those plastic eggs that most likely won't be used again and can't be recycled. Hate all the mothers day tat.

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 13/04/2025 14:06

Topsyturvy78 · 13/04/2025 14:04

Agree I've noticed there's a lot more Easter tat than there used to be. I hate those plastic eggs that most likely won't be used again and can't be recycled. Hate all the mothers day tat.

Yes, and Autumn decorations too. It's like the retailers have realised we've reached peak Christmas in terms of the annual volume people will buy and so are expanding into other seasons too.

CheekySnake · 13/04/2025 14:07

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 13/04/2025 14:01

There's a lot of truth there, but that's not what the thread is about. It's not (to use one of your examples) about one pair of £40 shoes that are less good quality than the expensive pair, but about the person buying 4 pairs of £10 shoes that are even worse quality.

And people buying seasonal cushion covers, plastic ornaments and pet accessories from B&M are not in "survival mode".

To go further, it's about buying 4 pairs of £10 shoes, of which one pair is worn twice and the others are never worn at all. Then throwing them away because they're cluttering up the wardrobe, and the next season doing it again.

And it's also about the overproduction that keeps this going - as someone else has said, a significant quantity of new clothing is destroyed. There was a story a few years ago about Burberry incinerating leftover stock. This is brand new, unworn, unsold, all perfectly usable, chucked on a bonfire to make room for a new batch of almost identical stuff, a chunk of which is also destined for the bonfire.

TheFatCatsWhiskers1 · 13/04/2025 14:09

Matronic6 · 13/04/2025 13:52

I completely agree. What's even more frustrating is poor recycling awareness, habits or people just not caring. We live in a flat so have shared waste disposal and the level of cross contamination is shocking. People chuck food waste in with recycling or small electrical items just chucked in the rubbish.

I don't think it's more frustrating. A large proportion of what we recycle will end up exported and mismanaged. I'm very much environmentally minded but I don't recycle most plastics because I'd rather they ended up in our landfills than polluting a beach somewhere, poisoning marine life with plastic nanoparticles, or poisoning lungs with toxic fumes.

Anything with batteries shouldn't be put into household waste of course, but electronics recycling is another con. It's another thing that's exported, any valuable parts are stripped and then what's left will be dumped and left to pollute the environment.

What I find hard to get my head around is just how many variations of the same thing there are now. Why are there so many brands of shampoo or makeup for instance, with new companies trying to break into the market constantly? Is it because of the internet? There used to be much less choice which personally I found a lot less stressful.

DelphiniumBlue · 13/04/2025 14:14

We could all do more.
My mum is a war baby, and never throws anything away that might one day be useful. I think she probably takes it a bit too far, but she was able to instil in us the practical skills needed to make do and mend. So making clothes, mending broken items, creating our own birthday and Christmas cards, reusing wrapping paper and ribbons, making decorations and clothes for dress-up days.
My DC always saw making their own halloween outfits as a big part of the fun.

I think schools can help children recognise what they can do that will make a difference, and help change attitudes. My own DC, and their friends, who are now adults, have a very different of view of the world compared to what was acceptable when I was young ( eg not using racist or homophobic vocabulary) and I think that is largely down to ongoing, continuous efforts put in by their schools. Most schools now do teach children about environmental issues and hopefully going forwards the younger generations will be much more aware. My DC already don't buy plastic and will always look for other options. (However that hasn't stopped them buying takeaways in plastic containers, that's our next step!)

The single use plastic bag campaign has worked really well, their use has been reduced by over 80%, I believe. We can do more along these lines. Some places are now introducing rewards for returning empty bottles ( as was standard practice 50 years ago): this is something we could easily do nationally.
We are making improvements, we just need to do it more and for everyone to feel they have a stake in the future.

ChopstickNovice · 13/04/2025 14:14

I do sometimes want a bit of new Easter or Christmas decoration and when I do, I hit the charity shops. Last year 10 baubles for £1! Also a beautiful hardly used musical carousel ornament for £4!

HelloCheekyCat · 13/04/2025 14:14

WithManyTot · 13/04/2025 11:26

The film Wall-E becomes more and more of a "fly on the wall" documentary every day. There is already a shop to "Buy & Large" in the film, it's only 1 letter away from "B&L", I await the building of the Axiom..

WALL-E and the film Idocracy are feeling more prophetic all the time!

lifeonmars100 · 13/04/2025 14:14

Matronic6 · 13/04/2025 13:52

I completely agree. What's even more frustrating is poor recycling awareness, habits or people just not caring. We live in a flat so have shared waste disposal and the level of cross contamination is shocking. People chuck food waste in with recycling or small electrical items just chucked in the rubbish.

Where I live people can't even get their heads around how to use the brown recycling bins, they just shove general waste in them then of course they don't get emptied and sit there out on the pavement forever

FiveWhatByFiveWhat · 13/04/2025 14:15

SnoozingFox · 13/04/2025 11:02

Completely agree. You will get the people on here shortly though saying that unless you are living in a cave eating grass and drinking rainwater you have no right to comment. Which is plainly nonsense but a trite argument they use to justify buying from tat merchants like T8mu and shitty Shein.

I like to think I'm a mindful consumer. Yes I have a phone and my most recent purchase online was a new custom made roman blind. At least 50% of my wardrobe is Vinted or charity shop and that's increasing all the time. The sofa I am sitting on is 22 years old and was restuffed and repaired last year rather than chucked to buy new. We do the whole banning on single use plastic thing.

But there is a growing trend to disposable - changing a roman blind every year rather than every decade, a new outfit for every occasion, buying stuff to celebrate everything from spring to Halloween and adding to that stash every year because most of what you buy is cheaply made and won't last.

I don't think plastic in and of itself is bad, things like Tupperware boxes can be reused for decades, plastic toys like Lego or Playmobile likewise, and can be sold afterwards. It's the poorly-made fast fashion and homeware/celebration utter shite which you find in B&M or Home Bargains or in the aforementioned chinese shite merchants which are the problem.

Yeah I'm with you on this! No one can be "perfect" and I get wanting an occasional "just because" nick nack if it's a theme you love or whatever. But it really is just everywhere.

We try and do a balance. Furniture lasts ages, we only buy tech when things die a death. We never use shein, temu or Primark - we do shop high street shops, mostly Next and Asda/George. We just try to pick a few we fully know are awful and avoid them.

We have one DS and he's ot Playmobil and Lego from when me and DH were kids that is like new and he loves it. He's also had many a Christmas gift from FB marketplace like paw patrol and happy land stuff, that we in turn sold on later on. But saying that he also got some tat from the works just this afternoon 🤦 But like I say, nobody is perfect, it's more about trying to be more mindful where you can. If everyone did that, I think it would make a big difference.

Bryonyberries · 13/04/2025 14:15

Part of the problem is how expensive compared to wages the decent stuff is. If you don’t have much money you may have to buy the cheap version of what you need knowing it’ll break and need replacing within a year but you need it now not in six months when you’ve saved up enough for the good quality one. Then the cycle repeats on all the items you need.