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Most shops are just landfill waiting to happen.

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SummerDaytoNight · 13/04/2025 10:47

I mean, all are to a point, but I’m talking about the non essential ones.

Our society is engineering its own collapse. We only need food, health, house basics and clothing. And I suppose, technology.

Fast fashion could go. Housing should just be the essentials.

My friend took me into a shop called sostrene grene. It was lovely, but nothing was essential. Most shops are like that.

The horse has bolted, but I wish we could limit the unnecessarily stuff and just have the basics. Im not talking Amish level, but there’s no need for all this waste. It would be so much better if only the essentials were produced.

At the point of production, it’s already basically landfill.

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Userxyd · 15/04/2025 05:46

Watched a documentary on Chinese dark factories - utterly depressing. Basically they justify them by saying they lack labour - pah. They’re fully AI automated factories with no human workers so no need to even put the lights on. Producing cheap plastic clothes and crap 24 hours a day. Obviously environmentally damaging. Fashion and a desire for the latest technology/ toys etc is killling us all!

Mickeychampionwhatgoodami · 15/04/2025 07:06

I'd never heard of dark factories before thanks for highlighting.
That truly is the stuff of nightmares.

ForWhomTheBellPepperTolls · 15/04/2025 07:32

I had to drive behind a retail park at the weekend and the amount of packaging awaiting disposal was sickening. It was piles and piles of cardboard and plastic that had absolutely no use any more. This is in addition to the packing still on the items in stock, not to mention the items themselves including many which go unsold and will ultimately end up in a landfill.

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 15/04/2025 07:40

Userxyd · 15/04/2025 05:46

Watched a documentary on Chinese dark factories - utterly depressing. Basically they justify them by saying they lack labour - pah. They’re fully AI automated factories with no human workers so no need to even put the lights on. Producing cheap plastic clothes and crap 24 hours a day. Obviously environmentally damaging. Fashion and a desire for the latest technology/ toys etc is killling us all!

Oh god that is utterly depressing.

Auburngal · 15/04/2025 07:52

ForWhomTheBellPepperTolls · 15/04/2025 07:32

I had to drive behind a retail park at the weekend and the amount of packaging awaiting disposal was sickening. It was piles and piles of cardboard and plastic that had absolutely no use any more. This is in addition to the packing still on the items in stock, not to mention the items themselves including many which go unsold and will ultimately end up in a landfill.

At my last job, when I put out seasonal stuff- most of it was the crap we talking about, made in China.

They have to use the thickest cardboard and a mile of sellotape (which has to be the strongest). Even for something ridiculously light - Halloween cookie cutters! Then some items had bits of cardboard in between each item.

We bailed the cardboard which was recycled into making more cardboard.

FozzieP · 15/04/2025 07:57

Garden centres really get to me - who buys all that needless crap? Tons and tons of it! They go on and on about the ‘cost of living crisis’ and I won’t really believe it until the coffee shops are empty (£4 for a cup of coffee!) and the garden centres aren’t full of what you rightly describe as landfill.

NattyTurtle59 · 15/04/2025 07:59

TiredEyesToday · 13/04/2025 13:02

The trouble with threads like this, is that they’re demonstrative of a lack of understanding about the poverty tax.

If you are poor, you cannot afford to buy a £500 pair of shoes, that you will buy once, and buy well. You probably cannot afford to save up for a £100 pair of shoes. Instead you will buy £40 shoes- because shoes are an item that you need urgently, and you can’t wait the X months to save up for the £100 shoes, or the X years for the £500 shoes. And they will wear out in a years time and you will buy them again and again all your life- and here’s where it becomes a poverty tax- you will spend way fucking more than your rich pal with their £500 shoes will.

Similarly- if you are poor, you will not be able to justify to yourself spending £10 on glass food storage that will last forever, even if you happen to have the cash- as opposed to the £1 plastic food storage in B&M- that probably has a cutesy little emoji face on it or something. You probably wont be able to EVEN IF someone were to sit you down and explain to you the environmental impact, the long term savings, the fact that you may save more money in saved food in the long term etc. why? Because you are in survival mode. Survival is immediate. You cannot look ahead to 20 years down the line. You probably can’t imagine next week.

you can apply this to mattresses, toys, shoes, coats, sofas, whatever you want.

So many people on MN can’t fathom just how great a % of this country are now in “survival mode”. And what that does to your “choices” such as they are. And why, frankly, you don’t give a flying fuck about the planet, when your immediate existence is so fraught.

I used to work in the shop at our local recycling centre. There was masses of really good stuff, all going very, very, cheap. There is no reason why people who don't have much money can't buy from places like that. I have very little new furniture in my flat, I bought second hand, good quality, stuff and have no intention of replacing it - and it won't need replacing in my lifetime.

There is also plenty of good stuff on FB marketplace, and we have a local FB page where people give goods away.

EasternStandard · 15/04/2025 08:25

Userxyd · 15/04/2025 05:46

Watched a documentary on Chinese dark factories - utterly depressing. Basically they justify them by saying they lack labour - pah. They’re fully AI automated factories with no human workers so no need to even put the lights on. Producing cheap plastic clothes and crap 24 hours a day. Obviously environmentally damaging. Fashion and a desire for the latest technology/ toys etc is killling us all!

That is extreme. Would people take higher prices to avoid relying on these?

Letskeepcalm · 15/04/2025 08:26

AquaPeer · 14/04/2025 20:00

Do you really know people who buy plastic tat and post pictures of it “for the likes”?

This is another thing I can’t relate to, I can’t think of anyone who would spunk £100 on Easter decorations to get a few likes on FB. Neither do I know anyone impressed enough to see a “like” as anything more meaningful than a momentary show of support and liking. Unless you have thousands of followers - and even then only on some forums- likes give no financial return.

presumably you’re saying they want likes for self esteem and attention but I find it hard to believe that many people have friends who are so fragile and lacking in self confidence.

Well I was thinking more along the lines of clothes I suppose. I think social media drives/encourages SOME people to buy stuff more because they are posing/ showing off.

Blinkyy · 15/04/2025 09:13

The cardboard was once trees - don’t know where they get it all from

Langdale3 · 15/04/2025 09:29

DoItLikeAWoman · 14/04/2025 23:51

its so depressing, I can’t bear to think about it. I walk into shops - buy nothing as I see it as a burden to pay for, own, store only to eventually then dispose - but then I remember that regardless of whether or not I do it, someone is going to! We are doomed..

Judging by the majority of positive responses on this thread, we aren’t doomed, thankfully. 😅

YouLookNiceJackie · 15/04/2025 09:29

@MistressoftheDarkSide I know where you’re coming from with the collecting of peoples things that are no longer here. I have only ended up with a few practical things of my Dads but my Grandmother passed away earlier this year and I was struggling to let go of some of her things. I think it’s because it’s from a generation that’s dying out - there’s letters/telegrams my grandad sent to her during the war. I have managed to let go of a chunk of things and keep telling myself they aren’t my memories to hold on to.
I’m sorry for your loss of DP

AquaPeer · 15/04/2025 09:30

Letskeepcalm · 15/04/2025 08:26

Well I was thinking more along the lines of clothes I suppose. I think social media drives/encourages SOME people to buy stuff more because they are posing/ showing off.

it sort of sounds more like something people think happens more than something that really does

Langdale3 · 15/04/2025 09:31

Userxyd · 15/04/2025 05:46

Watched a documentary on Chinese dark factories - utterly depressing. Basically they justify them by saying they lack labour - pah. They’re fully AI automated factories with no human workers so no need to even put the lights on. Producing cheap plastic clothes and crap 24 hours a day. Obviously environmentally damaging. Fashion and a desire for the latest technology/ toys etc is killling us all!

Sounds interesting - can you remember what the documentary was called or which channel it was on? Thanks 🙏🏼

Langdale3 · 15/04/2025 09:39

EasternStandard · 15/04/2025 08:25

That is extreme. Would people take higher prices to avoid relying on these?

In some respects I don’t have a problem with a fully automated factory. The quality and usefulness of what factories produce is key. If you’ve ever worked in a factory, they can be noisy, dangerous workplaces, and some of the tasks can be mind numbingly repetitive. Humans are better and more safely deployed in creative and caring roles.

If the population are to move away from buying cheap tat and buy fewer, quality items that will last, how we transition as a society is important, as this kind of economy will be different. More of us will be employed in repair services, for example.

Dandeliontea123 · 15/04/2025 10:03

Try going on eBay. 1 million dresses for sale (UK). 250,000 of these dresses are polyester. What is going to happen to all these dresses?

EasternStandard · 15/04/2025 10:11

Langdale3 · 15/04/2025 09:39

In some respects I don’t have a problem with a fully automated factory. The quality and usefulness of what factories produce is key. If you’ve ever worked in a factory, they can be noisy, dangerous workplaces, and some of the tasks can be mind numbingly repetitive. Humans are better and more safely deployed in creative and caring roles.

If the population are to move away from buying cheap tat and buy fewer, quality items that will last, how we transition as a society is important, as this kind of economy will be different. More of us will be employed in repair services, for example.

Yes it sounds full on but could actually work. I would suggest if we do go down that path it’s better to have the capability to produce better items and not rely on China etc for the cheapest stuff.

Given the whole tariff furore I’m not sure people do want this when it comes down to pricing.

Maybe the US can do it in a way smaller countries would find more difficult.

Needmorelego · 15/04/2025 10:21

Dandeliontea123 · 15/04/2025 10:03

Try going on eBay. 1 million dresses for sale (UK). 250,000 of these dresses are polyester. What is going to happen to all these dresses?

Can polyester be recycled?
Surely the material could be made into a different item of clothing.

Letskeepcalm · 15/04/2025 10:24

AquaPeer · 15/04/2025 09:30

it sort of sounds more like something people think happens more than something that really does

Let's hope

Badbadbunny · 15/04/2025 10:25

Needmorelego · 15/04/2025 10:21

Can polyester be recycled?
Surely the material could be made into a different item of clothing.

Most things "can" be recycled, but there are financial costs and environmental damage in the transportation, energy/resources required, etc. Recycling takes a lot of energy and water, and there's a lot of diesel used ferrying the stuff around. Huge amounts that "could" be recycled are still dumped into landfill because of the costs and resources needed make it unviable to recycle.

Far better to use less in the first place rather than virtue signalling by recycling.

Reduce and re-use first, then recycle less.

SummerDaytoNight · 15/04/2025 10:35

Langdale3 · 15/04/2025 09:29

Judging by the majority of positive responses on this thread, we aren’t doomed, thankfully. 😅

We are because despite many people not buying, businesses are still producing. That’s what’s so scary.

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CheekySnake · 15/04/2025 10:38

Yes some plastics can be recycled, but in order to make recycled plastic, you need new/virgin plastic to begin with, and we need to stop making new plastic. Making coke bottles into M&S jumpers is basically greenwashing.

EasternStandard · 15/04/2025 10:52

SummerDaytoNight · 15/04/2025 10:35

We are because despite many people not buying, businesses are still producing. That’s what’s so scary.

China will find a new market if the US declines their goods or buys less. We will need to not be flooded with them for a start.

BurntBroccoli · 15/04/2025 11:02

greeenscreeen · 13/04/2025 18:21

I absolutely HATE it. All the Easter crap absolutely everywhere. Ten years ago it wasn't even a thing. But I understand why parents feel obliged to get half of it. Keeping up with the Jones' and all that. Feeling their children will be the only ones without the massive haul of plastic shit. I refuse to participate, but it's easy when mine is only a toddler. I have no intention of bowing to peer pressure, but I should imagine it will become more difficult as my DC gets older, especially around Christmas.

It’s awful isn’t it and it’s grown hugely with the advent of social media. As is the truly wasteful fad of redecorating every 2 years, even new kitchens and bathrooms after only a few years. Again, this is probably due to marketing and influencers on social media as we now see inside people’s homes more and people want to post about their new whatever.

If I buy anything new it has to be useful and will last a lot of years.

I walk around my village regularly and on bin collection day I see houses with non recyclable bins overflowing. Not sure why as we have 3 other bins for specific things. We have barely 2 bags of rubbish over 2 weeks.

BurntBroccoli · 15/04/2025 11:09

NattyTurtle59 · 15/04/2025 07:59

I used to work in the shop at our local recycling centre. There was masses of really good stuff, all going very, very, cheap. There is no reason why people who don't have much money can't buy from places like that. I have very little new furniture in my flat, I bought second hand, good quality, stuff and have no intention of replacing it - and it won't need replacing in my lifetime.

There is also plenty of good stuff on FB marketplace, and we have a local FB page where people give goods away.

That is really good idea about a shop at a recycling centre.
I might email our council to ask where all the stuff goes.

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