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Most shops are just landfill waiting to happen.

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SummerDaytoNight · 13/04/2025 10:47

I mean, all are to a point, but I’m talking about the non essential ones.

Our society is engineering its own collapse. We only need food, health, house basics and clothing. And I suppose, technology.

Fast fashion could go. Housing should just be the essentials.

My friend took me into a shop called sostrene grene. It was lovely, but nothing was essential. Most shops are like that.

The horse has bolted, but I wish we could limit the unnecessarily stuff and just have the basics. Im not talking Amish level, but there’s no need for all this waste. It would be so much better if only the essentials were produced.

At the point of production, it’s already basically landfill.

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Gatekeeper · 13/04/2025 17:03

GloriaHeart · 13/04/2025 12:25

If I opened a shop called:

’Rat A Tat Tat’

which was full of ‘tat’ from every season imaginable - so bat masks for Halloween, ‘baby I’m a Firework’ T shirts to celebrate bonfire night, big plastic Santas.

but this shop would essentially be a parody of the concept of tat currently produced for every season - and that would be the appeal.

If I opened on your local high street - do you think my shop would be a commercial success based on the novelty value?

@GloriaHeart

in the 1970's series The Fall and Rise of Reggie Perrin- Reggie (Leonard Rossiter) opens up a shop selling all kinds of shite called "Grot" but to his dismay it proves wildly successful!

Katypp · 13/04/2025 17:03

Navigo · 13/04/2025 15:22

Agree. I think there is often some inverted snobbery around this issue.

I have the time and money to make ‘good’ choices. Many others don’t.

Agree with this. Page after page of virtue signalling, all coming from a place of having the privilege to afford choices.
How MN posters love looking down their noses at those who shop in B&M and HB, and if it can be incorporated with performance environmental concern, so much better.
'Plastic tat', 'seasonal tat' over and over again.
Such rampant snobbery.

Lourdes12 · 13/04/2025 17:03

Coali · 13/04/2025 10:57

I’m lucky that I can afford to buy good quality items that last. Many aren’t and people need an alternative. I’ve actually been pleasantly surprised by some supermarket clothes.

I do think it's cheaper to buy good quality items as they last so much longer

SlightlyJaded · 13/04/2025 17:05

Agree. Especially regarding the seasonal stuff. I often go to our local TK Maxx for nice hand soap. Their 'homeware' section always has literally tons of seasonal shite in it. Who the fuck wants a Halloween Doormat? Are people switching mats with the seasons? Or an Easter Egg Mirror? At the moment they have a full pink and white china plates/mugs/bowls/jug set covered in easter bunnies. FOR WHAT? FOR WHEN? Easter Sunday?

And the reduced for quick sale is loads of unsold Valentine shite. Dog bows with love hearts/toothbrush holders with 'Be Mine' stamped on them, Happy Valentine's Day duvet set. What? WHAT?

Utterly soul destroying.

ThisFluentBiscuit · 13/04/2025 17:07

polkaloca · 13/04/2025 16:48

There is just so much stuff everywhere

Hundred of toiletries, make up products, cleaning products. health supplements, clothes & then food, so much choice in supermarkets & constant newness.

Yeah, but you know WHY there's so much stuff everywhere? It's because people keep having multiple babies! There's a lot of stuff but there are a lot of people to buy that stuff, which is why there's so much stuff....and so on.

Everyone wants to save the planet but no one wants to give up having cars, children, or holidays!

FlourandFlowers · 13/04/2025 17:07

Lourdes12 · 13/04/2025 17:03

I do think it's cheaper to buy good quality items as they last so much longer

I absolutely agree.

But this is only feasible (as mentioned earlier in the thread) if you have the capital to buy the good, quality items in the first place.

Isittimeformynapyet · 13/04/2025 17:09

Acinonyx2 · 13/04/2025 15:20

I had no idea people really bought new Xmas decorations ever year. Is that really a thing? I don't think I know anyone who does that. We usually buy one new decoration for the tree when we get the tree.

Sadly I know two people who do. Neither of them in my circle of friends. One was an ex-colleague who I knew I didn't like years before she (very defensively) told me she spends about £200 every year on entirely new decorations. She's not rich.

I said I thought that was a waste of money - she disagreed.

SnoozingFox · 13/04/2025 17:09

Katypp · 13/04/2025 17:03

Agree with this. Page after page of virtue signalling, all coming from a place of having the privilege to afford choices.
How MN posters love looking down their noses at those who shop in B&M and HB, and if it can be incorporated with performance environmental concern, so much better.
'Plastic tat', 'seasonal tat' over and over again.
Such rampant snobbery.

Telling people to spend less money is virtue-signalling? OK then. Or to keep their clothes until they are falling apart rather than replacing every 5 minutes?

Changing your decor every year or filling your home with plastic tat bought for every "celebration" is EXPENSIVE! It is a CHOICE to buy all this nonsense. You cannot simultaneously complain about cost of living and buy those plastic dancing santa ornaments and seasonal bedding.

ThisFluentBiscuit · 13/04/2025 17:09

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 13/04/2025 16:44

ChatGPT is terrible for the environment too

Is it? I didn't know that - not that I've ever used it. Isn't it just a web thing? How's it bad for the environment?

PriOn1 · 13/04/2025 17:09

minipie · 13/04/2025 10:57

Completely agree about the seasonal stuff and most decorative items. Plastic plants are especially sad.

I also get depressed by collectibles like jellycats or squishmallows … what are they FOR?? Future landfill for sure.

Then there’s all the stuff that is useful but has a really short shelf life. Built to a cheap price point and not intended to last. Electronic items like automatic pet feeder or headphones that last a year or two before breaking or mysteriously dying. I’d happily pay extra for a phone charging cable that lasts 5+ years but it doesn’t seem to exist.

I bought myself some plastic plants back in 2019, when I left my husband. I got them to cheer up the very bare flat I’d moves into and I still have them.

I later had them scattered around a house I was selling (and added some larger fake plants I borrowed from my office) and they functioned well in breaking up areas that looked a bit empty. Obviously they weren’t the only thing that sold the house, but it definitely looked better with them than without.

I could have had (and indeed did have) some real plants, but I moved country and they had to stay behind, while I still have the plastic ones. I’m fairly rubbish with real plants, so plastic plants serve me well. I’m not sure why you would single those out as particularly bad.

Katypp · 13/04/2025 17:10

SnoozingFox · 13/04/2025 17:09

Telling people to spend less money is virtue-signalling? OK then. Or to keep their clothes until they are falling apart rather than replacing every 5 minutes?

Changing your decor every year or filling your home with plastic tat bought for every "celebration" is EXPENSIVE! It is a CHOICE to buy all this nonsense. You cannot simultaneously complain about cost of living and buy those plastic dancing santa ornaments and seasonal bedding.

I don't.
But I don't look down my nose at people who do, unlike most pps on this thread.

AreMyEyesGreen · 13/04/2025 17:11

We certainly didn't have much spare cash - that's why we cared for & reused our stuff- including the poundshop decorations.

And I'm sorry, I simply don't believe that the majority of people buying seasonal stuff & redecorating annually are doing so because it all needs to be replaced!

they're doing it because it's a trend they see on SM & because they don't think critically about it & for a host of other reasons - not because they're so poor they buy in b&m and that means it disintegrated (because that's simply not true)

Stop making excuses for all the people who want the latest mirrored side tables & crushed velvet furniture to replace last seasons black leatherette because it's 'trendy' to them.

Superhansrantowindsor · 13/04/2025 17:11

Charity shops depress me so much. I like to buy what I can second hand but every charity shop has shelf after shelf of utter shite that nobody wants. An ornamental kitten holding a love heart saying ‘nan’. A massive canvas of some random skyline all faded at the edges. A ‘live, laugh, love ‘ cushion in some god awful fabric. You get the idea.
I don’t have a problem with seasonal stuff if reused. My Christmas decorations are put away and reused. Every year I add a few new bits but considering I also use my grandmas ornaments from the 70’s I don’t think that’s so bad.

ThisFluentBiscuit · 13/04/2025 17:12

SlightlyJaded · 13/04/2025 17:05

Agree. Especially regarding the seasonal stuff. I often go to our local TK Maxx for nice hand soap. Their 'homeware' section always has literally tons of seasonal shite in it. Who the fuck wants a Halloween Doormat? Are people switching mats with the seasons? Or an Easter Egg Mirror? At the moment they have a full pink and white china plates/mugs/bowls/jug set covered in easter bunnies. FOR WHAT? FOR WHEN? Easter Sunday?

And the reduced for quick sale is loads of unsold Valentine shite. Dog bows with love hearts/toothbrush holders with 'Be Mine' stamped on them, Happy Valentine's Day duvet set. What? WHAT?

Utterly soul destroying.

That's definitely a bit much! I decorate for Christmas, and I do have a small number of Halloween tings like a clay pumpkin lantern that you put a candle in, but I wouldn't decorate for Easter or V Day too!

babyproblems · 13/04/2025 17:12

I agree with you @SummerDaytoNight

The seasonal stuff should go - things should be more expensive. I was in one of these shops last week and they had kids playsets that were 99p. I couldn’t believe how it could be only 99p!! It had come from china. Surely even the shipping would cost more per item let alone the manufacture. All plastic tat.
I think there is a place for fashion but agree it should all be more expensive and made to last. The lifetime of white goods also infuriates me- it’s getting less and less!

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 13/04/2025 17:12

Isittimeformynapyet · 13/04/2025 16:32

Oh I totally agree!

I only meant I also have "eclectic" taste and scour second hand/vintage places for anything I need to get a unique-ish piece. The rest of that post I disagreed with completely, iirc.

Oh sorry! Yes I agree with that bit too!

BeyondMyWits · 13/04/2025 17:12

SlightlyJaded · 13/04/2025 17:05

Agree. Especially regarding the seasonal stuff. I often go to our local TK Maxx for nice hand soap. Their 'homeware' section always has literally tons of seasonal shite in it. Who the fuck wants a Halloween Doormat? Are people switching mats with the seasons? Or an Easter Egg Mirror? At the moment they have a full pink and white china plates/mugs/bowls/jug set covered in easter bunnies. FOR WHAT? FOR WHEN? Easter Sunday?

And the reduced for quick sale is loads of unsold Valentine shite. Dog bows with love hearts/toothbrush holders with 'Be Mine' stamped on them, Happy Valentine's Day duvet set. What? WHAT?

Utterly soul destroying.

I buy soap from tk maxx too.

I like the shop's concept of selling off good stuff cheap(ish). Got my good quality frying pan for 60% off because it was no longer a fashionable colour. I think it might be back in vogue again (sage green), or maybe back in and then back out again... its a pan, lives in a cupboard, who cares...

Superhansrantowindsor · 13/04/2025 17:13

ThisFluentBiscuit · 13/04/2025 17:09

Is it? I didn't know that - not that I've ever used it. Isn't it just a web thing? How's it bad for the environment?

It’s really bad. The electricity it uses. BBC had a very good article on their news site about it yesterday.

Superhansrantowindsor · 13/04/2025 17:15

Didn’t clothes shops in the past change their lines once every 16 weeks and now it’s every 4 or something like that.

Blinkyy · 13/04/2025 17:15

We’ll be getting lots more Chinese made tat now thanks to Trump’s tariffs

Pictue · 13/04/2025 17:17

Yep! I was thinking the same when I was shopping recently, thinking this is all just tat hat will get binned.

I wish we could go back to the times where items were mostly manufactured in their country of origin and lasted.

We are using cutlery that my parents bought in the 1960s, toys from the 1970's and 80's. The Fisher Price toys that are still as solid as the day they were bought new.

I still use the can opener, saucepans and plates I bought 30 years ago for my first year of uni.

I only ever recall my parents having the same fridge freezer up until about 10 years ago. An Electrolux one. It lasted for at least 25 years.

KateShugakIsALegend · 13/04/2025 17:18

EvelynBeatrice · 13/04/2025 12:42

Art and music, theatres, cinemas, concert halls, sports arenas and equipment, mobile phones, tv are unnecessary too. Likewise toys, holiday travel, confectionery and alcohol. Numerous foodstuffs are unnecessary. A nutritionist could devise a healthy plant and insect based diet.

Good luck with that. A miserable animal existence.

Whataboutery.

I think you may (deliberately?) be missing the point here.

ThisFluentBiscuit · 13/04/2025 17:18

@samarrange Gold is a soft metal and you could boil water for a year without a single atom reacting with anything in the pan, because gold hardly reacts with anything, and certainly not any substances that you would find in an average kitchen.

Solid gold cookware it is, then! I would love that!!! 🤣

Isittimeformynapyet · 13/04/2025 17:19

Navigo · 13/04/2025 15:22

Agree. I think there is often some inverted snobbery around this issue.

I have the time and money to make ‘good’ choices. Many others don’t.

The point is, people don't need to buy all the things at all, not that they should buy the shit at a higher price! Nice to know you're all "down with the peasants" though, while I'm a snob for not buying things 🙄

LillyPJ · 13/04/2025 17:20

I agree, but unfortunately it seems we need to have growth and for that, we need to be encouraged to spend, spend, spend. I don't understand why growth is so desirable but I'm not an economics expert. Personally, I think some things are more important than having money and making profits.

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