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To think there is a poor understanding of a healthy diet?

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LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 21:17

I think most people think they know what a healthy diet looks like, but in reality they do not. I see so many comments on MN that demonstrate this.

The most common one is that fruit should be limited because of its sugar content. This is very bad advice. Sugar in fruit has little impact on our blood sugar levels. And most people in the UK do not eat enough fruit.

The other is concern over eating any carbs. Wholemeal bread and pasta is fine, carbs in pastry and doughnuts is not great though.

And most people need to eat more nuts. Nuts are very good for you and should be part of your regular diet.

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MementoMountain · 12/04/2025 22:04

I dunno, it sounds nice and I love all of those -- but I have to go very easy on the fibre, for reasons best left unspoken, so couldn't eat it in one day.

Odras · 12/04/2025 22:05

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 21:55

Breakfast - porridge with blueberries and flaxseed added
Vegetable and red lentil soup with sourdough bread
Chickpea and spinach curry with wholemeal rice
Fruit and nuts for snacks.

That is very healthy. I’d happily eat it too. But unfortunately my kids would not. Although I do sneak a lot of lentils into our cottage pie/bolognaise type meals.

Eachpeachpearprune · 12/04/2025 22:07

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 21:55

Breakfast - porridge with blueberries and flaxseed added
Vegetable and red lentil soup with sourdough bread
Chickpea and spinach curry with wholemeal rice
Fruit and nuts for snacks.

Personally, I’d swap the oats for full fat Greek yoghurt or eggs. I’m trying to reduce my carbs and eat more healthy full fat options.

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 22:08

Regular consumption of oats is shown to reduce cholesterol.

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jewelcase · 12/04/2025 22:17

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 21:24

That is people with a new diet to sell. The research is clear. Every day a portion of berries, nuts, flaxseed or chia seeds, three portions of fruit minimum, three minimum of veg, three of pulses.

Apart from anything else this just strikes me as a lot of food. Minimum of three fruit portions, three veg portions and three pulse portions? I only have three meals a day!

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 22:18

Those foods are all low calorie

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IReallyLoveItHere · 12/04/2025 22:19

This is my blood sugar after a small bowl of unsweetened whole oat porridge with about 5 blueberries and some seeds.

Highly recommended a cgm to everyone, immediate feedback really changes your choices.

To think there is a poor understanding of a healthy diet?
IReallyLoveItHere · 12/04/2025 22:20

Also note the huge crash afterwards I to the red 'too low' range. I was out and felt faint and sick. Never again.

doreeen · 12/04/2025 22:21

I admit I find it very, very confusing. I hear contradicting and conflicting things all the time, everyone seems to have very different ideas about what the ideal or healthy diet is including experts. So you can’t really blame people for not really knowing.

LillyPJ · 12/04/2025 22:23

You seem to have very rigid ideas about what people should and shouldn't eat. I think it would be perfectly possible to have a very healthy diet without adhering to your rules.

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 22:23

A very short spike in blood sugar is fine.

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Newgirls · 12/04/2025 22:24

I agree we should eat more pulses

more veg than fruit is ideal

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 22:24

LillyPJ · 12/04/2025 22:23

You seem to have very rigid ideas about what people should and shouldn't eat. I think it would be perfectly possible to have a very healthy diet without adhering to your rules.

What would you recommend as a healthy daily diet?

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Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 12/04/2025 22:24

Eachpeachpearprune · 12/04/2025 21:51

Agree with the bread. Most supermarket bread is full of crap (including the wholemeal).

How so? What is that's in it that's a problem?

LillyPJ · 12/04/2025 22:25

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 21:24

That is people with a new diet to sell. The research is clear. Every day a portion of berries, nuts, flaxseed or chia seeds, three portions of fruit minimum, three minimum of veg, three of pulses.

So how did we managed when we'd never even heard of chia seeds or flaxseeds etc? They are not even available everywhere in the world and yet people somehow survive very well without them!

TicklishAquaShark · 12/04/2025 22:26

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 21:24

That is people with a new diet to sell. The research is clear. Every day a portion of berries, nuts, flaxseed or chia seeds, three portions of fruit minimum, three minimum of veg, three of pulses.

its not affordable

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 22:26

LillyPJ · 12/04/2025 22:25

So how did we managed when we'd never even heard of chia seeds or flaxseeds etc? They are not even available everywhere in the world and yet people somehow survive very well without them!

This is about your ideal healthy diet. Not just surviving. And flaxseed is from a tough grass that grows wild in many places.

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LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 22:28

TicklishAquaShark · 12/04/2025 22:26

its not affordable

Just do as much as you can. I do not always eat healthy every day, but I do try to. I buy from ALDI

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MementoMountain · 12/04/2025 22:31

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 22:26

This is about your ideal healthy diet. Not just surviving. And flaxseed is from a tough grass that grows wild in many places.

Eh? Flaxseed is from flax, surely.

Blue thing. Has flowers.

MissyB1 · 12/04/2025 22:33

Slackbladder22 · 12/04/2025 22:02

Good lord I’d rather die young than eat that every day

Why? What do you eat?

TicklishAquaShark · 12/04/2025 22:33

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 22:28

Just do as much as you can. I do not always eat healthy every day, but I do try to. I buy from ALDI

No I've not explained properly. I do eat healthily, i eat fruit and veg and meat. My dinner is usually some potatos, beef or fish and brocolli or something like that. but you were asking why people dont eat the way you describe and its because healthy food such as nuts seeds and berries are very expensive. It's a fiver for some blueberries here. other berries are not much different in price. Can you imagine the cost if families had to eat that way everyday, they wouldnt be able to pay their rent.

MissyB1 · 12/04/2025 22:35

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 22:28

Just do as much as you can. I do not always eat healthy every day, but I do try to. I buy from ALDI

Me too. I eat lots of oats, fresh fruit and veg, fish, pulses, seeds and nuts. Do my big weekly shop at Aldi.

maddening · 12/04/2025 22:35

I do think you should caveat your advice though - not all bodies work the same.

Superhansrantowindsor · 12/04/2025 22:36

Semiramide · 12/04/2025 22:01

@Sunny91 - I would try to keep it simple. Cut out UPF and limit refined carbs, sugar, alcohol.

Eat mostly vegetables and around 120g lean protein per day, plus some fruit, dairy, nuts and healthy oils, as well as small amounts of complex carbs (such as lentils and root vegetables.

If in doubt, eat more veggies and/or another apple!

This proves I know nothing about being healthy. Ask me to name a protein….Id struggle. What does 120g of protein look like? Should I weigh it or go by sight? What is the difference between a complex carb and a regular carb? Refined carbs? And the op mentioned seeds that I wouldn’t know where to buy or what to do. I am overweight and know I need to do better but it is bewildering. Even this thread people are disagreeing about fruit. For people like me it just seems too complicated so we stick with what we know even though it’s bad. I’m going to keep a watch on this thread for more information.

PickAChew · 12/04/2025 22:37

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 22:18

Those foods are all low calorie

Fair enough but we also need to consume sufficient calories.

I love lentil soup. I love a chickpea curry. Most fruit gives me the shits and I'm gluten (and, I am now realising, avenin) intolerant so your daily diet would leave me ill and malnourished.

Do you take a B12 supplement?

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