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To think there is a poor understanding of a healthy diet?

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LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 21:17

I think most people think they know what a healthy diet looks like, but in reality they do not. I see so many comments on MN that demonstrate this.

The most common one is that fruit should be limited because of its sugar content. This is very bad advice. Sugar in fruit has little impact on our blood sugar levels. And most people in the UK do not eat enough fruit.

The other is concern over eating any carbs. Wholemeal bread and pasta is fine, carbs in pastry and doughnuts is not great though.

And most people need to eat more nuts. Nuts are very good for you and should be part of your regular diet.

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marketday · 13/04/2025 11:29

Ok I'll bite seeing as I've been reading this thread with mounting frustration. You are not correct to stipulate what is a healthy diet so narrowly OP and then counter other posters' thoughts on fruit consumption with advice from Diabetes UK.

I was vegetarian for many years and still developed type 2 diabetes. If I'd followed Diabetes UK's advice I would have been screwed. Instead I did a lot of research and realised a low carb diet was the answer - and it was - I reversed my diabetes in just 3 months. If I had eaten 3 portions of fruit and pulses and kept on with wholemeal bread I would not have achieved this. How do I know? I tested my blood sugar very frequently - lentil soup spiked it - non-starchy vegetables did not. And what didn't raise it all? Health natural sources of protein such as eggs, fish, chicken and meat.

My vegetarian diet was very healthy (in my eyes) but obviously still too high in starch and sugar (bread and fruit and pulses) for my body. Diabetes can have a genetic component too - so you are not right to say your idea of a healthy diet is the 'best'. Not one diet fits all. Some people may thrive on what you stipulate, but some may not, like me.

You are being too prescriptive in what you say.

OriginalUsername2 · 13/04/2025 11:45

JoyousEagle · 13/04/2025 06:40

I agree with some of the critiques of OP’s advice, but tbf I dont think the fact that you’re allergic/intolerant to certain foods means that they aren’t healthy. It should go without saying that when someone says “X is good for you” they don’t mean literally everyone in the world should eat it and they’ll all be fine, so I don’t think OP (or anyone) should have to caveat every comment about food with a disclaimer of “obviously not if you’re allergic.”
Nuts are good for you. But they’ll also kill my DH. That doesn’t mean that generally speaking, nuts aren’t good for you.

I’m not allergic, I have an autoimmune disorder.

I stand by my point. You can’t decide you have the right answers about healthy food and then say “oh not everyone”. The answer is then, “It depends”.

Jacarandill · 13/04/2025 11:47

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 21:55

Breakfast - porridge with blueberries and flaxseed added
Vegetable and red lentil soup with sourdough bread
Chickpea and spinach curry with wholemeal rice
Fruit and nuts for snacks.

If I ate this:

  • the oats would spike my blood sugar
  • the pulses would give me gas
  • all the carbs and lack of protein wouldn’t keep me full

So healthy for you isn’t what suits everyone.

For me:

Breakfast: three scrambled eggs with mushrooms and tomatoes
Lunch: a chicken breast with rocket, peppers, sweet potato and other veg
Dinner: steak with spinach, pine nuts, broccoli and roasted aubergine

Jacarandill · 13/04/2025 11:48

marketday · 13/04/2025 11:29

Ok I'll bite seeing as I've been reading this thread with mounting frustration. You are not correct to stipulate what is a healthy diet so narrowly OP and then counter other posters' thoughts on fruit consumption with advice from Diabetes UK.

I was vegetarian for many years and still developed type 2 diabetes. If I'd followed Diabetes UK's advice I would have been screwed. Instead I did a lot of research and realised a low carb diet was the answer - and it was - I reversed my diabetes in just 3 months. If I had eaten 3 portions of fruit and pulses and kept on with wholemeal bread I would not have achieved this. How do I know? I tested my blood sugar very frequently - lentil soup spiked it - non-starchy vegetables did not. And what didn't raise it all? Health natural sources of protein such as eggs, fish, chicken and meat.

My vegetarian diet was very healthy (in my eyes) but obviously still too high in starch and sugar (bread and fruit and pulses) for my body. Diabetes can have a genetic component too - so you are not right to say your idea of a healthy diet is the 'best'. Not one diet fits all. Some people may thrive on what you stipulate, but some may not, like me.

You are being too prescriptive in what you say.

A friend of mine is type 1 diabetic and her doctor told her she was eating far too much fruit.

Jacarandill · 13/04/2025 11:49

ManchesterLu · 13/04/2025 09:47

It's not complicated to lose weight. Calories in v calories out.

That's ALL that matters in the vast majority of cases when the sole intention is to lose weight.

🤪🤪🤪

Jacarandill · 13/04/2025 12:07

LivelyLemonQuoter · 13/04/2025 01:17

Whose recommendation? Because it is not what WHO or the UK government say.

Do you always just do exactly what the government tells you to do?

Not that long ago they were recommending margarine…

picturethispatsy · 13/04/2025 12:11

Jacarandill · 13/04/2025 11:47

If I ate this:

  • the oats would spike my blood sugar
  • the pulses would give me gas
  • all the carbs and lack of protein wouldn’t keep me full

So healthy for you isn’t what suits everyone.

For me:

Breakfast: three scrambled eggs with mushrooms and tomatoes
Lunch: a chicken breast with rocket, peppers, sweet potato and other veg
Dinner: steak with spinach, pine nuts, broccoli and roasted aubergine

Agree with this. I’d wither away on that.

That carb/pulse heavy meal plan would be terrible for my body. My body thrives on animal protein with vegetables, fruits, good fats and some carbs. I do lots of exercise and move a lot in daily life and I’m very slim so need the extra energy you get from this kind of food. It also just makes me feel good 😊

HeronTwist · 13/04/2025 12:19

marketday · 13/04/2025 11:29

Ok I'll bite seeing as I've been reading this thread with mounting frustration. You are not correct to stipulate what is a healthy diet so narrowly OP and then counter other posters' thoughts on fruit consumption with advice from Diabetes UK.

I was vegetarian for many years and still developed type 2 diabetes. If I'd followed Diabetes UK's advice I would have been screwed. Instead I did a lot of research and realised a low carb diet was the answer - and it was - I reversed my diabetes in just 3 months. If I had eaten 3 portions of fruit and pulses and kept on with wholemeal bread I would not have achieved this. How do I know? I tested my blood sugar very frequently - lentil soup spiked it - non-starchy vegetables did not. And what didn't raise it all? Health natural sources of protein such as eggs, fish, chicken and meat.

My vegetarian diet was very healthy (in my eyes) but obviously still too high in starch and sugar (bread and fruit and pulses) for my body. Diabetes can have a genetic component too - so you are not right to say your idea of a healthy diet is the 'best'. Not one diet fits all. Some people may thrive on what you stipulate, but some may not, like me.

You are being too prescriptive in what you say.

I agree that If you are type 2 diabetic, restricting all carbs is definitely one way to reduce your blood glucose levels and possibly help to reverse your diabetes. Can I ask if you also lost weight when following this diet?
The thing is, it’s mainly the reduction in abdominal fat that reverses the t2dm itself. What you eat day to day does not have as much of an impact on insulin resistance (ie the cause of the diabetes).
there are many ways to improve your glucose control and reduce your insulin resistance. The way you did it obviously worked very well for you. But I would just point out that it is not a blueprint for a healthy diet for everyone. Fruit is not the enemy (for most people).
I am a diabetes specialist, and I would bet my life that for every 100 patients who want to keep directing the conversation about diet back to fruit, there might be one or two for whom the amount or type of fruit they’re eating is problematic, to the point where reducing it would impact on their glucose control.
Diet advice on Diabetes UK has to be directed at the masses. If all type 2 diabetics followed their advice to the letter, the vast majority of them would see a significant improvement in their glucose control. It’a not advice to reverse your diabetes (which isn’t possible all t2dms).
What you did was difficult, and very commendable. You have achieved something that is just not possible for most people out there living with t2 diabetes.

APocketFullOfRye · 13/04/2025 12:22

DelphineFox · 13/04/2025 09:16

Who is obsessing about everything that goes into their mouth? I like cake and donuts

Anyone on here that might be obsessing.
Or anyone that isn’t on here as well in fact

marketday · 13/04/2025 12:45

HeronTwist · 13/04/2025 12:19

I agree that If you are type 2 diabetic, restricting all carbs is definitely one way to reduce your blood glucose levels and possibly help to reverse your diabetes. Can I ask if you also lost weight when following this diet?
The thing is, it’s mainly the reduction in abdominal fat that reverses the t2dm itself. What you eat day to day does not have as much of an impact on insulin resistance (ie the cause of the diabetes).
there are many ways to improve your glucose control and reduce your insulin resistance. The way you did it obviously worked very well for you. But I would just point out that it is not a blueprint for a healthy diet for everyone. Fruit is not the enemy (for most people).
I am a diabetes specialist, and I would bet my life that for every 100 patients who want to keep directing the conversation about diet back to fruit, there might be one or two for whom the amount or type of fruit they’re eating is problematic, to the point where reducing it would impact on their glucose control.
Diet advice on Diabetes UK has to be directed at the masses. If all type 2 diabetics followed their advice to the letter, the vast majority of them would see a significant improvement in their glucose control. It’a not advice to reverse your diabetes (which isn’t possible all t2dms).
What you did was difficult, and very commendable. You have achieved something that is just not possible for most people out there living with t2 diabetes.

I did lose weight. I understand what you are referring to, but I believe both are important - weight loss and low carb. Luckily my diabetes nurse was very supportive of my approach but I was also given a Diabetes UK leaflet with recipe ideas and meal plans etc, however, it was basically what I'd been doing for years already. My diet was healthy according to all the guidelines yet I still got diabetes. What is prescribed by Diabetes UK would have not helped me at all. During the pandemic my blood sugars (and carbs) had crept up - so I lowered my carbs and normalised my blood sugars in 2 weeks with no weight loss involved. You are the specialist and I understand I am not - but I am a specialist in what worked for me - I would say that the likes of Dr Michael Mosley and Dr Jason Fung helped me so much in a way that the standard advice did not. I can only tell you my experience - low carb was the last thing to try after years of eating 'healthily' and still gaining weight. I do agree that without weight loss you are possibly controlling diabetes (although that is still a good thing!) rather than fully reversing it - however without low carb I would not have lost the weight! PS I'd tried everything before, Slimming World, WW - you name it!

pinkfloralcurtains · 13/04/2025 13:00

HeronTwist · 13/04/2025 10:54

It had only become a thing lately because the pharmaceutical companies are trying to sell glucose monitors to non-diabetics to maximise profits.
They have created a health problem that isn’t there. Blood glucose spikes are natural and normal within certain ranges.
pharmaceutical companies do this. They have done it before and they will keep doing it. If they can create a whole new health problem to sell a drug or product they will.

Definitely. They have found a new market in the worried well, aided and abetted by Tim Spector and the Glucose Goddess who has somehow made a career and a slavish following out of her n=1 experience.

MementoMountain · 13/04/2025 13:08

Workoutrage · 13/04/2025 11:15

You don’t digest it well in all likelihood, because you don’t eat it enough. The more you make these a regular part of your diet the more your gut biome produces beneficial bacteria and short chain fatty acids making them easier to digest.

Edited

Maybe, maybe not. I seemed to develop an intolerance over the years -- had to rethink the lentil bakes, three-bean casserole, chickpea curry etc etc, and as for tomatoes with everything, forget it!

It's annoying.

Workoutrage · 13/04/2025 13:25

pinkfloralcurtains · 13/04/2025 13:00

Definitely. They have found a new market in the worried well, aided and abetted by Tim Spector and the Glucose Goddess who has somehow made a career and a slavish following out of her n=1 experience.

It goes far beyond Tim Spector. Try listening to what Dr James Kinross, a consultant collateral surgeon at Imperial College London has to say about the gut microbiome. It’s about supporting your gut health and always good to update yourself with with the latest scientific findings.

TempestTost · 13/04/2025 13:46

APocketFullOfRye · 13/04/2025 02:55

I agree but
Re your last paragraph .
Do people constantly need to be spoon fed though. My cooking sounds a lot like yours. Lots of stews with veg and different beans etc
I didn’t need to be told how to cook these though. I looked it up for myself or just experimented with flavours.
My sons came back from Morocco and loved their tagine dishes so I looked up the basic spices and added those to make a whole new type of stew for us.

I don’t think we can keep blaming others for our own failings. If people don’t cook it’s probably because they just aren’t that interested.

^^

Edited

I ink at the end of the day a lot of people don't have the time or energy for one more thing. And the kicker is - they think cooking real recipes will be hard, because that's what they see.

Even a lot of easy Jaime Oliver type 5 ingredient things look a bit complicated compared to pre-made food. Most aren't once you've tried a few things like that, but it's getting there.

Learning some really simple things in school might be really helpful in that regard. I taught my kids how to do home made tomato soup and grilled cheese. They were amazed that the soup didn't really take loner than canned. It's cheap, tasty, most people like it. I also used to do a crock pot meal that was basically a pork roast with a carton of sauerkraut tossed over it and a lot of pepper. Not everyone like it, but my family does and it takes three minutes to prepare. Tuna melts are another quick, cheap, healthy option. But people often think it's only for lunch.

In a lot of ways I think foodie culture has made things worse instead of better.

ScienceDragon · 13/04/2025 13:47

A rise in blood sugar after eating is completely normal — it means your body is doing what it’s supposed to do. Glucose from food enters the bloodstream, insulin is released, and that glucose gets delivered to your cells for energy. This rise-and-fall cycle is part of healthy metabolism.

You should worry more if your blood sugar never rises — that could mean you're not eating enough or your body isn't responding properly. It's not the spike itself that’s harmful, but consistently high spikes or poor insulin response over time. Balance is the goal, not flatlining your blood sugar.

People with type 2 diabetes are insulin sensitive - which means they have abnormally high insulin responses to foods containing glucose. The key strategy here is to manage glucose intake, by restricting total quantity at each meal or snack, and spreading the load more evenly through the day. Mixing their intake at each meal with healthy fats or protein help to slow down the absorption of the glucose.

People with type 1 diabetes do not produce insulin, which is why they have to inject (usually) insulin, and they have to count the carbohydrates they ingest, in order to ensure they use the right amount of insulin.

This does not mean either group should avoid any fruit (or any other glucose containing food), but they need to be sensible about their intake. The same goes for any individual with a health condition that needs to be managed nutritionally, whether that be diverticulitis, IBS, IBDs, kidney disease, etc.

The reason dietitians are the go-to people for nutrition advice? Because they have the depth and breadth of knowledge about food and human digestion, that no other medical professional has (including diabetic nurses)- let alone influencers or authors who have "researched" the topic They are also heavily regulated - here in the UK by the HCPC - and can't just make stuff up.

And so what if you don't like a certain food, or feel it upsets you? There are plenty of alternatives. You don't like fruit? Then eat more veg, and vice versa (variety is the key here). Protein comes in meat, fish, nuts, pulses/legumes, and dairy. Healthy fats can be found in virgin oils, nuts, seeds, avocados, and dairy.. And so on. Western nations tend to be very lucky in the sheer variety of wholefoods available.

If you are your healthiest self on keto, then more power to you. Ditto for low-carb, vegan, vegetarian, pescatarian, flexitarian, Mediterranean, Southeast Asian, Middle Eastern, African, Nordic, etc. At their core, all of these ways of eating tend to have similar principles.

The goal at the end of the day is to provide your body with a wide variety of essential nutrients, so that it can operate optimally. You get to pick and choose the foods the nutrients are packaged in.

And if you want a donut (I want chocolate icing on mine) then eat a donut. Just be aware that it is a treat, and not a nutritional essential, and you will be fine.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 13/04/2025 13:47

Workoutrage · 13/04/2025 11:15

You don’t digest it well in all likelihood, because you don’t eat it enough. The more you make these a regular part of your diet the more your gut biome produces beneficial bacteria and short chain fatty acids making them easier to digest.

Edited

That's all very well but personally I don't fancy being ill while I'm supposedly getting used to it! Some people just can't eat certain foods

Jacarandill · 13/04/2025 13:52

MementoMountain · 13/04/2025 13:08

Maybe, maybe not. I seemed to develop an intolerance over the years -- had to rethink the lentil bakes, three-bean casserole, chickpea curry etc etc, and as for tomatoes with everything, forget it!

It's annoying.

Agree. I couldn’t eat pulses at all a few years ago. I can now eat some (and I do) but my body still doesn’t like a lot of pulses and legumes.

If you get plenty of fibre and protein elsewhere I don’t think you have to go mad!

Moooooooooooooooooo · 13/04/2025 13:53

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 22:56

Diabetics are no longer told to avoid fruit. That advice is very out of date

Errrrrr, yes we are. All fruit contains natural sugars some have lots more than others. The only ones advised, to be eaten in moderation are berries. If we MUST have other fruits then apples and pears, but sparingly.

As for carbs, they are a complete no no too, they turn into sugar in the blood stream.

Your statement about carbs for cholesterol is way off too, they’re cholesterol’s worst enemy. It’s not cholesterol you need to worry about so much as the triglycerides and the hdl within. Educate yourself before you start spouting off.

you REALLY don’t know anything about being diabetic or having high cholesterol do you.

Jacarandill · 13/04/2025 13:53

Workoutrage · 13/04/2025 13:25

It goes far beyond Tim Spector. Try listening to what Dr James Kinross, a consultant collateral surgeon at Imperial College London has to say about the gut microbiome. It’s about supporting your gut health and always good to update yourself with with the latest scientific findings.

Yes, Tim Spector and the Glucose Goddess haven’t just made it up! It’s based on a LOT of research and, in TS’s case, a huge body of data.

Moooooooooooooooooo · 13/04/2025 13:57

daisychain01 · 13/04/2025 05:48

That's fine then. How many people do you know eats a hand of bananas a day every day. Most people who eat bananas eat one in a day. Same with mango and pineapple - you'd have a portion, you wouldn't eat a whole pineapple! The OP is suggesting a controlled portion, not eat as much as you like - 3 portion sizes of fruit, eat fruit in moderation, I don't see anywhere that the OP is saying eat limitless fruit.

Three portions of fruit a day would not just spike a diabetic’s blood glucose but send it off the scale (in most cases) and to do this consistently would worsen your diabetes and lead to eventual harm and even death. You cannot just eat any old fruit being diabetic and certainly not 3 portions a day.

intrepidpanda · 13/04/2025 14:01

IReallyLoveItHere · 12/04/2025 22:19

This is my blood sugar after a small bowl of unsweetened whole oat porridge with about 5 blueberries and some seeds.

Highly recommended a cgm to everyone, immediate feedback really changes your choices.

Yes that's how your body work. Eat, spike, insulin released
No need to worry about sugar spikes unless you are diabetic

Everystripesays · 13/04/2025 14:06

Moooooooooooooooooo · 13/04/2025 13:57

Three portions of fruit a day would not just spike a diabetic’s blood glucose but send it off the scale (in most cases) and to do this consistently would worsen your diabetes and lead to eventual harm and even death. You cannot just eat any old fruit being diabetic and certainly not 3 portions a day.

Heard it all now 😂

WearyAuldWumman · 13/04/2025 14:08

TempestTost · 13/04/2025 13:46

I ink at the end of the day a lot of people don't have the time or energy for one more thing. And the kicker is - they think cooking real recipes will be hard, because that's what they see.

Even a lot of easy Jaime Oliver type 5 ingredient things look a bit complicated compared to pre-made food. Most aren't once you've tried a few things like that, but it's getting there.

Learning some really simple things in school might be really helpful in that regard. I taught my kids how to do home made tomato soup and grilled cheese. They were amazed that the soup didn't really take loner than canned. It's cheap, tasty, most people like it. I also used to do a crock pot meal that was basically a pork roast with a carton of sauerkraut tossed over it and a lot of pepper. Not everyone like it, but my family does and it takes three minutes to prepare. Tuna melts are another quick, cheap, healthy option. But people often think it's only for lunch.

In a lot of ways I think foodie culture has made things worse instead of better.

When I worked in a Scottish secondary school, one of my colleagues was horrified at what she saw in the Home Ec Dept... S1/Y8 pupils were being shown how to microwave a slice of ready made pizza.

luckylavender · 13/04/2025 14:12

LivelyLemonQuoter · 12/04/2025 21:17

I think most people think they know what a healthy diet looks like, but in reality they do not. I see so many comments on MN that demonstrate this.

The most common one is that fruit should be limited because of its sugar content. This is very bad advice. Sugar in fruit has little impact on our blood sugar levels. And most people in the UK do not eat enough fruit.

The other is concern over eating any carbs. Wholemeal bread and pasta is fine, carbs in pastry and doughnuts is not great though.

And most people need to eat more nuts. Nuts are very good for you and should be part of your regular diet.

I think everyone had a different metabolism. What works for one won't work for another.

Jacarandill · 13/04/2025 14:15

intrepidpanda · 13/04/2025 14:01

Yes that's how your body work. Eat, spike, insulin released
No need to worry about sugar spikes unless you are diabetic

When people talk about glucose spikes they’re not talking about the normal (small) rise in blood sugar caused by eating. Obviously.

Porridge spikes my blood sugar so much that I can literally feel it crashing - it makes me shake. It’s like I’ve had nothing to eat, which is why I avoid oats.

Consistently raising your blood sugar like this and then it crashing is not good for you, even if you’re not diabetic. It increases inflammation and insulin resistance.

(Edited to add - note how the poster’s blood sugar actually crashed to lower than before she’s eaten.

I think you need to reconsider your ‘advice’.