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To expect barman to know what a lemon and lime is.

317 replies

girlfriend44 · 09/04/2025 19:57

Couldn't believe it today. Had this drink loads with no problem.

Barman had no clue what a lemon and lime was. Gave up and ordered something else, a coffee instead.

OP posts:
OneFineDay22 · 10/04/2025 14:51

RampantIvy · 10/04/2025 06:58

In my experience lime cordial with soda is more commonly drunk than lime cordial with lemonade.

Do people still drink lager and lime these days?

Not many but some do! The place I worked there would be the odd customer that would drink it all night, and you wouldn’t be asked for it again for months. Same with the lemon & lime which would be asked for in any of the ways people have mentioned on this thread lol. We also had fresh lemons and limes, so I think my first time I did have to ask someone who had worked there longer. And for lime & soda

TheCountofMountingCrispBags · 10/04/2025 15:05

If he were a Cockney barman, he'd tell you to look at your watch

Darls3000 · 10/04/2025 18:09

Never heard of it.

ThatGreatMember · 10/04/2025 18:26

Yellowpingu · 09/04/2025 19:59

Why didn’t you simply tell him it’s a lemonade with a dash of lime juice added rather than order a coffee?

Because then the OP could not come onto MN and try and sound superior.

PinotDragon86 · 10/04/2025 18:36

He must have missed that day at bar tender school.

On a serious note, it happens. I would have just told him can I have a lemonade with a splash of lime cordial please if he hadn't understood the original order.

Whyamiherenow · 10/04/2025 19:11

I’ve been asked for really silly things in a bar before. People always ask for things differently. Different terminology and they also mean different things. Some people want a lot of lime in their lemonade and others don’t. It is stressful. One man asked me for a ‘shovel of coal’ thankfully was wise to that one and knew it was a coke. Another asked for a ‘shovel of coal and ginger’ which is a coke and ginger ale - I didn’t know that was a drink!! I let him mix that himself!

Worrywort23 · 10/04/2025 19:28

Another mad thread. Even if you work in a bar and don't know what a lemon & lime is (I do, only I call them lime & lemonade), surely if you say "It's a glass of lemonade with a dash of lime cordial in it", then any reasonable competent person should be able to make one without a crowd building up. It's only two ingredients fgs!

Muffinmam · 10/04/2025 19:45

I’ve absolutely no idea what a lemon & lime is. I used to work in a hotel and I’ve been to a lot of pubs and bars and restaurants and I still have no idea what it is.

Why couldn’t you have just explained it??

Muffinmam · 10/04/2025 19:47

girlfriend44 · 09/04/2025 20:12

It's lemonade with some lime cordial.
Served with some ice, it's a gorgeous drink on a warm day.🙄

Why didn’t you just ask for a lemonade with some lime cordial??

UtterlyHumiliated · 10/04/2025 20:07

girlfriend44 · 09/04/2025 20:00

Yes that happened, but he still didn't get it as there was a queue I gave up.

”I’d like a pint of lemonade with a splash of lime cordial in it, please.”

He seriously didn’t get that?

CheeseWisely · 10/04/2025 20:25

KewTitles · 10/04/2025 07:17

Just a mad suggestion, but maybe these pubs could take it off the menu rather than blaming customers for ordering it?

I’ve never worked in a pub with tea / coffee on the menu unless they serve food, and during food service times they usually have waiting staff in addition to bar staff. Tea & coffee during a busy drinks only service is often a massive faff.

ThePoshUns · 10/04/2025 20:29

I’ve never heard of it

Pickles79543 · 10/04/2025 21:37

CorvusPurpureus · 09/04/2025 20:39

I used to get given one as a child in the 70s/80s, along with a bag of crisps to share with my brother.

It would be half a pint of sticky post mix lemonade & a shot of lime cordial - & I doubt either feature behind many bars these days.

The nearest you'd get would probably be a bottle of something soft & lemony/limey?

Surely there aren't many bars that don't have lemonade and lime cordial???

Pickles79543 · 10/04/2025 21:38

Chipperchipmunk · 09/04/2025 20:47

I looooove a lemon and lime and a Saint Clements (orange juice and lemonade) but this thread has made me laugh and realise I no would never order it as a ‘lemon and lime’ in a bar bc I have had people not know what it is and if they do know they always ask if you want fresh lime or cordial. I ask for a lemonade and lime cordial

St Clements is oj and bitter lemon, not lemonade

notatinydancer · 10/04/2025 21:41

I wouldn’t know what that is ? Why don’t you just say lime and lemonade ?

WibbleyPie · 10/04/2025 21:50

RampantIvy · 10/04/2025 06:58

In my experience lime cordial with soda is more commonly drunk than lime cordial with lemonade.

Do people still drink lager and lime these days?

They do, but it's rare enough that I've had to explain it to some of the young 'uns, however I have been asked for lager & lime and the person wanted a pint with a slice of lime - which is what the young 'uns usually think lager and lime is - and a reasonable assumption now we have a lot more continental lagers on offer and things like Sol & Desperados which are served with a wedge of lime in the bottle neck.

I mean people get so twisty about stuff like this, it's hardly the end of the world is it, but then for some they do love an opportunity for an eye roll and a good affected sigh and twitter to anyone who'll listen about how they are a victim of such poor service and what's the world coming to?!

PyongyangKipperbang · 10/04/2025 22:21

KewTitles · 10/04/2025 07:17

Just a mad suggestion, but maybe these pubs could take it off the menu rather than blaming customers for ordering it?

I said "bar staff" not "pub owners". Because any pub that isnt independently owned, will usually not have a choice what they offer on their menus. It is all decided at corporate level.

As fewer people drink alcohol, and fewer people socialise in pubs, the chain pubs were losing out to the coffee shops. So in order to maximise profits they started selling hot drinks, but the shareholders are not the poor sods being run absolutely ragged on a mad shift and then being asked to make a cup of tea.

mrlistersgelfbride · 10/04/2025 22:44

North west here, 40, used to work in a bar, never heard of it or even thought about it as a drink.
But it sounds quite nice 😊

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 10/04/2025 23:57

PyongyangKipperbang · 10/04/2025 22:21

I said "bar staff" not "pub owners". Because any pub that isnt independently owned, will usually not have a choice what they offer on their menus. It is all decided at corporate level.

As fewer people drink alcohol, and fewer people socialise in pubs, the chain pubs were losing out to the coffee shops. So in order to maximise profits they started selling hot drinks, but the shareholders are not the poor sods being run absolutely ragged on a mad shift and then being asked to make a cup of tea.

If the pub has a facility that dispenses boiling water and a stock of tea bags, then putting a tea bag in a mug or even a tea pot and adding hot water is far less of a faff than pouring a pint of draft Guiness or making a cocktail.

KewTitles · 11/04/2025 00:51

PyongyangKipperbang · 10/04/2025 22:21

I said "bar staff" not "pub owners". Because any pub that isnt independently owned, will usually not have a choice what they offer on their menus. It is all decided at corporate level.

As fewer people drink alcohol, and fewer people socialise in pubs, the chain pubs were losing out to the coffee shops. So in order to maximise profits they started selling hot drinks, but the shareholders are not the poor sods being run absolutely ragged on a mad shift and then being asked to make a cup of tea.

“Tough titty” is the phrase that springs to mind.

It’s absolutely pathetic to complain about customers ordering something that’s actually on the menu. If staff are really so “run ragged”, why aren’t they feeding that back to the big bad corporate team? What if those customers do go to Costa instead? Or stay at home and make their own tea? The poor downtrodden staff who had to actually flick a switch on a kettle will soon be complaining of their shifts are cut.

SandyY2K · 11/04/2025 01:25

I've had a waitress who didn't know what a shandy was.

My husband and I explained it to her. She was quite young, but we were surprised she hadn't heard of it.

I told my sister and she said, young people don't drink shandy, that's probably why.

Bowies · 11/04/2025 03:12

I never heard of a ‘lemon and lime’, was about to say YANBU, yes they should know the difference between 2 fruits.

I would expect to ask for a lemonade and specifically request they add some lime cordial. If they can’t do that on clear instruction, yes I would think that is unreasonable.

Bowies · 11/04/2025 03:20

KewTitles · 10/04/2025 11:31

I remember asking a waitress in the US once for a vodka and coke and she spent what felt like 20 minutes dating, “What, together? In the same glass?! I never heard of that before! I never heard of that…”

Love, I didn’t ask you to write a dissertation on it - I just want you to pour it!

In the U.K. it’s the same with tequila and coke, not a common drink here

UnPetitCochon · 11/04/2025 04:11

Love a vodka lemon and lime!

Apricotsontheroof · 11/04/2025 08:14

Monvelo · 09/04/2025 20:24

I had one last night, it's a nice drink :) I just say lemonade and lime cordial when ordering, think it's a pretty common drink here. I've had more problems with what we call a "Henry" here, just known as orange and lemonade everywhere else and gets some funny looks!

Ah a Henry! Haven’t heard that for years. I stopped calling it that as no one knew what I meant. Are you in SW England by any chance?