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To be sick of all the newspaper articles saying lies about DLA and PIP

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elliejjtiny · 08/04/2025 22:37

To get any DLA or PIP you have to be significantly disabled. To get the higher rate of either part you have to be severely disabled.

A motability car is not free, it's rented. To get one you need to either be unable to walk 50 metres or have a severe learning disability, which is very difficult to get.

It's always happened but since the stuff in the news about changes to PIP it's got worse.

Articles in the newspapers claiming you can get a free car for bed wetting, which just doesn't happen. There will be children like my ds who get DLA because they have a number of problems including bedwetting but nobody gets high rate mobility for bed wetting on its own.

There are other articles about people claiming PIP and DLA for various minor sounding conditions and I am so fed up with it. I know from experience that the newspapers will have talked to people claiming PIP/DLA and twist everything they say to make them sound like a scrounger.

All these articles are giving off the message that anyone with any minor disability can claim loads of benefits.

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Gamjs · 09/04/2025 20:26

Ihad2Strokes · 09/04/2025 19:51

honestly, it is worth appealing, sometimes you just get some ridiculous twat doing their assessment, there's no way your son would genuinely only score 2 points

I don't know how long it's been since you applied or how long you have to appeal or whether you have to start a new claim or what?, But it's definitely worth summoning up the mental energy to appeal or reapply.

Thanks for your support in this, I do think he should try again but the time has passed for appeal so I will get him to apply again later this year.

pancakestastelikecrepe · 09/04/2025 20:39

pancakestastelikecrepe · 09/04/2025 20:20

Hmmm well the individual was, actually, in a criminal sense.
But that aside, my response was to a particular post.
Hyperbolic responses, like yours, aren't helpful - and to a degree, maybe mine isn't?
Fact remains that unfortunately, there are individuals in receipt of PIP who do not meet the threshold - I think from the responses, this is not a controversial statement.
It is clear that the whole system requires an overhaul in order to meet the needs of the vulnerable people it was designed for, many of whom have posted on this thread.
To flippantly protest otherwise, only dilutes sympathy and empathy 🙏🏼

@ruethewhirl Do you not see that your "so what...meets the..." is part of the problem? If you're "so sick of..." then have an honest response. It is an issue and it is leading to demonisation! Pretending otherwise is proving the point of those who seek to question - kindly, but surely, you see that?

mintydoggyv · 09/04/2025 20:48

Gamjs · 09/04/2025 20:26

Thanks for your support in this, I do think he should try again but the time has passed for appeal so I will get him to apply again later this year.

Please apply again which is your right All the best

Bumpitybumper · 09/04/2025 21:02

Sirzy · 09/04/2025 19:47

And why should they? As has been explained numerous times as well as using the mobility element nearly all cars on the motability scheme come with an advance payment. The level of that advance payment varies depending on the car. So someone who has a more “luxurious” car will have paid 1000s in advance payments.

I am merely pointing out that the car can indeed be a luxury and it isn't all about just meeting the disabled person's needs. It was in direct response to another poster suggesting this.

Ihad2Strokes · 09/04/2025 21:03

WeylandYutani · 09/04/2025 20:24

Don't forget that if you lose the high rate mobility component for whatever reason, you lose your car. Then an uphill battle to get it back.

thank you for pointing that out to me.

I've only just read that on another post here, I suppose I had just assumed that once you have it for three years on lease, you wouldn't have to hand it back until the end of that three years.

At this stage, my award is only for one year, with the note that it is unexpected to change at the review time.

As I say, I only had the strokes earlier this year and the car mobility thing hasn't been at the top of my list to deal with as I have been too unwell to have contemplated driving, even if I was physically able to.

Kths · 09/04/2025 21:03

The articles in the paper are designed to generate hate anf make it look like this so ppl who don’t claim don’t get upset when the benefit is cut as they feel their tax payers money is going towards it

its also done to distract from other government things such as an above Inflation pay rise or millions of non work expenses on credit cards,l

the general public then get made as the wrong people the people at the bottom needing help

Welshmonster · 09/04/2025 21:03

To all the people saying they know someone who is taking the piss - report them. If they have nothing to hide then then the assessment will find they are justified.

some people are scamming the system but it takes a lot of effort.

my DB is 24/7 in a wheelchair and has a special adapted vehicle. It’s a ball ache at renewal. No he can’t magically walk. No the cerebral palsy isn’t cured. He can only drink through a straw. So can’t make a cup of tea. WTAF!

also all the people leasing Motability cars need to ensure the car is returned pristine to avoid charges. I lease and the inspectors charge for everything

Bumpitybumper · 09/04/2025 21:06

x2boys · 09/04/2025 19:53

Why do you care the cost tio the tax payer is the same ,wether its a basic or more expensive model

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It just highlights the realities of PIP. That it's not all about assisting relatively poor disabled people with the costs of their disability. Some people claiming PIP are well off and can afford to use their PIP and a good chunk of their own money to fund a luxury car. All within current rules, but if it makes people feel uncomfortable and question whether some disabled people are in a position to live well without PIP then reform may be needed. The welfare state exists due to public consent. If a benefit loses public support then we need to look to change it.

FalseSpring · 09/04/2025 21:07

I have a couple of issues with the current system:

  1. I think PIP should be means-tested so nobody earning more than an average wage can claim.
  2. I think the qualifying criteria should be changed to cover a wider range of physical disabilities that have significant impacts on the ability to work and function normally. For example, I can't sit at a desk so need to work flexibly from home with specific adaptations for working in a prone position. I can walk 50m with aids, but I can't handle even the smallest steps such as curbs. The criteria are too narrow to be helpful to so many disabled people.
  3. I am really concerned about people with serious mental health issues, particularly any that are suicidal, being able to drive so not sure why they should be given a car at all!

I do feel aggreived when others on here have blatently stated they are using PIP to pay their bills, or pay for cleaners or gardeners rather than pay for the specialist care or adaptations that people like myself really need. I can't remember the last time I managed to do anything in the garden, or push a vacuum around the flat, but that doesn't mean that I can get PIP to cover it. I have an old car that I haven't driven for months because the worn-out seat is now too uncomfortable for me to make even the shortest journey - maybe a nice new car would have a better seat! So no, I don't think the current system is fair at all.

Also, if the mobility charity is making money out of these leased cars, why can't they offer them to everyone at similar prices? Why just those disabled that have qualified? Why not everyone on low incomes?

Ihad2Strokes · 09/04/2025 21:08

Gamjs · 09/04/2025 20:26

Thanks for your support in this, I do think he should try again but the time has passed for appeal so I will get him to apply again later this year.

Best of luck with it xx

You shouldn't need luck, but hey.

Another thing which is probably fairly obvious, but I only just found out when I received my claim is that it's only backdated to the day you ring up to ask for the claim form, I had been told it would be backdated to the date of the Stroke, but it wasn't. I guess that makes even more sense when you consider people like your son as well as a start date might be quite hard to determine. But I just believed what I was told at the time 🥴.

Kths · 09/04/2025 21:10

Are you angry your taxes are paying for the above inflation pay rise or the millions found on credit cards which are luxuries not expenses being claimed by our government

people ok benefits are already struggling, cutting and freezing because a few ppl abide the system usually hurts the vulnerable

Bumpitybumper · 09/04/2025 21:12

ruethewhirl · 09/04/2025 20:08

So what? If his conditions mean he qualifies, he’s doing nothing wrong. No idea why you’re bringing his family’s perceived lifestyle into it.

So sick of these threads being hijacked. OP I agree with you, there’s so much claptrap being spouted atm by people who seem jealous of those with disabilities over the ‘free money’(!), but who I’m sure wouldn’t want the life of a disabled person.

Well I am sick of posts like this attempting to shut down conversation. Examples like this are relevant. This is the reality of how PIP and Motability are being used in some cases. It isn't all about people on the breadline or in poverty. Some disabled people are well off and can afford more expensive cars than the vast majority of the population. Part of the reason they can afford such cars is because they are being subsidised by the state.

Of course it's within current rules but the whole point of discussions like this are that many people think the rules need to change. You of course are at liberty to say that you think this is a good use of taxpayer money and to offer other examples and anecdotes to make your point.

x2boys · 09/04/2025 21:14

Bumpitybumper · 09/04/2025 21:02

I am merely pointing out that the car can indeed be a luxury and it isn't all about just meeting the disabled person's needs. It was in direct response to another poster suggesting this.

But thats the same for anyone as disabillity benefits are non means tested
Disabillity benefits are supposed to
Be used to benefit the recepitant so for example a disabled child from a family with a comfortable income might benefit from specific activitues and their DLA pays for this but if a disabled child has parents that are less well often the DLA goes into the family pot its still benefiing the child as it helps keep a roof over their head etc

Locutus2000 · 09/04/2025 21:14

FalseSpring · 09/04/2025 21:07

I have a couple of issues with the current system:

  1. I think PIP should be means-tested so nobody earning more than an average wage can claim.
  2. I think the qualifying criteria should be changed to cover a wider range of physical disabilities that have significant impacts on the ability to work and function normally. For example, I can't sit at a desk so need to work flexibly from home with specific adaptations for working in a prone position. I can walk 50m with aids, but I can't handle even the smallest steps such as curbs. The criteria are too narrow to be helpful to so many disabled people.
  3. I am really concerned about people with serious mental health issues, particularly any that are suicidal, being able to drive so not sure why they should be given a car at all!

I do feel aggreived when others on here have blatently stated they are using PIP to pay their bills, or pay for cleaners or gardeners rather than pay for the specialist care or adaptations that people like myself really need. I can't remember the last time I managed to do anything in the garden, or push a vacuum around the flat, but that doesn't mean that I can get PIP to cover it. I have an old car that I haven't driven for months because the worn-out seat is now too uncomfortable for me to make even the shortest journey - maybe a nice new car would have a better seat! So no, I don't think the current system is fair at all.

Also, if the mobility charity is making money out of these leased cars, why can't they offer them to everyone at similar prices? Why just those disabled that have qualified? Why not everyone on low incomes?

Ah yes, benefits for me but not for thee.

WeylandYutani · 09/04/2025 21:15

FalseSpring · 09/04/2025 21:07

I have a couple of issues with the current system:

  1. I think PIP should be means-tested so nobody earning more than an average wage can claim.
  2. I think the qualifying criteria should be changed to cover a wider range of physical disabilities that have significant impacts on the ability to work and function normally. For example, I can't sit at a desk so need to work flexibly from home with specific adaptations for working in a prone position. I can walk 50m with aids, but I can't handle even the smallest steps such as curbs. The criteria are too narrow to be helpful to so many disabled people.
  3. I am really concerned about people with serious mental health issues, particularly any that are suicidal, being able to drive so not sure why they should be given a car at all!

I do feel aggreived when others on here have blatently stated they are using PIP to pay their bills, or pay for cleaners or gardeners rather than pay for the specialist care or adaptations that people like myself really need. I can't remember the last time I managed to do anything in the garden, or push a vacuum around the flat, but that doesn't mean that I can get PIP to cover it. I have an old car that I haven't driven for months because the worn-out seat is now too uncomfortable for me to make even the shortest journey - maybe a nice new car would have a better seat! So no, I don't think the current system is fair at all.

Also, if the mobility charity is making money out of these leased cars, why can't they offer them to everyone at similar prices? Why just those disabled that have qualified? Why not everyone on low incomes?

If PIP should be means tested, then it should be means tested for the person claiming it. RIght now, means testing in the benefit sense means a household. So a disabled wife could not claim PIP because her husband earns too much. That is a very dangerous position to be in. I know a few disabled women who can't work but claim PIP. They can't claim ESA or UC because of what their spouse earns, or has in savings.
Also, dating as a disabled person is tough anyway without the dating pool becoming even smaller because a potential partner will have their finances scrutinised and have to pay for your disability.

Being suicidal is not in any PIP descriptors so irrelevant to whether someone has a car or not. The person on PIP does not have to be the driver of the car anyway. Disabled kids on DLA can and do have cars on the Motability scheme. They are obviously not driving them.

Many disabled people struggle to maintain a clean and hygienic home. PIP is absolutely for things like cleaners.

Bumpitybumper · 09/04/2025 21:16

x2boys · 09/04/2025 21:14

But thats the same for anyone as disabillity benefits are non means tested
Disabillity benefits are supposed to
Be used to benefit the recepitant so for example a disabled child from a family with a comfortable income might benefit from specific activitues and their DLA pays for this but if a disabled child has parents that are less well often the DLA goes into the family pot its still benefiing the child as it helps keep a roof over their head etc

Again, I understand that currently disability benefits aren't means tested. This isn't being debated. It's about whether they should be means tested and whether it is ok for the state to part fund luxury cards for wealthy disabled people.

tweezersscissorsminimirror · 09/04/2025 21:18

Differentstarts · 09/04/2025 20:07

I'm regularly suicidal iv attempted suicide multiple times been sectioned the dwp doesn't care. If you express suicidal thoughts to them they call your gp but you don't get pip from it as it doesn't fit into any of the specific descriptors. No matter how many letters you send to them from psychiatrists, care coordinator, cpn. Proof of past section, past suicide attempts, diagnosis and medication still didn't get anything for mental health only for physical conditions. This is why I always roll my eyes when people think you just go to your gp say you have anxiety and then you get pip. It's just not the reality

I'm so sorry you've been through so much Differentstarts. But thank you for explaining how it works on the mental health front. I know we can't just be giving out money to anyone who shows up and says they feel this that or the next thing on their say so alone but it still seems like a cruel system where there's no extra help for people who are clearly suffering immensely.

WiddlinDiddlin · 09/04/2025 21:26

I don't think disability benefits should be means tested, no.

Ok if you want a cut off point, lets say anyone earning a million quid or has more than a million quid in assets, they don't get it (but they, the claimant. Not the claimants partner/husband etc).

How much will that save - fuck all. But how much will that cost to implement - more than fuck all.

Meaningful means testing costs. You have to look at the costs of what the claimant needs and the income/savings/assets they have. To do that to every claimant, repeatedly (given many disabilities are permanent/deteriorating) would slow things up even more and add to the bill.

A money saving exercise it is not.

The fact it is not a means tested benefit is one of the ways the playing field IS levelled - being disabled costs more than not being. That doesn't change, regardless of who you are. So means testing disability benefits is just a punishment to those disabled people who are lucky enough to earn well or have earned well prior to disability.

Bumpitybumper · 09/04/2025 21:33

@WiddlinDiddlin I fundamentally disagree. You could means test PIP in the same way we means test for Child Benefit. It doesn't have to be expensive.

The playing field is never truly level for so many reasons that extend way beyond disability. Fundamentally when you spend an extortionate amount of money addressing one area of inequality, you will have less to address others (e.g. child poverty). We need to be careful and wise about where we are directing money and resources. Giving more money to already rich disabled people is adding to inequality in other ways.

WeylandYutani · 09/04/2025 21:36

Bumpitybumper · 09/04/2025 21:33

@WiddlinDiddlin I fundamentally disagree. You could means test PIP in the same way we means test for Child Benefit. It doesn't have to be expensive.

The playing field is never truly level for so many reasons that extend way beyond disability. Fundamentally when you spend an extortionate amount of money addressing one area of inequality, you will have less to address others (e.g. child poverty). We need to be careful and wise about where we are directing money and resources. Giving more money to already rich disabled people is adding to inequality in other ways.

How many rich and disabled people that claim PIP are there? Not many I bet.
David Cameron had a disabled son on DLA. But his son was a small child and totally entitled to what he got.
If PIP should be means tested, it should be the individual only that gets tested and not their household.

LakieLady · 09/04/2025 21:42

I work in welfare rights and do over 50 PIP applications a year.

I've never had a client whose award was determined by a paper-based assessment. Telephone assessments are pretty common, but not paper-based.

LakieLady · 09/04/2025 21:46

Gamjs · 09/04/2025 18:26

My adult son, virtually deaf, autistic, no spatial awareness so can never drive, can’t cope to cook, dispraxic, communication problems etc recently applied for PiP to supplement his meagre wage doing a boring repetitive job which he’s held down for years. He scored 2 points which was nowhere near enough to even think about appealing. People who can through the PiP interview must be in a very bad way!

Don't be put off by the points he scored, @Gamjs, I swear they pluck those numbers out of their arses sometimes.

I've had clients get awarded the enhanced rate at appeal when they've been awarded no points at all first time round.

Okshacky · 09/04/2025 22:15

Blackcordoroys · 09/04/2025 18:00

Renting something with money given to you is getting it for free, isn’t it? I think people object to the scheme being too generous. if you can use your PIP money to lease a brand new luxury car I think most people would say it is too generous. AND there are so many stories of family members using motability BMWs to work as taxis etc.

For the very least, I think all the cars in the scheme should be built in Britain. It is outrageous all this government money - 40% of all new cars in Northern Ireland are motability!! - goes to foreign car makers. If they were built in Britain at least it would lead to jobs

It’s a bit like saying your childcare is “free” because you get a fraction of it paid for by a government scheme,

The reality is that you get an amount a week to pay for transport because it’s really expensive if you can’t use public transport or walk or in some cases drive. Some people who need them use it to rent a wheelchair. It allows many to work or feed themselves or care for their children who otherwise wouldn’t.

Most of the cars need a down payment at the beginning of the three year lease. For some a bigger car is needed to transport safely.

Nobody is using motability cars as taxis because the insurance would not cover it nor for deliveries etc etc but obviously most households can’t afford ££££s downpayment and parking for multiple cars so the car can be used for the benefit of the disabled person (eg you could drop off at two schools not have to drive siblings separately and you can go shopping etc).

tweezersscissorsminimirror · 09/04/2025 22:18

We have the money to address child poverty though - Scotland reinstated their additional child welfare payments and from what I understand the evidence shows that these payments pay for themselves incredibly quickly while lifting many children out of poverty. The rest of the UK didn't reinstate them because so many people thought it wasn't fair that poorer people could "afford" to have more kids than they could personally. It was a political decision for those kids not to be lifted out of poverty - not a financial one.

But yes, as a broader point other areas are creaking (eg the NHS and residential care for the elderly etc) but most of those would be negatively impacted by making the disabled thousands of pounds poorer every year.

Pip is such an exhausting and damaging process that that in itself acts as a barrier to those who don't need it claiming it. I had to do the equivalent of many months of full time work (although only a couple of hours a day as that's all I can manage) to get my claim fully prepared and the appeal hearing caused lasting trauma that I will have for the rest of my life. If we didn't need the money I wouldn't have put myself through that and there are plenty of people who are eligible who don't claim for that reason. I really can't imagine that there are vast numbers of the very wealthy putting themselves through the mill for what to them must seem like a few extra pennies.

ruethewhirl · 09/04/2025 22:32

pancakestastelikecrepe · 09/04/2025 20:39

@ruethewhirl Do you not see that your "so what...meets the..." is part of the problem? If you're "so sick of..." then have an honest response. It is an issue and it is leading to demonisation! Pretending otherwise is proving the point of those who seek to question - kindly, but surely, you see that?

But I'm not pretending otherwise - I'm not trying to say nobody is gaming the system or claiming falsely. Sadly that will always be the case. What I am sick of is the amount of exaggeration that's been going on in terms of how many people are supposedly doing this, and the way the genuinely needy are being tarred with the same brush and stigmatised.

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