Ahh yes the old 'its not fair' argument.
Is it fair, can I ask, that I can't wipe my own arse? Brush my own hair, shower by myself or put on my own clothing?
Is it fair that my heart will give up at any moment, there is no corrective surgery, I will not get a transplant, I live with the knowledge that for me more than most, every day could absolutely be my last?
Is it fair that I cannot lie down or sit without pain, I certainly cannot stand.
Is it fair that I have to take a cocktail of meds daily that make me feel awful, pile on weight and I am fighting sleep the whole time (and if I sleep then I wake up in even more pain).
I don't think it is.
So tell me how you 'level the playing field' if I have to have all of the above (and much more but I am actually at work and have better things to be doing) and I am also NOT permitted to spend my benefits (the ones MY taxes pay for) on things you arbitrarily decide are luxuries because you can't afford them or more likely, can't justify spending what you have on them.
Blame someone else - blame the employer who pays you a shitty wage that doesn't really cover the cost of living. Blame your education, blame the choices you made or your parents made that meant you aren't earning lots, without much effort.
I really struggle with the jealousy pointed at disabled people - you absolutely would NOT want my (or anyone elses) disabilities but oh you are seething with envy at my 30K car and my PIP payments aren't you.
Where does it end? Will you only be happy when there are no disabled people, or we're all kept in institutions away from your eyes, living on gruel and piecing potato sacks together.
And don't give me that 'I don't mean people like you, you're obviously genuinely disabled'... you do. The people you are jealous of are people like me. The people you will harm with this attitude, are people like me.
Remember - disability is generally permanent. Able bodied is temporary.