Would appreciate some advice - so one of my really good friends is training for some kind of certification and as part of her training, she needs to find someone to take part in a video call/information session thing. She called to let me know if I’d be willing to help her and I was more than happy. So I end up finding out that it ideally needs to be a couple as some of the questions/topics would need a male perspective. So we agree a date and I thought it would be fine as it’s just a relatively straightforward video call but when I spoke to my husband about him being involved, he wasn’t too keen. He said that he hasn’t really got time/interest for that stuff and doesn’t want to be involved. I asked my friend if she’d be allowed to have just me on the call but it’s got to be both of us. Now I don’t know how to explain to her that my husband doesn’t want to take part, as I feel like I’ve given her some hope of me being able to be involved - she said she’d asked other friends and they’d all declined. I know my husband is within his rights to decline as it’s not by force but now it’s put me in an awkward position because I can’t keep saying he’s busy because he does get days off. How can I make her aware that he’s not gonna take part no matter the amount of “rescheduling” that takes place😭 thanks for reading this far