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To think too many people are happy to live off benefits forever?

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BritishQueue · 03/04/2025 17:51

Okay, I know this is a touchy subject here on MN, but I need to ask, AIBU to think that too many people are just choosing to stay on universal credit rather than work?

Obviously, I’m not talking about people who genuinely can’t work - disabilities, carers, etc (even though a lot of those who claim to be unfit for work are perfectly capable, and I’ve seen “carers” for people who don’t actually need any care…). But I know multiple people who are completely able-bodied and yet have no intention of ever getting a job. They say things like “it’s not worth it” or “I’d be worse off working,” and honestly, I don’t get it. I work full-time, pay tax, and yet I see people getting rent paid, extra handouts, and still managing holidays and luxuries I can’t afford. Not to mention that a lot of women think the government should subsidise their SAHM lifestyle.

I just don’t understand how it’s fair? Surely benefits should be a safety net, not a lifestyle choice? AIBU?

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Badbadbunny · 09/04/2025 10:25

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 09:56

Being on UC is not a crime though.
Why shame people people on benefits by making them do work in hi-vi vests where everyone can see they are a claimant.
If you are going to make them do "work" then pay them a proper wage for it.

OK, make them do the equivalent number of hours working at NMW rates for the benefits they receive. So then they ARE being paid for the work they do in the form of their benefits. Simples.

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 10:27

Wildflowers99 · 09/04/2025 10:14

Sorry but people who work do ‘demeaning’ things all the time. Cleaning toilets. Waiting on unbearable people. Why should people be exempt from ‘feeling demeaned’ as they get their free money (paid for by said toilet cleaners?). You can’t be a choosy beggar

I did not say anything about being demeaned,
You seem happy with benefit claimants wearing hi-viz in public where everyone can see they are benefit claimants. You want them to be shamed. It is nothing about the work that might need doing in the community. You just want it to be a punitive thing.

If the work needs doing, then give them a job. A proper one. Not workfare under a new name.

Frequency · 09/04/2025 10:28

Badbadbunny · 09/04/2025 10:25

OK, make them do the equivalent number of hours working at NMW rates for the benefits they receive. So then they ARE being paid for the work they do in the form of their benefits. Simples.

Again, we have tried this. It failed because companies offering the work stopped employing people for the roles and used job seekers paid for by the government instead.

If there is work that needs to be done, companies need to employ people to do it, not use job seekers as free labour.

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 10:29

Badbadbunny · 09/04/2025 10:25

OK, make them do the equivalent number of hours working at NMW rates for the benefits they receive. So then they ARE being paid for the work they do in the form of their benefits. Simples.

Give them a proper job then. That comes with a contract, fixed hours, sick pay, holiday, pension etc. If the work is there, then make it a proper role.

adviceneeded1990 · 09/04/2025 10:33

Sleepingmole6 · 09/04/2025 10:19

You are right - being on benefits isn't a crime. Money also doesn't grow on trees and the skills you get from work are needed to be a functional adult and parent.

I've seen too many children turn up to school dirty, with constant nits, massively behind verbally and emotionally because the parents have become so deskilled by not working long term. That's why teaching staff are being asked multiple times a year to potty train children! It's cruel not expecting some form of contribution as work hugely improves people's lives.

Yep! We’ve had first year of primary children not potty trained because the parent “tried but it was too hard,” not able to dress themselves, feed themselves with cutlery, etc. Stereotypical it may be and it might not be the case everywhere but 99% of such children in my setting come from non working homes.

Badbadbunny · 09/04/2025 10:53

Frequency · 09/04/2025 10:28

Again, we have tried this. It failed because companies offering the work stopped employing people for the roles and used job seekers paid for by the government instead.

If there is work that needs to be done, companies need to employ people to do it, not use job seekers as free labour.

Use councils for it - lots of "local" works needs doing. Then there's no "profit motive" involved.

Badbadbunny · 09/04/2025 10:55

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 10:29

Give them a proper job then. That comes with a contract, fixed hours, sick pay, holiday, pension etc. If the work is there, then make it a proper role.

Yes, I agree, councils should do it and other public sector roles, but the entire cost inc employers NIC, pensions, sick pay, etc., to be taken out of the benefits they receive so it doesn't cost the taxpayer any more. If that means only say 10 hours work per week, then so be it. Something productive is better than nothing and will also give valuable work experience and get people back into the habit of working which will also help general wellbeing etc.

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 10:56

Badbadbunny · 09/04/2025 10:53

Use councils for it - lots of "local" works needs doing. Then there's no "profit motive" involved.

The council have their own workers for stuff like that.

GiddyCrab · 09/04/2025 11:00

BritishQueue · 03/04/2025 17:55

I’ve seen it with my own eyes.

Your eyes don't speak for my experience.
Can you tell me why you are so judgemental?

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 11:01

Badbadbunny · 09/04/2025 10:55

Yes, I agree, councils should do it and other public sector roles, but the entire cost inc employers NIC, pensions, sick pay, etc., to be taken out of the benefits they receive so it doesn't cost the taxpayer any more. If that means only say 10 hours work per week, then so be it. Something productive is better than nothing and will also give valuable work experience and get people back into the habit of working which will also help general wellbeing etc.

So you want sick pay, NI etc to be deducted from the benefits? Do you know how much a job seeker gets? It is about £100 per week.
How many hours on the equivalent of NMW do you think they would be working after all that is taken off?
If there is work that needs doing, employ them properly.

Badbadbunny · 09/04/2025 11:11

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 11:01

So you want sick pay, NI etc to be deducted from the benefits? Do you know how much a job seeker gets? It is about £100 per week.
How many hours on the equivalent of NMW do you think they would be working after all that is taken off?
If there is work that needs doing, employ them properly.

No, you misunderstand. Work backwards like agency/umbrella workers have to do. You reduce the number of hours worked to factor in all the employer costs, so it may end up a pretty low number of hours, but it's still something.

It's not just Jobseekers allowance though is it? There are all the other benefits, such as housing, free prescriptions, council tax reductions, free dental treatment, and the myriad of other benefits for other reasons.

But even say 5 hours per week working would help get some value for the taxpayer and may encourage benefit claimants into proper jobs. I've never been talking full time work. Even small amounts of work will encourage good workplace habits, and improve personal wellbeing.

Councils have no money to employ people properly but the work still needs doing.

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 11:15

Badbadbunny · 09/04/2025 11:11

No, you misunderstand. Work backwards like agency/umbrella workers have to do. You reduce the number of hours worked to factor in all the employer costs, so it may end up a pretty low number of hours, but it's still something.

It's not just Jobseekers allowance though is it? There are all the other benefits, such as housing, free prescriptions, council tax reductions, free dental treatment, and the myriad of other benefits for other reasons.

But even say 5 hours per week working would help get some value for the taxpayer and may encourage benefit claimants into proper jobs. I've never been talking full time work. Even small amounts of work will encourage good workplace habits, and improve personal wellbeing.

Councils have no money to employ people properly but the work still needs doing.

Edited

The council would have to employ someone to supervise the benefit claimants.
They will probably end up sacking people and taking them back as free labour.

Anyway, none of this is a thing anyway.

Wildflowers99 · 09/04/2025 11:22

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 10:27

I did not say anything about being demeaned,
You seem happy with benefit claimants wearing hi-viz in public where everyone can see they are benefit claimants. You want them to be shamed. It is nothing about the work that might need doing in the community. You just want it to be a punitive thing.

If the work needs doing, then give them a job. A proper one. Not workfare under a new name.

No, because entire job markets shouldn’t only be open to people on benefits. They should pitch in and do what’s needed to earn their benefits. The benefits are their pay. If they want a better job without a high vis they can compete for one with everyone else.

Ffsdgw · 09/04/2025 11:58

mamamarshmallow · 08/04/2025 18:19

UC basic single person is £394 per month. This dosent even cover my mortgage (no assistance with this anyway)Gas/electric just over £100 per month, bus fairs for work only £40, council tax £140, phone/internet for work & UC comitments the rest on food. Thankfully i do work but due to health issues that don't qualify for benifit support I can only work very part time- basically enough to pay the mortgage. Its depressing living like this. I'm working hard to be in a place where I can work more hours but its not a quick fix. Iv burn out from 25years in one sector & little experience else where. Should I not be able to spend money on nice things to help make this life worth it? Unless you've been at the bottom and have actual experience then I suggest you step away from your keyboard.
With your attitude i realy hope one day you find your self in the position of need help.

Why should the tax payer fund your "nice thing"?

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 12:14

Wildflowers99 · 09/04/2025 11:22

No, because entire job markets shouldn’t only be open to people on benefits. They should pitch in and do what’s needed to earn their benefits. The benefits are their pay. If they want a better job without a high vis they can compete for one with everyone else.

It really doesn't matter as such a scheme does not exist anyway. And it wont reduce the benefits bill.

0ohLarLar · 09/04/2025 12:19

I never understand how pretty much everywhere needs more care workers, and it does not seem to require any experience, yet we have unemployed people.

If the answer is that care employers are not being reasonable (offering zero hours, not paying for transit time etc) surely there has to be away for councils/government to address this.

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 12:22

0ohLarLar · 09/04/2025 12:19

I never understand how pretty much everywhere needs more care workers, and it does not seem to require any experience, yet we have unemployed people.

If the answer is that care employers are not being reasonable (offering zero hours, not paying for transit time etc) surely there has to be away for councils/government to address this.

Care work requires a specific sort of person with the right aptitude. It should never be seen as job anyone should be have to do. That is not fair on the people that need care.

Wildflowers99 · 09/04/2025 12:43

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 12:22

Care work requires a specific sort of person with the right aptitude. It should never be seen as job anyone should be have to do. That is not fair on the people that need care.

Here we go again…

You really think carers WANT to work? All of them, feel it’s their life’s calling? How patronising and yet again, another excuse as to why ‘I can’t possibly do… but other people can…’

I know many carers, my mum included. They don’t hate their jobs, they do their best, but neither is it their dream and the ‘specific sort of person’ is a nonsense. All it takes is a person with fairly good people skills, a strong work ethic and common sense.

The excuses are exhausting at this point.

Wildflowers99 · 09/04/2025 12:44

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 12:14

It really doesn't matter as such a scheme does not exist anyway. And it wont reduce the benefits bill.

The only thing that will reduce it is cutting benefits and leaving people to sink or swim (not people with tangible life limiting conditions like Downs, but people with the sort of anxiety which means working is the ONLY thing they cannot do - apparently).

Nothing else will help as the excuses will be endless. Only necessity will solve the problem.

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 12:54

Wildflowers99 · 09/04/2025 12:43

Here we go again…

You really think carers WANT to work? All of them, feel it’s their life’s calling? How patronising and yet again, another excuse as to why ‘I can’t possibly do… but other people can…’

I know many carers, my mum included. They don’t hate their jobs, they do their best, but neither is it their dream and the ‘specific sort of person’ is a nonsense. All it takes is a person with fairly good people skills, a strong work ethic and common sense.

The excuses are exhausting at this point.

Not everyone has good people skills. Forcing those sort of people into care work would be detrimental for everyone.

Wildflowers99 · 09/04/2025 13:16

BlessedBeTheGroot · 09/04/2025 12:54

Not everyone has good people skills. Forcing those sort of people into care work would be detrimental for everyone.

It’s work. Crack on with it.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 09/04/2025 13:19

I'm not sure I'd want my elderly or vulnerable relatives cared for by people who were crap at the job and hated it, though, @Wildflowers99. I was a nurse, and caring is a hard enough job if you love it, but if you really aren't cut out for it, surely that's a recipe for being an employee who gives very substandard care.

Frequency · 09/04/2025 13:27

I've worked in care with people forced into it by UC. I'd not trust them to care for a rat, much less my family. This type of thinking is exactly how we end up with abusive and/or negligent carers.

Mylovemine · 09/04/2025 13:29

Wildflowers99 · 08/04/2025 21:11

So disabled they can care for somebody else while also needing a carer for themselves? None so blind as those who will not see..

Yes it makes no sense a lot of the time if someone usually a single parent can claim full pip for mental health /fibro another invisible disability and has even a single child on DLA, because how can they support themselves let alone another living being who is also severely disabled

Balancedcitizen101 · 09/04/2025 13:37

I don't think many people can live on benefits forever for fun. Do you know how many hoops and jumps and assessments people have to go through to qualify for benefits for a year? Probably more than people in Cty of London do to get their guaranteed £1m bonus for causing extra recessions than normal. And then the constant decision and harassment from right wing newspapers that you are addicted to reading. Oh and the government deciding to cut it all the time and say people in pain constantly can work full time in some crap job for minimum wage. All the while ignoring the £50-£100m that is avoided in tax every year in this country by businesses and rich people. Attack someone with actual privilege for once. Just drop it and move on.

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