Some perspective needed please, not sure if being too sensitive. I made plans with someone on my lunch break today (was in a meeting all day so couldn't text any other time) They were loose plans, but I was excited, made that clear and to me, a thumbs up on the message confirmed the plan to meet was agreed. So when i came out of the meeting just now and messaged to find out where we were meeting, I was told "the plans have changed, I have arranged to meet up with x, leaving now" When I said I was miffed, they said there was no plan, even though they clearly said the plan has changed and that i was being unreasonable! It made me feel like they had a better option, that they were minimising me feeling let down and it's not the first time this has happened. What do you think?