Before I retired I worked as a legal PA for a big City firm. I had 9 fee earners, including 2 partners, one of whom was incredibly demanding. I always prided myself on doing a good job, being one step ahead to anticipate fee earner requirements, worked late if required (not often, but as and when). I also had my own big billing/admin tasks for one of our major clients to do alongside my role. WFH during Covid threw up other challenges; expectations of being available because I wasn't commuting into the office for example, and my demanding boss frequently screaming down the phone to me because things weren't long as quickly as they were in the office, problems with her home technology. She also demanded that I went into the office when others weren't going in. I could go on.
Then I was told by my line manager that unfortunately, despite all that I did and all that I had done, I didn't fit the criteria for getting a pay rise or bonus as I didn't take on any other tasks 'outside my role'. I told them I didn't have time to do anything else but no matter, I couldn't tick their boxes. That was when I knew that it meant nothing, that whatever I did wouldn't be enough, so I made my mind up to do my job to the best of my ability, but no more and no less and just see it out until I retired that summer. I retired early -I still have another 3.5 years until I get my State Pension - but I just couldn't go on knowing that my hard work and experience counted for nothing.
When I left they split out my fee earners over 3 other PAs and even then they were all saying it was too much for them. Would I be considered a 'quiet quitter'? Yes possibly, but honestly, would you blame me or anyone else in a similar position?