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Reported possible benefit fraud

263 replies

snitchapparently · 25/03/2025 16:16

I suspect someone of claiming carers allowance fraudulently, and after bottling out several times, I just submitted a report. It’s likely to get back to me if something comes of this and I feel like the bad guy for doing it. Am I the bad guy?! Should I just not have said anything?!

To claim you need to be providing 35 hours a week of care and also earn under a certain threshold and I’m fairly sure this person meets neither of those criteria. (If I’m wrong, of course, there will be no ill effect to the claim).

Feel quite stressed.

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snitchapparently · 25/03/2025 16:48

DriveMeCrazy1974 · 25/03/2025 16:46

Perhaps they spend most of their evening caring for the person? It's not a 9-5 job, after all. I hope you have got your facts straight, otherwise, this could cause a whole load of added pressure to these people.

No, they even got a second cash in hand evening job at one point. As I say, I’m as sure as I can be without living with the person that they simply don’t meet any of the criteria.

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PleaseDontFingerMyPouffe · 25/03/2025 16:49

snitchapparently · 25/03/2025 16:47

No, because they’re not a carer in that sense of the word. They are using their elderly parent as a way to get extra income essentially. Most of us will face looking after our aging parents, but most of us wouldn’t use it as a way to get money to which we’re not entitled.

Appreciate many people think I’m unreasonable, I take on your views. However the “you only have a suspicion” folk, thats a bit daft as that’s all anyone can ever have - pieces of information which culminate in suspicion which is then looked into. Other than people reporting themselves I’m not sure how you think this works!

If they're caring for an elderly parent and have succeeded in jumping through the many hoops standing between them and the carers allowance, then they're entitled to it.

PleaseDontFingerMyPouffe · 25/03/2025 16:49

snitchapparently · 25/03/2025 16:48

No, they even got a second cash in hand evening job at one point. As I say, I’m as sure as I can be without living with the person that they simply don’t meet any of the criteria.

And you know they didn't declare it to HMRC do you?

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 16:50

DriveMeCrazy1974 · 25/03/2025 16:46

Perhaps they spend most of their evening caring for the person? It's not a 9-5 job, after all. I hope you have got your facts straight, otherwise, this could cause a whole load of added pressure to these people.

Some people need help to get out of bed. So they need care through the night.

That's 7x9 hours (10pm-8am) = 63 hours a week.

Oioisavaloy27 · 25/03/2025 16:50

snitchapparently · 25/03/2025 16:24

Yes I know how much a true carer does, but I don’t believe this is a carer situation. Person works full time, doesn’t spend all day caring for said person.

There will be no affect on their claim if somehow their full time job doesn’t actually earn that much money, which is unlikely.

But fair enough, general consensus is to allow people to claim money not entitled to, I shall keep that one in mind, thanks all for the consensus 😊

How do you know that the person is not being cared for throughout the night? You sound like a busybody and a not very nice person.

Boomer55 · 25/03/2025 16:51

snitchapparently · 25/03/2025 16:16

I suspect someone of claiming carers allowance fraudulently, and after bottling out several times, I just submitted a report. It’s likely to get back to me if something comes of this and I feel like the bad guy for doing it. Am I the bad guy?! Should I just not have said anything?!

To claim you need to be providing 35 hours a week of care and also earn under a certain threshold and I’m fairly sure this person meets neither of those criteria. (If I’m wrong, of course, there will be no ill effect to the claim).

Feel quite stressed.

I hope you feel better for reporting someone. I also hope you also understand what caring for someone involves, as I do. 🤷‍♀️

pinkyredrose · 25/03/2025 16:51

Is this person related to you?

Bignanna · 25/03/2025 16:51

PleaseDontFingerMyPouffe · 25/03/2025 16:46

Let's assume you're right and that it's easy for benefit fraud to go undiscovered for any length of time: even with a sizeable contingency the percentage would be low.

Even so, it shouldn’t be regarded as insignificant.

Disscombobulated · 25/03/2025 16:52

Carers allowance is currently £81.90 per week, the criteria is 35 hours (minimum) per week, that’s a maximum of £2.34 per hour! It’s a pittance and frankly an embarrassment on society.

Caring isnt linear, there are often some repetitive tasks, but many tasks are unpredictable and unplanned. There is a very clear earnings threshold (£150 PW, I believe).

I am a carer, although I am fortunate that I don’t work, many, many do - who can live on £81.90 a week? From the outside you have no idea how much work is undertaken. IMO it’s an unbelievably nasty thing which you have done.

Allatonce2024 · 25/03/2025 16:52

If the parent could not live without someone caring for them, then the person you reported must be providing care.

My sister is an agency carer, paid by the clients themselves or funded care.

Her duties include:
Arranging appointments, doing washing &ironing, food shops, paying bills, life admin...all things the clients couldn't do themselves but need doing and all things that my sister often does not in the company of the client.

Maybe that's where the extra caring hours you're not seeing are being spent

FoucaultsPendulum · 25/03/2025 16:53

"Fairly" sure is not good enough to launch something like this.

dovetail22uk · 25/03/2025 16:53

snitchapparently · 25/03/2025 16:47

No, because they’re not a carer in that sense of the word. They are using their elderly parent as a way to get extra income essentially. Most of us will face looking after our aging parents, but most of us wouldn’t use it as a way to get money to which we’re not entitled.

Appreciate many people think I’m unreasonable, I take on your views. However the “you only have a suspicion” folk, thats a bit daft as that’s all anyone can ever have - pieces of information which culminate in suspicion which is then looked into. Other than people reporting themselves I’m not sure how you think this works!

Stop wasting people's time. This is just awful. If you have no evidence you have nothing.

PrimitivePerson · 25/03/2025 16:54

What a shitty thing to do. I hope it keeps you awake at night enough to never do it again.

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 16:54

FoucaultsPendulum · 25/03/2025 16:53

"Fairly" sure is not good enough to launch something like this.

The policemen that removed Jean Charles de Menenzes head were 100% sure they had the right man.

Maybe the OP should get a job in surveillance. We need people who are "pretty certain" about things.

TwoBigNoisyBoys · 25/03/2025 16:54

What an unbelievably nasty thing to do.

snitchapparently · 25/03/2025 16:55

Oioisavaloy27 · 25/03/2025 16:50

How do you know that the person is not being cared for throughout the night? You sound like a busybody and a not very nice person.

Absolutely know for a fact that’s not happening

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Oioisavaloy27 · 25/03/2025 16:57

snitchapparently · 25/03/2025 16:55

Absolutely know for a fact that’s not happening

Nasty nasty nasty, do you live in their house?

dovetail22uk · 25/03/2025 16:57

snitchapparently · 25/03/2025 16:55

Absolutely know for a fact that’s not happening

"Knowing" and having evidence are two different things. You should drop this and don't do it again. Just mind your business and stop reading the Daily Mail.

Yougetmoreofwhatyoufocuson · 25/03/2025 16:58

MoreChocPls · 25/03/2025 16:33

There’s over £1.35 BILLION of benefit fraud. Every little adds up and serves as a deterrent.

yanbu.

All the mistakes the DWP make are classed as fraud. They make mistakes all the time, all classed as fraud.
Actual fraud is less than one percent.
If they stopped spending so much on all the tribunals for disabled people who have applied for PIP they could give them all double the money and still have some over.
The biggest problem with the benefit system is how inefficient it is.

Typecast · 25/03/2025 16:58

I work full time and then my OTHER full time job is caring for my husband across the rest of my time (probably more than another full time job, if I'm being honest). How incredibly short sighted and ignorant of you to assume that because someone works full time they are incapable of being a carer too.

SassK · 25/03/2025 16:58

What a dreadful thing to do. You must be incredibly unhappy with your own lot in life to have gone to such lengths on a hunch. I wouldn't report my worst enemy (I think bad energy boomerangs back to you).

I can understand reporting someone you think is being abusive or such like, but to report someone getting a pittance (carers allowance is probably only enough to cover a month's petrol money!) for minding their elderly parent is just vile.

snitchapparently · 25/03/2025 16:59

Disscombobulated · 25/03/2025 16:52

Carers allowance is currently £81.90 per week, the criteria is 35 hours (minimum) per week, that’s a maximum of £2.34 per hour! It’s a pittance and frankly an embarrassment on society.

Caring isnt linear, there are often some repetitive tasks, but many tasks are unpredictable and unplanned. There is a very clear earnings threshold (£150 PW, I believe).

I am a carer, although I am fortunate that I don’t work, many, many do - who can live on £81.90 a week? From the outside you have no idea how much work is undertaken. IMO it’s an unbelievably nasty thing which you have done.

I agree it’s not enough. It definitely needs review as someone who really cannot work because of demanding caring tasks can’t survive on that.

Equally though, it’s not a top up to be used by a normal working person just because they have a parent on attendance allowance (which is completely unassessed as a benefit so very easy to get). That was the reason I felt it’s wrong. Surely everyone who helps their aged parents should be entitled to this then? But they’re not.

DWP and HMRC historically don’t link up their info and this isn’t a new claim.

But, again, I understand that I’m a terrible person and I will take time to reflect. Appreciate your input everyone.

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pizzaHeart · 25/03/2025 17:00

snitchapparently · 25/03/2025 16:48

No, they even got a second cash in hand evening job at one point. As I say, I’m as sure as I can be without living with the person that they simply don’t meet any of the criteria.

Why have you started this thread then? I’m genuinely curious because it’s not clear from your OP.
Of course I’m not policing threads at all and “I was bored and had nothing to do” is a good enough reason. It’s just that it’s always easier to answer OP’s post if OP’s question is clear. Yours wasn’t clear.

LilyOfTheValleySoon · 25/03/2025 17:00

snitchapparently · 25/03/2025 16:48

No, they even got a second cash in hand evening job at one point. As I say, I’m as sure as I can be without living with the person that they simply don’t meet any of the criteria.

So you made a judgement call that it was worth it and that you have very reasonable grounds for you to say Theyre not ‘a carer’…

I have two comments about that decision
1- if you’re so sure, why are you doubting? Why do you feel guilty/like the bad guy for doing that?
2- Do you know that DWP is very likely going to stop this person carer allowance? For what we know, they might also decide that the person being cared for is also frauding. In which case, all the allowances would stop too. All of it until they’ve proven Theyre not guilty. (Rather than DWP having to prove they are guilty)
So in my books, you need to extremely sure that they are playing the system. Which takes us back to the point above

EDIT to add
You realise that 35 hours a week is about 2 hours of help in the am before work and 2 hours in the evening. Time to help them get dressed, ensure they have breakfast and lunch ready. Time to help them have a shower. And have a meal in the evening. Add some time to clean the house at weekend etc..35 hours is very easy to reach.

snitchapparently · 25/03/2025 17:01

Typecast · 25/03/2025 16:58

I work full time and then my OTHER full time job is caring for my husband across the rest of my time (probably more than another full time job, if I'm being honest). How incredibly short sighted and ignorant of you to assume that because someone works full time they are incapable of being a carer too.

Edited

I don’t think that at all, and that must be very challenging for you.

I don’t think a carer cannot work, I think this person is not entitled to the benefit they’re claiming.

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