I’m reading this whilst sitting in bed exhausted. Left my temp home this morning at 8pm to clean my disabled relative home, went back there this afternoon moving furniture, buying lunches for the week ahead, organising money for carers, and doing laundry.
Tomorrow its a light admin day dealing with their doctors, and speaking with carers about adding additional hours, booking therapy gym sessions, and trying to get additional access into his care home which is safeguarding battle. No one will see this work but it will like take over 4 hours of my day. Everything is a battle and this is just the light admin I have other longterm admin that requires lawyers, building work that needs addressing etc…
Not withstanding that I have my own health issues, my own job, my own home to clean, clothes to wash and food to buy etc…
I’m not sure about the person you’ve judged from the outside looking in you however must be a an exemplary carer.
Anyway, have to call my relative now to prompt them to go to bed. I’ve also spent about an hour tonight intermittently checking some cameras in their flat (for reasons around their disability). I‘ll make the long drive back to my home tomorrow but I’ll spend the evenings intermittently checking the cameras, and will be back next week but my ‘care responsibilities’ won’t stop.
I forgot to mention I also have to plan fun things, carers to coordinate, money to distribute.
I don’t claim carers allowance but I’m trying to show you how 35 hours can build up and providing care doesn’t happen within a 9-5 window, and what ‘care’ is is very individual to the disabled person needs. I just hope your complaint doesn’t impact the care the disabled person gets because in all of this you’ve failed to mention or show any concern for the disabled person.
You just seem miffed that someone is getting something you’re not.