kissed a woman while my husband was at home

[mumof3s]

I am bisexual he knows this, been together 10 years, went out with some friends and kissed another woman while he was at home, I don't know what to do....yes he knows.

How has he reacted? Have you talked to him?
If it was a drunk daft kiss, and he’s not that bothered, just apologize and move on and don’t put yourself in that situation again.

You don't know what to do regarding what?

Also not sure what the voting is for?

Forget about it, or can’t you forget it?

Do exactly the same as you would if your husband had not been at home, say, in the office or at Homebase.

Or am I focussing on the wrong detail here?

You would do the same as if you had kissed another man. There is no difference.

What can you do, it's a bit late for regrets.

What does he think about the kiss?

What did he say? What do you mean you don’t know what to do? Do you make a habit of cheating?

It's not clear what your options are.

What's the question?

Do you want to split?
What was his reaction?

I’d think the ball is in his court not yours Op. Does your husband want to stay married to a cheat.

What do you mean you don’t know what to do… about what?

Do you want to be with your husband? Do you want to be the relationship to be monogamous? The sex of the person you're tempted to kiss isn't that relevant really. Talk it over with him properly and see if you have a future.

So he knows - but is he angry? Humiliated? Turned on? We can't know what to suggest unless we have details on that, but I assume from the fact you're posting about it that it is a problem.