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Dpatothet · 24/03/2025 11:38

Hi- I’m going away in April for half term with 3 kids on my own abroad- I need someone to come along and help. Your flight and accom is paid for. I need some help please ?

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Newernewist · 24/03/2025 12:02

Where are you going?

Jibberty · 24/03/2025 12:12

An idea of where you’re going might be helpful.

Muchtoomuchtodo · 24/03/2025 12:15

Which half term is in April? Are you outside of the uk?

Dpatothet · 24/03/2025 12:33

April half term - last week of half term- going to UAE

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Pigeonqueen · 24/03/2025 12:35

You would be better posting on a local community facebook page and making sure whoever you take has a dbs check and experience of being around children. Bit dodgy otherwise!

Muchtoomuchtodo · 24/03/2025 12:38

Dpatothet · 24/03/2025 12:33

April half term - last week of half term- going to UAE

Ah, you mean the Easter holidays. It’s the at the end of the spring term and beginning of the summer term. It’s not a half term holiday - they come half way through a term! (This is a pet hate of mine, I find it very confusing).

Anyway, I have vowed to never set foot in UAE so I can’t help you. Hope you get something sorted.

333FionaG · 24/03/2025 12:38

Why don’t you try a registered
nanny agency? Or ask a trusted friend? It’s risky asking for this sort of help on an open forum, you could be putting yourself and your children in danger.

Jibberty · 24/03/2025 12:38

Dpatothet · 24/03/2025 12:33

April half term - last week of half term- going to UAE

Easter Holidays rather than half term. Assuming that’s covering actual Easter weekend if last week of holidays? Perhaps a teacher at your children’s nursery or school, or a babysitter might be able to help. You will be expected to pay them as well as flights and accommodation.

WaltzingWaters · 24/03/2025 12:41

You’ll have more luck either going through a nanny agency (where they’ll all be DBS checked) or posting on a local Facebook childcare page (then you’ll have to ensure they’re DBS checked).
You'll need to pay their flights, accommodation, food, and a wage for the week.

DancefloorAcrobatics · 24/03/2025 12:50

How old are your DC?

I have done lots of holidays with 2 small DC on my own.

Firstly practice practice practice!
Go on a train with them. Give each a backpack and they have to look after it when going to the park ect.
Always leave plenty of time. You need to be 2 hours before flight at the airport- make it 3. Have a meal at the airport- that kills some time. Arrive at the gate early: it's not as crowded and DC can watch the planes...
IPad with favourite programs....
And lastly, while travelling on trains & buses, let drivers & conductors know where you need to get off. If it's busy ask fellow passengers for help with luggage or pram. But have all essentials & valuables in a backpack or similar strapped to your body.

... and most importantly smile all the way! Don't let anyone get to you- if you are cool, so will your DC.

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