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To knock on a door at 7am on a Sunday

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CatRescueNeeded · 23/03/2025 05:48

Hi

My cat has been missing since yesterday evening and I’ve just found him up an incredibly tall tree up the road. I’ll contact an emergency tree surgeon asap. How early is it reasonable to knock on a neighbours door on a Sunday? AIBU to knock at 7am? They live a few doors up so I’ve never met them

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Needspaceforlego · 23/03/2025 15:06

StartEngine · 23/03/2025 07:02

That’s sad when it’s for an animal in distress.

It might be distressed but really it's not the tree surgeon problem. He is a neighbour the Op has never spoken too.

You have no clue what else is going on in the guys life, he could have still drinking at 2 or up at 3 in the morning collecting young adult kids for all we know.
Getting a stranger up at 7am on a Sunday for a cat is a bit selfish.

The cat had been up the tree for a day or so, another couple of hours isn't going to make any difference.

StartEngine · 23/03/2025 15:30

Needspaceforlego · 23/03/2025 15:06

It might be distressed but really it's not the tree surgeon problem. He is a neighbour the Op has never spoken too.

You have no clue what else is going on in the guys life, he could have still drinking at 2 or up at 3 in the morning collecting young adult kids for all we know.
Getting a stranger up at 7am on a Sunday for a cat is a bit selfish.

The cat had been up the tree for a day or so, another couple of hours isn't going to make any difference.

The neighbour isn’t a tree surgeon. It’s where the cat was.

TheFatCatsWhiskers1 · 23/03/2025 15:49

@WinterFrogs I can think of much worse, like one place we lived that people were racing cars up and down our road into the small hours

Sympathies, this happens here too. Mopeds with exhaust cutouts racing around suburbia at 2am almost every night.

Allergictoironing · 23/03/2025 16:35

So a brand new estate, only just built and rapidly increasing occupancy, the ONLY reason for wildlife reducing is the number of cats?

MsDitsy · 23/03/2025 17:29

How did you manage it....was the neighbour cooperative? As a cat lover/owner, being woken early would not have bothered us in the least.

AndThereSheGoes · 23/03/2025 19:11

Allergictoironing · 23/03/2025 16:35

So a brand new estate, only just built and rapidly increasing occupancy, the ONLY reason for wildlife reducing is the number of cats?

It’s not only just built.
There is absolutely a link to the number of cats that come into my garden with the decline in birds.
The trees, bushes and hedges are the same ( more of them if anything) and they aren’t worried about cars or humans as they have stayed the same.
Theres countless studies to show the link between cats ( even the presence of them) and decline in bird species. Australia and Scotland have considered limiting them haven’t they. Nothing against cats per se but they don’t work well for wildlife in concentration.

farmlife2 · 23/03/2025 20:09

DontWheeshtMe · 23/03/2025 11:03

I couldn’t cope with that sort of noise every time the postman or delivery driver comes by. It would drive me nuts

It's just a little bit to let me know, then they're quiet (and they aren't actually that loud). They'll only carry on if someone lurks around the property oddly - like if you were standing at the bottom of a tree talking to your cat. It's a great security system. If someone is trespassing on my property I don't care who it annoys. I want to know.

DontWheeshtMe · 23/03/2025 20:25

farmlife2 · 23/03/2025 20:09

It's just a little bit to let me know, then they're quiet (and they aren't actually that loud). They'll only carry on if someone lurks around the property oddly - like if you were standing at the bottom of a tree talking to your cat. It's a great security system. If someone is trespassing on my property I don't care who it annoys. I want to know.

Which is interesting.
SoThe odd bark …no big deal it’s not like it goes on and on.

The odd one off door ring at 7am because of a distressed cat and owner…not a big deal, it’s not like it goes on and on and will happen ever several times a week. Hopefully

That’s what I thought

Illegally18 · 23/03/2025 20:25

A lot of cat haters on this post. Nonsense. A lot of people who are indifferent to cats, and don't want to be woken up because of one. A cat is just a cat.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 23/03/2025 20:35

Illegally18 · 23/03/2025 20:25

A lot of cat haters on this post. Nonsense. A lot of people who are indifferent to cats, and don't want to be woken up because of one. A cat is just a cat.

Sad Cat GIF by ciervo-blanco

Awwww, what a mean thing to say. 😢

farmlife2 · 23/03/2025 20:53

DontWheeshtMe · 23/03/2025 20:25

Which is interesting.
SoThe odd bark …no big deal it’s not like it goes on and on.

The odd one off door ring at 7am because of a distressed cat and owner…not a big deal, it’s not like it goes on and on and will happen ever several times a week. Hopefully

That’s what I thought

If you're fine with it, sure. I'm not. An injured animal, fine. A cat that is stuck up a tree can wait an hour. I don't sleep well, I almost never get to sleep till 7am. If it's one of the blue moon occasions I get the chance then God help anyone who tries to wake me up except in an emergency, which an uninjured cat up a tree is not.

I got up for some injured wildlife at 2am two weeks ago and didn't mind at all. I have a lot of sympathy for animals for a cat up a tree can wait.

Illegally18 · 23/03/2025 22:20

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 23/03/2025 20:35

Awwww, what a mean thing to say. 😢

No.

DontWheeshtMe · 23/03/2025 23:56

AndThereSheGoes · 23/03/2025 19:11

It’s not only just built.
There is absolutely a link to the number of cats that come into my garden with the decline in birds.
The trees, bushes and hedges are the same ( more of them if anything) and they aren’t worried about cars or humans as they have stayed the same.
Theres countless studies to show the link between cats ( even the presence of them) and decline in bird species. Australia and Scotland have considered limiting them haven’t they. Nothing against cats per se but they don’t work well for wildlife in concentration.

Another reason to

  • stop house building in the countryside and build flats in towns
  • Don't pull trees down in your gardens, plant them ( really p…… off first thing buyers of our old house did was fell all the trees….a ton of mature trees )
  • stop using crappy plastic grass
  • stop making concrete driveways
  • plant hedges not fences
  • plant insect friendly plants
  • and bird friendly plants
  • install nesting boxes, log piles, bee homes and bat boxes

I think we all get the drift 😃

DraigCymraeg · 24/03/2025 14:31

TooTrue2005 · 23/03/2025 05:52

Call the fire service not a tree surgeon - tree might be protected

So glad you found your cat ❤️

The Fire Service will probably charge, and the Tree Surgeon is for climbing up to catch puss I suspect. Not to cut it down!

Scrapsy · 24/03/2025 14:41

I'd be fine anyone knocking any time for an animal in distress but would rather they tried without waking me up

MrsSunshine2b · 24/03/2025 14:48

You'd get short shrift from me if you knocked the door before 10am on a Sunday for any reason other than imminent risk to life.

The cat will work out how to get down on its own given time, and it will be fine for a few hours.

viques · 24/03/2025 15:13

That photo is a photo of a very smug cat!

Ilikeadrink14 · 24/03/2025 15:20

TheCountofMountingCrispBags · 23/03/2025 06:55

For those wanting a picture because 'catsxare cute'
Go to insta/youtube or the myriad os social media sites with endless bloody cat videos.
Andxas for the rationale that a picture mmay aid several thousand harassed mothers to offer advice on the best way to get the cat down...
Really? That's the best excuse you have for nosiness?

Well, aren’t you a charmer??

RB68 · 24/03/2025 15:23

tree surgeon right way to go - not to chop it down but scale it and collect, hopefully in a cloth bag or similar so can safely transport

Potatosaladsalsa · 24/03/2025 15:47

If it was my cat I’d knock on the door when I found said cat - and if it was my tree, I’d want you to let me know ASAP even if it was waking me up - I’m an animal lover though. If it wasn’t an animal in trouble I wouldn’t want to be woken lol

AngelicKaty · 24/03/2025 16:25

LuckysDadsHat · 23/03/2025 06:00

The fire service won't come out for this, unless a danger to human life. A tree surgeon will climb the tree safely and get the cat out. They are not going to cut down the tree.

The fire service absolutely do come out to rescue cats from trees. A quick internet search will bring up umpteen such stories - apparently London's Fire Service rescues "hundreds" of cats per year.

Illegally18 · 24/03/2025 17:45

Ilikeadrink14 · 24/03/2025 15:20

Well, aren’t you a charmer??

you're a fine one to talk

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 24/03/2025 17:48

Illegally18 · 23/03/2025 22:20

No.

Yes. MEAN! 'They are just cats' is a MEAN thing to say.

MEAN!

Did I say it was mean?! Hmm

All your posts are rather mean-spirited on this thread!!!

OldCottageGreenhouse · 24/03/2025 17:48

LuckysDadsHat · 23/03/2025 06:00

The fire service won't come out for this, unless a danger to human life. A tree surgeon will climb the tree safely and get the cat out. They are not going to cut down the tree.

Oh yes they will! We had them out for our cat stuck in a very small space between house and a garage. They did send a bill afterwards though

ThinWomansBrain · 24/03/2025 17:54

Glad he found his way down & home safely