We were at a family meal. Dd is being potty trained and unfortunately had an accident. She went under the table to do it and none of us had even noticed until DH blurts out in front of everyone what happened and asks me to sort it out saying words like it’s everywhere (number 1 not number 2.) He could’ve quickly just taken her and put on a new set of clothes instead of making a big deal about it. We cleaned it up anyways quite quickly and the same could’ve been done if he hadn’t announced it to the table. So embarrassed. I tried to leave the meal an hour earlier as she doesn’t feel comfortable but he insisted we stay. I don’t think there was a need for a massive scene. I felt like a horrible mom everyone asking questions and making comments. It rarely happens but it doesn’t look this way