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DS works on a 15 hour min contract at Coffee shop- how available does he need to be every weekend ?

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Munichfam5 · 19/03/2025 18:20

DS has been working at a medium coffee shop chain for a month , 15 hour min contract
we have a big family wedding on 25-27 April in London and so he has requested this time off

his boss has said he can’t have it as other people have requested it off and so he needs to sort out swaps with other staff members

But DS he hasn’t even has his schedule for that week yet and he doesn’t know all the staff properly yet

How demanding Can a coffee shop be when DS is on a 15 hour per week contract ?

TIA

OP posts:
KIlliePieMyOhMy · 19/03/2025 23:56

Sofiewoo · 19/03/2025 18:37

Why didn’t he give them the date he needed off before he started?

Why is his mum trying to deal with things like this for a man in his 20s?

Would you consider this to be helpful or kind?

Dutchhouse14 · 19/03/2025 23:59

These kind of contracts infuriate me, DS was on a similar one at McDonald's.
Truth is they expect you to be available 24/7, 365 days of the year with about 5mins notice.
It was impossible to book a dentist appointment, haircut, family birthday, it was a nightmare.
And if they scheduled him to work, often a lot more than 15 hours, it was his responsibility to find cover if he needed time off, and no one wanted extra shifts. He left in the end.
In the ideal world they'd give you regular working days/hours so you can plan and know where you are. My daughter worked at matalan and knew she'd be workingTuesday evening and all day Sunday every week - bliss, But sadly this arrangement is unusual nowadays for retail and hospitality roles.
My advice would be to get experience then look for a job with a regular working pattern.
Basically he can either do the shift, try and get cover, phone in sick(won't like that and a bit obvious!) or resign

HeySnoodie · 20/03/2025 00:43

He can just tell the manager which days he can work and which days he can’t work that week. It’s the same in care, management expect total availability and have no regard for work life balance, which is shocking considering the poor pay

Agapornis · 20/03/2025 01:28

Par for the course in 'starter' jobs - I've seen it in hospitality, retail, theatres, cinemas.100% flexibility expect from employee, 0% flexibility from employer. Then make it the employee's problem to sort any days off.

What he needs to do is tell them he will not be available on certain days. He can then expect to be 'punished' by not getting shifts for a while, or lots of split shifts. Maybe he'll get the odd call some mornings asking if he can work that day. On and on, until they realise they are now short staffed and no one else wants the hours, or the manager moves on so no one remembers the grudge.

ParrotParty · 20/03/2025 01:35

Munichfam5 · 19/03/2025 18:25

@shellyleppard yes that sounds like what’s happened
but , if a job only guarantees 15 hours per week is he meant to be available All
week waiting to be scheduled for 15 hours ?
that doesn’t sound fair ?
I know a lot of people that work there are students so they can’t be available at all times ?

Does anyone. what the procedure is in this type of job ?
thanks

His contract should include availability windows which he filled out, unfortunately if he's put all day every day he will be expected to be available, and that will likely have made them pick him over candidates who gave smaller availability windows.

ParrotParty · 20/03/2025 01:37

I would suggest longer term he starts applying for supermarket jobs. They are generally more reasonable, and have a lot more staff for if shifts need switching.

TwoShades1 · 20/03/2025 01:45

If other staff have already booked this time off, there isn’t much he can do? It’s first in best dressed at my partners work for holidays/time. If people are booking a proper holiday there can be stuff on the calendar 6 months or more in advance. He really should have made sure go got the time off booked in as soon as he started as he obviously knew about it.

autisticbookworm · 20/03/2025 02:08

Totally normal for hospitality he will be expected to be available within opening hours but will only be guaranteed 15 hours. The manager can refuse annual leave if others are already off or if not enough annual leave had been accrued. Had he have given the dates at interview he would have been given the time off. His options are see what he’s working and attempt to swap shifts/lose shifts, call in sick (could lead to termination) or refuse to work and risk losing his job.

LouisaPesel · 20/03/2025 02:44

And why, if he's a graduate is he only working 15 hours a week? Surely Amazon, Lidl etc are looking for full time staff.
This is the problem today. He's not standing on his own 2 feet at 21/2. He's relying on the helicopter parents to deal with his life for him. Surely if he's got a degree he should have mentioned the fact he can't work then.

Don't be a twit.

KittenPause · 20/03/2025 03:16

This is normal. My DD who is still at school has to arrange shift swaps or shift cover for things like this. It annoying but normal and expected.

GRex · 20/03/2025 04:18

I had similar at uni requesting time off at Christmas (but working new year) and was told no, you must work Christmas Eve. That would have made it impossible to get home. So I gave them my last shift date, but let them know I would remain open to coming back from X date if wanted. After 2 weeks they caved in and it was suddenly official holiday. The reason I could stare them out was that there were tons of part-time hospitality jobs. It's the same now, loads of jobs and not enough staff. I would advise him to give his notice while politely explaining it's only because he can't work those specific dates. He keeps his reference and it'll give the manager a few weeks to consider what s/he wants to do about it.

Agix · 20/03/2025 06:21

You are "meant" to be available all the time in part time retail work, I imagine it's the same for coffee shop chains.

Yes, they do expect you to be free to cover sickness and holidays every single day on the basis of a part time contract. My contract was only 10hrs per week at one point on retail, but I was not allowed to not be available every day. You have to keep yourself free incase you get called in.

It's stupid. Thank god I don't work retail anymore.

Sofiewoo · 20/03/2025 06:23

KIlliePieMyOhMy · 19/03/2025 23:56

Would you consider this to be helpful or kind?

I don’t think it’s remotely helpful to treat a gown man in his 20s like an 8 year old and have his mother deal with his annual leave at his job! It’s ridiculous.

IDontHateRainbows · 20/03/2025 06:27

KIlliePieMyOhMy · 19/03/2025 23:56

Would you consider this to be helpful or kind?

Would you consider that she doesn't have to only post helpful or kind things?

Amba1998 · 20/03/2025 06:30

MugsyBalonz · 19/03/2025 18:40

For notice, he only needs to give twice as much time as the time he wants to take off. So if he wants three days then, legally, he is only required to give six days notice. He's given a lot more than that, the rota hasn't been done yet for that week, and the employer should only refuse if there is a good business reason for doing so.

He needs to speak to his manager and point out that he's given plenty of notice and that the rota has not been done. He should explain he doesn't know the other staff enough yet to ask about shift swaps. He could emphasise that he's available any other day that week and the week after, just not those particular three days, he could also throw them an offer of doing the late/early shift on one of those days where he is available. Any decent manager would be reasonable in the circumstances especially when they haven't actually allocated the shifts yet.

Ultimately, if he really wants to go to the wedding and it's a non-negotiable, then he would just have to put his four weeks notice in and start looking for a new job in the interim.

Edited

This is all conjecture. Have you read his contract?

rwalker · 20/03/2025 06:39

The staff rota and the holiday calendar are 2 separate things
so people have already booked time off there is no availability for additional people to be on leave

the fact he only works 15 hours makes no difference and tbh bring that up just shows a shit attitude to work

rwalker · 20/03/2025 06:44

MugsyBalonz · 19/03/2025 18:40

For notice, he only needs to give twice as much time as the time he wants to take off. So if he wants three days then, legally, he is only required to give six days notice. He's given a lot more than that, the rota hasn't been done yet for that week, and the employer should only refuse if there is a good business reason for doing so.

He needs to speak to his manager and point out that he's given plenty of notice and that the rota has not been done. He should explain he doesn't know the other staff enough yet to ask about shift swaps. He could emphasise that he's available any other day that week and the week after, just not those particular three days, he could also throw them an offer of doing the late/early shift on one of those days where he is available. Any decent manager would be reasonable in the circumstances especially when they haven't actually allocated the shifts yet.

Ultimately, if he really wants to go to the wedding and it's a non-negotiable, then he would just have to put his four weeks notice in and start looking for a new job in the interim.

Edited

This isn’t about how much notice people gave already booked the time off so that’s his business reason

and any good manager makes sure they have enough staff to cover there shifts not give people what ever time off they demand to keep them happy and leave the business short staffed

MarnieJADE · 20/03/2025 06:49

My DS swaps his shifts with others. Rota released two weeks ahead.

Your DS needs to ask others and speak to his manager.

GreyCarpet · 20/03/2025 06:50

KIlliePieMyOhMy · 19/03/2025 23:56

Would you consider this to be helpful or kind?

There's no obligation to be helfpful or kind and they're valid questions.

The man"s a graduate not a clueless 16 year old who wouldn't realise. It's standard when you start a new job to tell them of dates you already have commitments on.

As.for those saying the rotas haven't been done yet and they can just rota someone else.on - not if there is no on else available because other people have already booked the days off.

It doesn't matter how many days it is, how many hours he works, or that it's only a cafe. He signed a contract and now has to abide by that contract. It's bad luck but his employer needs staff in.

Isthisit22 · 20/03/2025 06:50

That is part of the Easter hols this year so people may already have holidays booked in

Crushing25 · 20/03/2025 06:51

rwalker · 20/03/2025 06:39

The staff rota and the holiday calendar are 2 separate things
so people have already booked time off there is no availability for additional people to be on leave

the fact he only works 15 hours makes no difference and tbh bring that up just shows a shit attitude to work

Sorry but this attitude is completely ridiculous. Work doesn't rule most people's lives. The notion that anyone would miss a family wedding for any job let alone a very part time coffee shop job is ludicrous. What happens in this type of job, and I know from experience, is that staff will just call in sick if they don't get the leave approved for important events. Just tell the manager he's not available that weekend because of a family wedding and see what happens. What should have happened really was that they asked him any prior commitments when he started the job.

NeedToChangeName · 20/03/2025 06:51

littleluncheon · 19/03/2025 19:47

Outrageous that a business will pay for 15 hours, but insist on 70 hours of availability.

I agree

I thought employers with zero hours contracts generally had a large pool of staff cos flexibility cuts both ways and they can't always rely on staff being available when they want them

SocksShmocks · 20/03/2025 06:56

MontanaPink · 19/03/2025 18:58

It annoys me when bosss put the onus on the staff to cover (swap) shifts. It should be the responsibility of the manager.

Why should it be the responsibility of the manager? The manager has said other staff already have leave booked that weekend so they can’t accommodate this request. That’s it that’s the end of their responsibility. If they’re kind (or self interested because it sounds like the employee might no show in this scenario) they might try to help but they’re not obliged to

SocksShmocks · 20/03/2025 06:57

To be clear I think zero hours contracts are shit and give all the power to the employer. But they exist and this individual is working one so here we are.

SocksShmocks · 20/03/2025 06:59

Cakeandusername · 19/03/2025 19:28

Is there a group chat? My dc was McDonalds zero hours. You got your rota a week in advance and if you wanted to switch or drop a shift she had to sort it. If it wasn’t taken people would put money on so £10 to take my shift.

This seems a practical suggestion.