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To wonder if all those gleeful about PIP cuts are going to welcome people with serious mental health conditions as colleagues and employees?

821 replies

Somethingthecatdraggedin7 · 19/03/2025 09:39

Given the amount of ableisism I see on MN I think the likelihood of people welcoming people with serious mental health conditions into their workplace is pretty low.
And yes, these people will very likely now be forced to try to work even though their condition makes it impossible. We are not just talking about some lazy twenty year old who expects to sit at home gaming due to his “anxiety” as many people seem to believe is the case. It will be people with significant impairments to social functioning.
Even if they get support to apply for jobs, and even if they then get the position (doubtful) how accommodating will colleagues or customers be if the person seems a bit odd, or gets adjustments workmates deem unfair?
This is going to be a total shit show.

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0ohLarLar · 19/03/2025 19:45

Would they get adjustments to enable to them to do their role? Would you even give a second glance at their sparse CV?

Got loads of staff with adjustments. All employers do. Colleagues often may not be aware of them, as some people are more private about their health needs. I think people just assume its like 1980 or something - workplaces have changed! I'm very senior at my work and am a wellbeing champion & we have a lot of us who lead on it through the organisation.

XenoBitch · 19/03/2025 19:46

0ohLarLar · 19/03/2025 19:45

Would they get adjustments to enable to them to do their role? Would you even give a second glance at their sparse CV?

Got loads of staff with adjustments. All employers do. Colleagues often may not be aware of them, as some people are more private about their health needs. I think people just assume its like 1980 or something - workplaces have changed! I'm very senior at my work and am a wellbeing champion & we have a lot of us who lead on it through the organisation.

Are these staff are on NMW?

Arrivals4lucky · 19/03/2025 19:47

We have lots of adjustments, in fact every single Gen z employee seems to have them - they tell everyone, in case you’re wondering how I’d know, sometimes on Teams calls with 80-100 people on …

XenoBitch · 19/03/2025 19:48

Arrivals4lucky · 19/03/2025 19:47

We have lots of adjustments, in fact every single Gen z employee seems to have them - they tell everyone, in case you’re wondering how I’d know, sometimes on Teams calls with 80-100 people on …

Team call... so WFH roles.
WFH is a privilege.

TheWorminLabyrinth · 19/03/2025 19:53

Slimbear · 19/03/2025 15:33

I think in other countries people turn to family first before seeing themselves as an individual entitled to x,y,z from the state.

Absolutely, and then we pay those people a whole £81.90 per week in exchange for their care. When their child/partner loses ££££s in disability benefits, the "family" you refer to will be forced to quit caring, find a job, and outsource the care of their loved one to the local authorities - costing thousands and thousands. Make it make sense.

Arrivals4lucky · 19/03/2025 19:54

My corporate has ‘mental health first aiders’, wellbeing employee grps, support for carers, mental health help, parents grps, women’s health, menopause, men’s health private health care, support around dementia and on and on, disability support, LGBTQ + grps ,
counselling, grief support
we have access to every kind of support you can imagine.
and on and on.
It’s really common in big companies to have all of this, to help their employees and to support their needs.
We have colleagues with disabilities, both obvious and not.

0ohLarLar · 19/03/2025 19:55

Are these staff are on NMW?

We are a living wage employer but we have low paid staff, yes.

Longtimeloiterer · 19/03/2025 19:56

I'm loving all the " well, I'm disabled and I work" threads.

Just because you can doesn't mean that everyone can.

XenoBitch · 19/03/2025 19:57

0ohLarLar · 19/03/2025 19:55

Are these staff are on NMW?

We are a living wage employer but we have low paid staff, yes.

And do you take on people with massive gaps in their CV... criminal records.. no references or qualifications?

0ohLarLar · 19/03/2025 19:58

Everything we offer is the same to all our staff regardless of their pay band. Eg the mental health helpline, staff support forums etc all open to all, and adjustments can be made whether you are an entry level admin or a senior vice president.

Our wellbeing champions come from a range of pay bands from junior staff right up to leadership.

Arrivals4lucky · 19/03/2025 19:58

XenoBitch · 19/03/2025 19:48

Team call... so WFH roles.
WFH is a privilege.

Actually, no. Global company so large Team calls are very common but often it’s 10 people in a room in Berlin, 8 in NYC, 10 in London and a smattering at home.
Most roles are offered as hybrid though - 2/3 days in office then remote. Some of the younger staff prefer to come into an office every day. Some are too anxious so prefer to be fully remote.
One of our very high performing staff has all manner of mental health issues and prefers to WFH and half the time won’t even tune the camera in - uses an avatar instead… adjustments are made accordingly.

sciaticafanatica · 19/03/2025 19:59

@Longtimeloitererand just because you can’t, it doesn’t mean everyone claiming can’t .

Arrivals4lucky · 19/03/2025 19:59

0ohLarLar · 19/03/2025 19:58

Everything we offer is the same to all our staff regardless of their pay band. Eg the mental health helpline, staff support forums etc all open to all, and adjustments can be made whether you are an entry level admin or a senior vice president.

Our wellbeing champions come from a range of pay bands from junior staff right up to leadership.

Same. The same packages are offered free ( bar tax cost in private health) to everyone.

0ohLarLar · 19/03/2025 20:00

And do you take on people with massive gaps in their CV... criminal records.. no references or qualifications?

We take on apprentices who are school leavers and their references might be a teacher or scout leader or football coach. I don't know re criminal records to be honest. We have people who've had long gaps due to illness or looking after kids.

Superscientist · 19/03/2025 20:00

QueMaTeteFleurisse · 19/03/2025 17:09

Lots of people don’t realise that they could become disabled suddenly eg stroke tonight or tomorrow.
Not everyone has partners who will stick around and support them and they would soon be navigating the NHS and benefits system and quickly realising it’s very hard to work or get new employment with a disability.

My mum fell down the stairs and fractured 2 vertebrae. In an instant she went from being a full time carer to her mother with dementia to being unable to stand long enough to make a cup of tea.
My dad took early retirement to look after her and 2 years on she's doing much better but had to readjusted to a life where she will be continually reliant on others for day to day care. She has days where she's copes mostly normally but other days where she's still crippled by pain. The switch from being a carer to the one requiring care as well as the guilt associated my grandmother then requiring residential care was hard on her emotional health. Well meaning medical staff making inappropriate comments and supporting her through those have been an added dimension. For example GPs that haven't understood that the advice recommended for general back injuries and fractures are not the same and berating her got not being mobile 6 weeks after the injury which was just so far from her capabilities thankfully she also had an orthopedic consultant that provided her with a more realistic recovery journey

Longtimeloiterer · 19/03/2025 20:03

sciaticafanatica · 19/03/2025 19:59

@Longtimeloitererand just because you can’t, it doesn’t mean everyone claiming can’t .

You're assuming....... and the point I'm making is you shouldn't assume.

Everyone is different and manages their disability differently.

Arrivals4lucky · 19/03/2025 20:05

XenoBitch · 19/03/2025 19:57

And do you take on people with massive gaps in their CV... criminal records.. no references or qualifications?

Sorry but are you claiming that everyone on PIP has zero experience, qualifications, references and has been in jail???

There are companies that actively work with charities giving ex-cons jobs, so I suppose - get out of jail, work a bit, leads to references and possibly qualifications or work and get the experience and some qualifications??

Workingmum13 · 19/03/2025 20:06

Arrivals4lucky · 19/03/2025 19:58

Actually, no. Global company so large Team calls are very common but often it’s 10 people in a room in Berlin, 8 in NYC, 10 in London and a smattering at home.
Most roles are offered as hybrid though - 2/3 days in office then remote. Some of the younger staff prefer to come into an office every day. Some are too anxious so prefer to be fully remote.
One of our very high performing staff has all manner of mental health issues and prefers to WFH and half the time won’t even tune the camera in - uses an avatar instead… adjustments are made accordingly.

Can confirm same set up with several staff across UK.

You've got to understand the high performing disabled people tend to be Exeptionally high performing but not so good social, they are so valuable WFH is almost always approved.

I wonder if more Autistic people knew this and there mums and dad could early intervention and guidance get them on the road to high paid work. But people have varying levels of disability I really think we need to work out what we mean by disabled who should receive benefits and what family and social networks should be. Really think this is a community issue that needs resolving we are not just DISabled people, mostly just people.

Arrivals4lucky · 19/03/2025 20:09

As for gaps in CVs - of course that’s fines so long as you can say why. And if that why is cos you had kids or cos you went travelling or cos you weren’t well - fine. So long as you’re ready/ able/ up for working for us now.

XenoBitch · 19/03/2025 20:12

Arrivals4lucky · 19/03/2025 19:58

Actually, no. Global company so large Team calls are very common but often it’s 10 people in a room in Berlin, 8 in NYC, 10 in London and a smattering at home.
Most roles are offered as hybrid though - 2/3 days in office then remote. Some of the younger staff prefer to come into an office every day. Some are too anxious so prefer to be fully remote.
One of our very high performing staff has all manner of mental health issues and prefers to WFH and half the time won’t even tune the camera in - uses an avatar instead… adjustments are made accordingly.

Is this high performing staff member in an entry role, or is she highly qualified?

ruethewhirl · 19/03/2025 20:17

XenoBitch · 19/03/2025 19:34

Someone with MH issues that has been out of the workforce for years, is not going to get a corporate job with all things you mention.
They will be forced into NMW job where you are just a number and not a valued staff member.

Or end up in the gig economy. 😕

Kibble29 · 19/03/2025 20:22

Was watching a GMB segment on all this.

They were discussing whether employers will make adjustments for people with MH issues who lose their benefit and enter the workforce.

Someone asked whether employers should be expected to accept “I can’t come in today, I’m feeling bad mentally” from them. Whether that should be accepted or disciplined (after a certain number of instances) as it would someone else.

It got me thinking, I wonder if we’ll end up with a very pissed off workforce if they see new colleagues being given additional leeway with certain things that they themselves aren’t able to get.

MissDoubleU · 19/03/2025 20:28

0ohLarLar · 19/03/2025 19:29

@Frowningprovidence all the corporates ive worked for for the last 10 years have already had:

  • mental health policies
  • wellbeing champions
  • flexible working
  • the option to wfh in times of crisis
  • free helplines for mental health support
  • access to occupational health and adjustments for disability as standard
  • quiet rooms

This isn't new. A lot of places already have a lot in place. I've got colleagues with cancer, chronic heart & respiratory conditions, depression, adopted DC with SEN & trauma, autism. I've worked in offices with colleagues with assistance dogs.

That’s great, but do all the corporates you’ve worked for also hire people with little to no education or experience? Because that’s also a huge part of the problem. Unless you already have a degree and good standing getting into these jobs can be impossible. This is great for someone having an unexpected crisis or late onset anxiety.

For people who have had life long MH problems and have never been able to hold down a job or stay in education, they are stuck trying to get menial jobs for minimal wage. Where employers don’t actually give two fucks about their employees and will replace them in a heartbeat.

sciaticafanatica · 19/03/2025 20:28

@Longtimeloitererevery single person on disability is unable to work at all? Really!

newmummycwharf1 · 19/03/2025 20:37

Longtimeloiterer · 19/03/2025 19:56

I'm loving all the " well, I'm disabled and I work" threads.

Just because you can doesn't mean that everyone can.

Those who can, should. And they have already said those with severe disabilities will be protected. Those with milder disabilities need to be supported to work and that includes incentivising employers and mandating support and protection.

We should be agitating for a more equitable society where adjustments are made so we can all participate as fully as we can. Lobbying for more protection to ensure sustained access for everyone to work.

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