So I am supossed to put my child through a chaotic underfunded, understaffed school experience, which causes her distress every day due to noise and the child kicking her chair and the child tearing up her work, which leaves her exhausted every day just trying to hold all her emotions together, as the teacher is too busy crowd controlling to notice that the quiet girl in the corner is falling apart. In the name of 'social equality' of 'opting in' of 'using my sharp MC elbows'.
I will be 'opting in' to providing what my child needs, 'opting in' to protecting her mental health. It's not about grades, its about her being OK, of meeting her potential, whatever that may be.
If your child was very unwell, would you be saying to the Dr. 'Oh, we won't be taking that expensive life saving treatment which is her only chance, because I have looked into it, and not every area funds that, and I don't want my child to have something every child's who needs it can't have'? Honestly, would you?