5 yo DC was sick this evening. I took him upstairs, cleaned him up and got into bed with him to help him to fall asleep.
I then went in to my own bedroom where my DH was, and told him I was going to grab something to eat, did he want anything? DC then woke up and was sick again. I change the bedding, put a wash on, mop the floor, clean the loo and have a shower because he'd got a fair amount on me, too.
I get DC back to sleep in a different bed for now, then go to dry my hair.
DH comes up with a fancy little platter of breads and goats cheese and sliced pears for himself. I asked if he had thought to do something for me, too, to which he said no. I said I'd go and do it myself if he keeps an ear on DC, to which he replied there's no ingredients for it left, he'd used it all.
A bit later I've gone down to get a cup of tea and in the fridge - pears, goats cheese, and on the side some nice bread. When I asked DH, he said he wanted it for his lunch tomorrow, so told me it had all gone.
He can't see why it's upset me- and I'm not sure why it has upset me so much, perhaps because there's nowt else in the fridge because food delivery is first thing tomorrow, perhaps because it would never happen the other way around.
I don't think I'm selfish person, and struggle to get my head around the logic when he does things like this