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Absolute cheek!!!

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BeNimbleDenimRobin · 15/03/2025 21:17

I’m fuming & this is an update on the previous post I put up. Can’t talk to anyone about this IRL & feeling rlly bloody down. Long story short my ex’s friends texted me Sunday saying my ex wants my number. Tonight I’ve just received a message from my ex’s phone saying it’s his female friend using his phone. Absolute cheek! She knows who I am & cheats on her husband with multiple men as she’s openly admitted it to me & others I’ve seen it too with my own eyes on nights out. I think it’s one thing to goad me with his friends after months of no contact but getting her to pick up his phone is downright cowardly and cruel! He never moved on from me & has been doing stunts for years trying to work his way back but he’s using other people now whereas before he would have the guts to directly contact me. Why is he doing this? I’m so angry

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Londonrach1 · 15/03/2025 21:23

Block , delete the message and ignore...don't respond...not worth the head space.... Block the number now!

BlondiePortz · 15/03/2025 21:34

So he is an ex so why on earth does all this matter

rightoguvnor · 15/03/2025 21:38

Did you give permission for your friend to pass on your number? If so, more fool you.
did your ‘friend’ just pass your number on without checking/permission? If so, she’s an ex too isn’t she.
just block and delete and move on.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 15/03/2025 21:40

When his friends said he wants yout number, did you give permission for them to give it to him?

Just block the number. Don't reply.

boulevardofbrokendreamss · 15/03/2025 22:02

Block and ignore. Simple.

Endofyear · 15/03/2025 22:28

Why are you allowing him to cause you drama? Block his number, block his friends if they message you and move on with your life! He can only aggravate you if you let him.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 15/03/2025 22:32

I wouldn't give my number, unless I was interested in hearing from him.
Why did you give it?
You need to make a final decision to cut him off completely, showing no interest.

Kahless · 15/03/2025 22:34

Don't engage.

He wants a reaction, and you're giving him one.
How do you know it's not him pushing your buttons because he knows you dont like her?

Look inside yourself, why exactly are you angry.

Isittimeformynapyet · 15/03/2025 22:37

When you say he got her to "pick up his phone" it strongly suggests you called it.

If not, you'd have said "use his phone", surely.

SherlockHomies · 15/03/2025 22:38

Isittimeformynapyet · 15/03/2025 22:37

When you say he got her to "pick up his phone" it strongly suggests you called it.

If not, you'd have said "use his phone", surely.

Yeah I'm really confused here but everyone else seems to understand? 😳😊

BeNimbleDenimRobin · 15/03/2025 22:39

I got a message on WhatsApp from his number saying “hi it’s said friend using his phone you ok”
hope that clears up any confusion! She just messaged me off his phone randomly on WhatsApp

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Isittimeformynapyet · 15/03/2025 22:41

SherlockHomies · 15/03/2025 22:38

Yeah I'm really confused here but everyone else seems to understand? 😳😊

They don't seem to share my suspicious nature 🤔

I'm straying into dangerous waters here, iykwim 😉

EmeraldShamrock000 · 15/03/2025 22:42

Block the number.

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