Am I being mean ?

[TheThreeMiracles]

I've just asked dp if I could borrow some money out of his savings until Monday when I get paid to get some gaviscon, I think I may have heartburn but never had it in my other pregnancies, he asked me why I needed it ( didn't like being questioned but nevermind ) he then said yes but moments later came in with..........

My son's infant gaviscon he had as a baby ! The sachets made for babies ! Really proudly " here you go we don't need to buy some we have these "

AIBU to think what a thick idiot he is today 🫣

Am I being mean / is he a thick idiot. What’s the aibu?!
Make a GP appt Monday, heartburn is a stinker. Is he always so penny pinching.

This.
Is he always tight with money?

Only you know the history behind this, but I would just read this as you need meds and he thought he already had some in the house.

In our household the MOTs and window repairs would come from the savings.
Meds for anyone would come from daily household expenditure.
If I had no money for necessities and asked DH for money it would not be repaid. And vice versa.

You are in a very worrying financial situation even if you don’t see it. At least one child already, a baby on the way and so little money for yourself you need to ask to borrow money for Gaviscon? Will maternity leave involve you being utterly reliant on asking for his handouts?

I couldn't live like this with the person I have children with

Shared money all the way.
Or if someone is a much bigger spender than the other, separate pots for "spends".

To think he'd actually ask for the money back is absurd.

You have shared children with this man.
Why are the savings not shared?

Do you have a savings account for yourself?

If not, get one and start using it. Now.

So you’re pregnant (again?) by a man who ‘lends’ you money out of his savings for cheap over-the-counter medication, on the proviso you pay him straight back the minute you can?

And you’re posting so everyone can join you in an eye roll about how the silly billy tried to palm you off with expired kids’ meds?

Yeah … good luck with everything, OP.