There’s a heck of lot of ableism on here.
Its quite sickening to read the posts where lots of people who have clearly never had the experience of filling out the very lengthy PIP/DLA forms.
Having to gather together any letters and all evidence to support you or your child’s claim.
The anxiety when waiting to find what particular set of hoops DWP would like you to jump through this time.
The stress of trying to fill the forms out and ensure they are sent back within the 6 week time frame.
If you need help or someone to fill the form out for you, the wait for getting that support is long, never able to get someone to come out a do the forms for months.
So having to ring for an extension on the six weeks return is pretty standard.
Then it’s dependant on who deals with your form, I have adult twins who have autism PDA, low muscle tone PTSD sensory issues communication difficulties .
No understanding of common dangers, aren’t able to learn from previous consequences and can’t leave the house on their own safely.
We have ring devices set up so I can see if one of them gets out the door or decides to go downstairs in the middle of the night.
Although they are identical in respect of their level and complexity of need, one renewal led to one of them getting the highest level as she always had done, her sister got high rate for care and low mobility rate, she had always got the highest level.
The forms were clearly looked at by two different decision makers.
I’ve been doing these forms for our family for over 25 years now and will always need to do so.
My husband was diagnosed with autism in 1999, we didn’t claim DLA for him as he managed life, though had some difficulties in some areas we didn’t feel the need to claim DLA for him then.
He was having a lot of tests and scans for some neurological problems.
The brain scan and lumber puncture to rule out MS and brain tumours, showed that he had both.
We did put in a claim then, you’d think that would be a pretty clear cut decision.
With all the recent medical letters scan results.
But no, he was given standard care and low mobility, he deteriorated over a two year period.
Our MacMillan nurse sent us the forms to put in for fast track as he was on end of life care, he got awarded high rate everything within a week.
They awarded it him for two years paid weekly.
So for the people who think our household are scamming lazy liars.
Maybe educate yourselves on the reality of life with disabilities, or be respectful and scroll passed the posts that offend you.
Theres a less than 5% fraud rate for disability benefits.
i know a lot of people who’s children have a valid claim but they are too anxious to apply, because of the stigma.
The judgmental attitude of family members, friends neighbours and colleagues and the clear envy that you’re getting something they can’t get.
I guess angry people need to get their anger out somehow maybe find somewhere where you can scream away some of it.
Maybe volunteer time and yourself to work with people that are in one of the marginalised minority groups.
My son and myself do volunteering, its good for us to show the world what we can do and that we do have value purpose and aspirations.