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Angela Rayner’s glottal stops are infuriating

353 replies

Ilovecleaning · 04/03/2025 08:50

AIBU to be so irritated by the deputy PM’s lazy speech? I was listening to her being interviewed this morning and I was distracted by her Bri-ish/righ-/wai-ed. I googled her and apparently when asking a question about the lockdown parties she said ‘Was you there or not?’
Why does it anger me so much? It is not her accent. I am northern but I don’t drop my t’s and I know when to use was and were.
Her lazy speech distracts from the content. I have my theories but I would love to hear other people’s opinions.

OP posts:
MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 04/03/2025 10:26

and says things like 'would of' representing me, thank you very much

Lol, if you're Northern you'd know (or you'd think you would) that saying and writing would have are two totally different things when it comes to some accents.
There isn't "one size fits all" Northern woman with the same accent, for goodness sake.
Saying "would of" is perfectly fine in some accents, it's not OK to write it though. Then it's would have.

banivani · 04/03/2025 10:28

OP, apparently "was" forms have been noted in Northern English since the Middle ages. https://www.yorkshiredialect.com/Was_were.htm

So it's correct grammar in the context of dialect, I suppose - but it might be that she's putting it on, in which case she might be using it wrongly, you're picking up on it and that's what's annoying you?

was / were variation

https://www.yorkshiredialect.com/Was_were.htm

Didimum · 04/03/2025 10:30

It's high time everyone moved on from the prejudice of thinking the RP accent is the only accent of intelligence. Move on – be better.

hairbearbunches · 04/03/2025 10:31

MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 04/03/2025 10:26

and says things like 'would of' representing me, thank you very much

Lol, if you're Northern you'd know (or you'd think you would) that saying and writing would have are two totally different things when it comes to some accents.
There isn't "one size fits all" Northern woman with the same accent, for goodness sake.
Saying "would of" is perfectly fine in some accents, it's not OK to write it though. Then it's would have.

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No! You don't say would of, it doesn't make sense for a start. You might say would've but that's not would of. If you say would of, you're likely to write would of because you don't know the difference. No-one with an ounce of intelligence says would of, because it doesn't mean anything. It's basic comprehension.

There isn't "one size fits all" Northern woman with the same accent, for goodness sake.

Agreed, but there is only one way of saying 'you were' and would have/would've'.

scalt · 04/03/2025 10:32

Just like the way Saint Boris spoke when he told us to stay at home. All those tics and pauses suggested that he himself didn't believe a word of the script which was put in front of him; but because he was "posh" with his delivery, so many people trusted and believed him implicitly.

I get annoyed by exaggerated cockney voices, as favoured by Jonafan Woss and Bob Crowe: the latter was painful when he was defending strikes on Any Questions once.

rosemarble · 04/03/2025 10:32

I don't think she uses glottal stops, aren't they more part of the Cockney accent?

Hotflushesandchilblains · 04/03/2025 10:33

I think most of the hate for AR is that she does not fit the mold - which I admire her for. I hate that certain people, usually women, become such a focus of hate that anything they do becomes a focus for criticism. There are many public figures with annoying speech patterns/accents. But most dont get this level of attention.

Arrivals4lucky · 04/03/2025 10:33

You’s rather have the speech impediments of the posh then???

Hwi · 04/03/2025 10:35

Are you suggesting she is putting it on? I don't know if she is, but if I were sure she is putting it on, I would find it distasteful and a piss-take too.

Oioisavaloy27 · 04/03/2025 10:36

Seriously get a life.

mbosnz · 04/03/2025 10:36

Can't do right for doing wrong, can she really?

Beetlebumz · 04/03/2025 10:37

Ilovecleaning · 04/03/2025 08:50

AIBU to be so irritated by the deputy PM’s lazy speech? I was listening to her being interviewed this morning and I was distracted by her Bri-ish/righ-/wai-ed. I googled her and apparently when asking a question about the lockdown parties she said ‘Was you there or not?’
Why does it anger me so much? It is not her accent. I am northern but I don’t drop my t’s and I know when to use was and were.
Her lazy speech distracts from the content. I have my theories but I would love to hear other people’s opinions.

God you sound a snob. Newsflash-not everyone in this world speaks in the same way you do, and not everyone was raised in the area you were. Horrible post.

scalt · 04/03/2025 10:37

Remember that Thatcher had elocution lessons; I'm not sure whether she wanted them, but she was certainly strongly advised to take them. She crossed a rubicon by being the first woman prime minister, so it seemed she needed them to play the part. On the other hand, Liz Truss somehow became prime minister, despite being a rabbit in headlights most of the time.

Lou7171 · 04/03/2025 10:38

hairbearbunches · 04/03/2025 10:31

No! You don't say would of, it doesn't make sense for a start. You might say would've but that's not would of. If you say would of, you're likely to write would of because you don't know the difference. No-one with an ounce of intelligence says would of, because it doesn't mean anything. It's basic comprehension.

There isn't "one size fits all" Northern woman with the same accent, for goodness sake.

Agreed, but there is only one way of saying 'you were' and would have/would've'.

I say would of, but I know it's would have. I'm from Bolton so pronounce hair and where like hurr and wurr.. but I don't bloody spell it like that 😂

butterpuffed · 04/03/2025 10:38

I dislike the actors who never used a glottal stop previously but do now. Maya Jama comes to mind in a tv cosmetics advert and Jodie Whittaker in an interview where she sometimes used them, sometimes didn't .

PandoraSox · 04/03/2025 10:39

Oof. Scraping the barrel.

Coffeeishot · 04/03/2025 10:40

mbosnz · 04/03/2025 10:36

Can't do right for doing wrong, can she really?

No she can't , there was a lengthy theead recently about a "hideous " "inappropriate " dress she was wearing in parliament!

RanchRat · 04/03/2025 10:40

They walk among us. It's her accent - just the way she talks.

Mrsbloggz · 04/03/2025 10:43

hairbearbunches · 04/03/2025 10:04

There is NO way on earth she will ever make PM with the way she speaks. She will not be allowed to represent Britain on the global stage, liaising with other heads of state when she speaks like that.

And I say that as someone who admires how she has forged her own path to success. The way she speaks is a glass ceiling she will not smash unless she learns to speak a little less coarsely. Doesn't mean she has to go full blown Rees-Mogg, but there is a happy middle ground where words are pronounced properly.

I agree with all of this.

highlandcoo · 04/03/2025 10:46

I'm Scottish and I think the way I say "would've" sounds exactly like "would of" although I am very clear about the difference and would never make a mistake in writing. It's an accent; it's not a grammatical error.

derxa · 04/03/2025 10:51

butterpuffed · 04/03/2025 10:38

I dislike the actors who never used a glottal stop previously but do now. Maya Jama comes to mind in a tv cosmetics advert and Jodie Whittaker in an interview where she sometimes used them, sometimes didn't .

Emma Willis uses the glottal stop all the time. Down with the kids innit. I don’t think there’s anything wrong in the way AR speaks. We all use glottal stops.

SilkSquare · 04/03/2025 10:53

Coffeeishot · 04/03/2025 10:40

No she can't , there was a lengthy theead recently about a "hideous " "inappropriate " dress she was wearing in parliament!

Are we supposed to close our eyes and ears to her?
Are you suggesting that we only read her words and don't see or hear her?

That really is impossible and while she-or any other figure voluntarily in public life- is seen and heard they can expect comments on their appearance and voice-that's life. It was ever thus and will ever be.

If Ms Raynor exaggerates her voice to the extent that it frightens puppies and wears dresses more suited to the heroine of a Barbara Cartland novel, then there will be uncomplimentary remarks.

Of course, what is also amusing is the disconnect between how she presents herself-dressing in silly "gown" romantic type dresses ( also at one point wearing matching hair extensions that resembled My Little Pony) and her voice, which she has overcooked.

Politicians of all stripes exist to amuse us and dear Ange gives value for money in this regard if no other- so to ask the public to ignore how she chooses to present herself or, if that's not possible, to not comment on it-is simply asking too much of human nature!

TorroFerney · 04/03/2025 10:54

BallerinaRadio · 04/03/2025 08:52

What's your theory?

I don't think she sounds be changing how she speaks, that's just something natural. If she put a 'posh' voice she'd be crucified for being fake.

Judge her on actions not how she speaks

It’s not the accent, saying was instead of were isn’t your accent.

luckylavender · 04/03/2025 10:55

Ilovecleaning · 04/03/2025 08:50

AIBU to be so irritated by the deputy PM’s lazy speech? I was listening to her being interviewed this morning and I was distracted by her Bri-ish/righ-/wai-ed. I googled her and apparently when asking a question about the lockdown parties she said ‘Was you there or not?’
Why does it anger me so much? It is not her accent. I am northern but I don’t drop my t’s and I know when to use was and were.
Her lazy speech distracts from the content. I have my theories but I would love to hear other people’s opinions.

So boring, this constant criticising of successful Labour women. Rayner, Cooper, Reeves, Philipson can't do anything right. I can't bear listening to Priti Patel for the record. She sounds as if she doesn't have a brain.

RoofProblems · 04/03/2025 10:56

Namerchangee · 04/03/2025 09:00

I can’t stand people misusing ‘was’ and ‘were’. My MIL does it all the time, for example, ‘you was there wasn’t you?’ Speaking like that does her a disservice - it makes her sound unintelligent.

It's dialect, but it's also a consequence of the decline of "thou" and the move to singular "you". "You was..." makes more logical sense as a singular pronoun (in line with "she was", etc.) and will probably be standard usage eventually.