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To have laughed out loud at this retail worker

550 replies

Shmee1988 · 03/03/2025 17:07

Today I went to a highstreet branch for some painkillers. I asked the lady behind the counter if they had some cocodomol. She said 'yes, we have our normal cocodomol and our max strength'. I asked if I was allowed to come and read the box and she said no (behind the counter so fair enough) I then asked if she could please explain the difference between the 2, I obviously meant the difference in strength in the active ingredient. Her honest to God, genuine response was 'yes of course, this one is our max strength version...... and this one ....is not'😂I was so taken aback by the utter ridiculousness of her explanation that I had no idea to respond, I just laughed. Anyone had anything similar or did I just encounter a particularly unknowlegable retail worker ?

OP posts:
Totototo · 03/03/2025 18:48

You acted pathetically and she proved it to you. Laughing at her just made you look like a tweakier too.

WillIEverBeOk · 03/03/2025 18:48

Shmee1988 · 03/03/2025 18:43

They were locked away so I'd kind of assumed that if she didn't know (which i didn't expect her to) that she'd of had a look and either read the ingredients or passed me a box. I wanted to make sure if the strength was higher or if I was just paying for caffeine, which I can't really have unless I want to exchange my back pain for a migraine.

And again... "that she'd of had a look".

It is she'd HAVE.

Savemefromwetdog · 03/03/2025 18:49

WillIEverBeOk · 03/03/2025 18:46

You repeat the mistake yet again. "When asking someone selling otc medication I'd of assumed" It is I'd HAVE. Your English is absolutely woeful.

Right next to that is the perfume counter and customers are allowed to wonder freely.

And what are they wondering about?

AngelicKaty · 03/03/2025 18:49

stanleypops66 · 03/03/2025 18:08

You were rude. Your question wasn't obvious.
You should've said 'what's the difference in strength between the two?'.
You could've meant the price, the amount of pills in the box, the brand....

And if the sales assistant had said "Well, the normal one is £3.99 and the max strength is £4.50", then OP would have likely said, "No, sorry, I didn't mean the price difference, I meant the difference in active ingredient". But the assistant answered "yes of course, this one is our max strength version...... and this one ....is not." Regardless of what "difference" the assistant thought OP was asking about (price, number of pills, brand, active ingredients, etc.) how was her answer in any way sensible to any of those queries?

kittensinthekitchen · 03/03/2025 18:50

Shmee1988 · 03/03/2025 18:41

Yes,it was a laugh, but not in an unkind way. It was just funny and it made me laugh. Obviously my title suggests I was mean, but I honestly did mean it in alight hearted, it was a funny response that made me laugh.

Yeah posting on here for others to mock her too, along with calling her unknowledgeable and ridiculous was kinda cunty unkind too

Redlocks30 · 03/03/2025 18:50

When asking someone selling otc medication I'd of assumed that my question was a fairly obvious one.

You have a degree in English, yet repeatedly make this error! How odd.

Laughing out loud at a shop assistant (as per your thread title) is completely unnecessary. Maybe asking them a more specific question would have been a more sensible idea.

IButtleSir · 03/03/2025 18:50

Shmee1988 · 03/03/2025 18:46

Because I didn't realise that saying that something someone said made you laugh automatically meant that you were unkind, rude and a bitch. Usually if someone says they laughed, this means they found it funny, no?

Not when they are saying that they laughed AT someone for their perceived lack of knowledge (or should that be 'knowlege'?), no.

TheIceBear · 03/03/2025 18:50

I would expect a pharmacy technician to provide a better explanation of the medications and know what you meant. A shop assistant in a high street store may not be aware. Either way I wouldn’t laugh in their face , I would just ask further questions to explain what I meant.

I worked in retail for many years and it’s hell sometimes with the rude people you can encounter and the pay is often crap. I’d be cutting her some slack.

Arrivals4lucky · 03/03/2025 18:51

She’s probably sat at dinner now telling her family about the dim woman who asked her the same thing twice after laughing at HER!

Allthegoodhorses · 03/03/2025 18:51

Dramatic · 03/03/2025 18:42

But in this context where the op had already asked to see the two boxes it's extremely obvious that the difference she is asking about isn't the name "max strength" 🤦

It's not extremely obvious at all. The assistant could have been thinking that the OP was really dim.. She did not phrase the question well enough for the other person to know what she meant. What she should have said is what are the difference in ingredients. No one could assume that was what she was asking, it could have been difference in strength/price/ingredients.

kittensinthekitchen · 03/03/2025 18:51

Dramatic · 03/03/2025 18:42

But in this context where the op had already asked to see the two boxes it's extremely obvious that the difference she is asking about isn't the name "max strength" 🤦

Why is it obvious?

WillIEverBeOk · 03/03/2025 18:51

Savemefromwetdog · 03/03/2025 18:49

Right next to that is the perfume counter and customers are allowed to wonder freely.

And what are they wondering about?

Good catch, I missed that. Her English is quite atrocious.

BettyButtersBatter · 03/03/2025 18:52

Bit like when I asked the bloke in PC world what the difference was between 2 Android phones and he said one was blue and one was red. 🤷🏻‍♀️
Readers, I went elsewhere...

Cattery · 03/03/2025 18:53

WillIEverBeOk · 03/03/2025 18:46

You repeat the mistake yet again. "When asking someone selling otc medication I'd of assumed" It is I'd HAVE. Your English is absolutely woeful.

It is

namechangetheworld · 03/03/2025 18:53

Shmee1988 · 03/03/2025 18:46

Because I didn't realise that saying that something someone said made you laugh automatically meant that you were unkind, rude and a bitch. Usually if someone says they laughed, this means they found it funny, no?

Why ask if you were being unreasonable to laugh, if you weren't laughing AT her?

'Today I had a chuckle with a shop assistant about a misunderstanding over painkillers' isn't an AIBU, is it? You obviously knew you were mean, hence the post.

I'm so glad your 'everyone pat me on the back for belittling some minimum wage teenager working in Boots' post hasn't gone the way you hoped, you're coming across like a right cow.

IButtleSir · 03/03/2025 18:53

Shmee1988 · 03/03/2025 18:31

When asking someone selling otc medication I'd of assumed that my question was a fairly obvious one. Clearly everyone needs everyone to spell everything out to them. I'll remember that in future. Asking 'what's the difference' between the 2 meds required a fairly standard response.

When you spell everything out to everyone in the future, will you be spelling it correctly?

BobbyBiscuits · 03/03/2025 18:53

I'd have just probably laughed in an awkward but warm way, as if I didn't understand, then just said 'sorry, I meant how much codeine is in each?'

She could've been new. Or a bit daft. But I don't see why she wouldn't let you look at the packets to compare them if necessary. I often say 'can I see' and they hand the box for a second if it's something I've not bought before.
That's probably the boss's fault though not hers.

Cattery · 03/03/2025 18:54

Savemefromwetdog · 03/03/2025 18:49

Right next to that is the perfume counter and customers are allowed to wonder freely.

And what are they wondering about?

🤣👏🏻

Dramatic · 03/03/2025 18:54

kittensinthekitchen · 03/03/2025 18:51

Why is it obvious?

I don't know how to explain without basically saying that you'd have to be extremely thick to think she was asking about the difference that she already knew.

Addictedtowotsits · 03/03/2025 18:54

AngelicKaty · 03/03/2025 18:49

And if the sales assistant had said "Well, the normal one is £3.99 and the max strength is £4.50", then OP would have likely said, "No, sorry, I didn't mean the price difference, I meant the difference in active ingredient". But the assistant answered "yes of course, this one is our max strength version...... and this one ....is not." Regardless of what "difference" the assistant thought OP was asking about (price, number of pills, brand, active ingredients, etc.) how was her answer in any way sensible to any of those queries?

This is exactly the point.

Devianinc · 03/03/2025 18:55

Shmee1988 · 03/03/2025 18:33

Well then can you please tell me the difference between cocodomal and cocodamol max strength?

Extra strength is stronger,lol. I also thought it was funny and I’d have laughed too. Bc, it’s so obvious.

kittensinthekitchen · 03/03/2025 19:09

Dramatic · 03/03/2025 18:54

I don't know how to explain without basically saying that you'd have to be extremely thick to think she was asking about the difference that she already knew.

Or literal thinking? Like autistic?

Are you this ignorant and offensive about all disabilities, or just some?

("Oh, but I don't meeeeean them!")

Shmee1988 · 03/03/2025 19:10

namechangetheworld · 03/03/2025 18:53

Why ask if you were being unreasonable to laugh, if you weren't laughing AT her?

'Today I had a chuckle with a shop assistant about a misunderstanding over painkillers' isn't an AIBU, is it? You obviously knew you were mean, hence the post.

I'm so glad your 'everyone pat me on the back for belittling some minimum wage teenager working in Boots' post hasn't gone the way you hoped, you're coming across like a right cow.

I wasn't mean I didn't belittle anyone. She gave an answer that made me laugh. End of. It was a silly answer. I wasn't unkind or rude. Christ alive.

OP posts:
Dramatic · 03/03/2025 19:11

kittensinthekitchen · 03/03/2025 19:09

Or literal thinking? Like autistic?

Are you this ignorant and offensive about all disabilities, or just some?

("Oh, but I don't meeeeean them!")

No, a literal thinking person would know she already knew the difference in the names because she used the names in the question.

kittensinthekitchen · 03/03/2025 19:12

Shmee1988 · 03/03/2025 19:10

I wasn't mean I didn't belittle anyone. She gave an answer that made me laugh. End of. It was a silly answer. I wasn't unkind or rude. Christ alive.

It's not unkind to refer to someone as unknowlegable? Or ridiculous?
Is it not unkind to incite others to do the same?

I think you are ridiculous and unknowlegable about why someone might answer the question you asked, rather than the question you had in your head.