I am sick of people moaning that their husbands/boyfriends won't do what they should around the house.
They are not helping.
They are not doing their fair share.
It is an obligation to do what needs to be done - just as you, the mother/wife does, it. When you do stuff are you doing your fair share, doing your bit, helping him, etc etc no you are doing what needs to be done to run the house and take care of the family.
If your OH isn't then sort it out!