Am I being over sensitive??

[Chocolate123]

As the tiltle suggests AIBU if in a group of friends there's a new person who I get a vibe that she doesn't like me makes arrangements for nights out when she knows I can't make it? It's a fairly new group of friends from different places and countries and I understand she's trying to fit in but it's always suggested when I am not around. This group go out a lot and it never bothers me as I'm not available as the others and I go when I can.

How does she know you can’t make it, is it that you always do X on Tuesday night? Perhaps that’s a night which works best for her.
I would just go along to the things you fancy which are arranged by the wider group and if there is something you want to do suggest it and see who’s available.

No it's different nights I live in a different area . She texted me the other day saying she was planning a special surprise when was I around I told her and then she put into the group chat and it was the only date I was unavailable. It's not the first time it's happened. To be honest I was surprised she texted me.

She's clearly playing games. Next time she asks you for dates you can't do tell her dates you are available. Then all of a sudden you can be free 🤣

Good idea kitkat 🤣