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Women singers singing in their knickers.

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Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 17:31

I admit I'm older generation.
I'm a great admirer of singers such as Nina Simone, Linda Ronstadt, Suzi Quatro, Christine Perfect, Joan Baez, Tracy Chapman etc, etc.
They all not only have great voices but also real musical talent.
And they also don't stand and sing in their knickers
So what is it with people like Beyonce and Rhianna? If they really are talented why do they need to sing in their knickers? Why do they need to use sex to sell their songs? They are powerful enough not to bend to the industry pressure on them. Why not stand or fall on their talents rather than on selling their sexuality.?

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localnotail · 19/02/2025 20:18

A lot of male singers sing semi naked. It's more to do with a provocation than sex.

And if they feel like singing in knickers, why not? They are not MADE to do this, its their choice.

JHound · 19/02/2025 20:18

Ddakji · 19/02/2025 19:28

Sorry - is this a court of law? Are you a judge? I read the first couple of pages and I’m pretty sure I saw empowerment mentioned, but maybe I’m mistaken. I’m broadening the discussion to beyond words mentioned just on this thread, as I said previously.

But I don’t think you’re actually interested so I’ll leave it there.

It was a question because there aren’t any comments saying it’s empowering.

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 20:19

JHound · 19/02/2025 20:17

Now you are back OP why did you give Rihanna as an example over Sabrina Carpenter given Rihanna has not released music in a decade?

Well actually because I've never heard of Sabrina Carpenter!

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beAsensible1 · 19/02/2025 20:19

MellowCoralFinch · 19/02/2025 18:13

I've seen Beyoncé live 4 times. She doesn't sing "in her knickers". They are leotards and on her last tour she had a variety of costumes - including full length gowns, shorter dressers, catsuits (or whatever they are called) and a few leotards etc.

Anyone who has seen any female performer knows they usually switch up their outfits depends on the set and dance list.

rihanna has performed once in the past 5 ish years! In a jumpsuit.

JHound · 19/02/2025 20:22

Mmeme · 19/02/2025 19:31

I've read these threads on MN for years. It's always the same. Half the posters bending themselves out of shape to justify the fact that women performers are generally the ones wearing far fewer clothes than their male counterparts, and the other half feeling despair that it's still like this.

I'm an ex-dancer who has railed against this bullshit again and again. With some exceptions - and they ARE exceptions - women's bodies are exposed and men are far more covered up.

There is NO reason for it other than the depressing ingrained crap that each generation just accepts, while coming up with 'it's empowering!' shite.

It's not equal - and that's the problem - but it seems that we barely expect it to be equal anymore.

But if these women wish to so be it. I really doubt a singer with the level of power Beyonce has js wearing leotards against her will.

She crafts her entire productions from start to end. (she was actually more covered up at start of her career when she had less creative power!)

ClaudiaWankleman · 19/02/2025 20:22

localnotail · 19/02/2025 20:18

A lot of male singers sing semi naked. It's more to do with a provocation than sex.

And if they feel like singing in knickers, why not? They are not MADE to do this, its their choice.

I saw Tom Grennan a couple of years ago. He didn’t wear a top for most of the gig, did a lot of muscle flexing etc. He wore trousers that were very tight on his bum with tassels down the sides which really emphasised his movement.

Neighbours87 · 19/02/2025 20:22

Beyoncé’s isn’t wearing knickers she wearing a leotard. Her dance routines are very physically demanding

JHound · 19/02/2025 20:23

Ddakji · 19/02/2025 19:34

Well said. But some women, depressingly, don’t want to hear it, especially if it means commenting negatively on their chosen favourites.

Maybe some women just have no issue with performers choosing to wear production attire that may or may not be revealing.

Ddakji · 19/02/2025 20:24

localnotail · 19/02/2025 20:18

A lot of male singers sing semi naked. It's more to do with a provocation than sex.

And if they feel like singing in knickers, why not? They are not MADE to do this, its their choice.

you really don’t know how the music industry treats its artists, especially when they’re young and female, do you?

JHound · 19/02/2025 20:25

HolyPeaches · 19/02/2025 19:40

Here is a selection of photos of Beyoncé and Rhianna (your examples), singing in NOT their knickers.

You say you’re “older generation” but were you around in the 80’s?

I think OP’s “knickers” must look very different to the “knickers” I wear!

JHound · 19/02/2025 20:26

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 20:19

Well actually because I've never heard of Sabrina Carpenter!

But Sabrina Carpenter is a current performer and Rihanna has not released music in a decade. So why write a post now about Rihanna’s past outfits and not Madonna or Pink or Miley Cyrus?

And when did you ever see a Beyonce concert? I have and “performs in her knickers” is very inccurate”.

Could it just be that you are choosing to sexualise Beyonce and Rihanna’s bodies.

ThisFluentBiscuit · 19/02/2025 20:26

Mittens67 · 19/02/2025 17:55

I agree OP.
When women market themselves as a sex object so very basically and blatantly it affects all women by encouraging men to see us as just that. Objects to fulfil their sexual needs.
Given the enormous issue of violence against women and girls (which is pretty much entirely sex related) this is the last thing we need.
Yes, this has always happened but it is more extreme now. Plus just because it has always happened doesn’t make it a good thing.
Ditto all the crap about Only fans etc empowering women and renaming prostitution sex work.
Enormous empathy for women forced to make such choices to survive but not for those who choose it as a route to a more luxurious lifestyle now it has been made more socially acceptable by the chattering classes feigning faux positivity.

I thoroughly agree. Women being presented as sex objects encourages men to see all of us as brainless bimbos whose main job is to provide sex.

I think clothing is skimpier than ever these days, from what teens wear to girls and young women posing on Instagram wearing extremely small and suggestive clothing, to female sports stars wearing their uniforms up their bum cracks. Some of the Olympic dive teams practically had bare bums. I watch figure skating, and some of the women's costumes are the same in the seat area, and many of the costumes look like sexy lingerie as they make copious use of flesh-coloured material to look as if they're hardly wearing anything. It never used to be like this.

Skimpy clothing in public or on social media is simply tasteless, desperate, and cheap-looking, and nothing will ever convince me otherwise. Women and girls who dress like that make themselves look pretty dim, when they may be anything but. There's not much correlation between the amount of skin on show and how alluring you are. In the photos below, KM looks really sexy without having to get out her chest or bum or midriff.

Women singers singing in their knickers.
Women singers singing in their knickers.
Women singers singing in their knickers.
localnotail · 19/02/2025 20:28

Ddakji · 19/02/2025 20:24

you really don’t know how the music industry treats its artists, especially when they’re young and female, do you?

Yes. They make them sing naked.

PinkArt · 19/02/2025 20:28

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 17:52

I've never even heard of Benson Boone.

I just don't understand all the hype about singers such as Beyonce. If you are really talented why do you need to sell your body? Why is your musical talent not enough?

She's won more Grammy's than anyone else, ever. Her industry thinks she's incredibly talented.

ShapedLikeAPastry · 19/02/2025 20:28

JHound · 19/02/2025 20:23

Maybe some women just have no issue with performers choosing to wear production attire that may or may not be revealing.

I mean, I'm a very married, very straight, old-fashioned feminist killjoy, but I will watch Taylor perform the live version of Vigilante Shit until the cows come home...

JHound · 19/02/2025 20:29

ThisFluentBiscuit · 19/02/2025 20:26

I thoroughly agree. Women being presented as sex objects encourages men to see all of us as brainless bimbos whose main job is to provide sex.

I think clothing is skimpier than ever these days, from what teens wear to girls and young women posing on Instagram wearing extremely small and suggestive clothing, to female sports stars wearing their uniforms up their bum cracks. Some of the Olympic dive teams practically had bare bums. I watch figure skating, and some of the women's costumes are the same in the seat area, and many of the costumes look like sexy lingerie as they make copious use of flesh-coloured material to look as if they're hardly wearing anything. It never used to be like this.

Skimpy clothing in public or on social media is simply tasteless, desperate, and cheap-looking, and nothing will ever convince me otherwise. Women and girls who dress like that make themselves look pretty dim, when they may be anything but. There's not much correlation between the amount of skin on show and how alluring you are. In the photos below, KM looks really sexy without having to get out her chest or bum or midriff.

So women are to blame for men’s behaviour.

Kate is not performer so hardly an example although remind me what she wore on the catwalk when William first saw her……

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 20:30

HolyPeaches · 19/02/2025 19:40

Here is a selection of photos of Beyoncé and Rhianna (your examples), singing in NOT their knickers.

You say you’re “older generation” but were you around in the 80’s?

Well those photos show them wearing clothes! I've not actually seen them wearing as much clothing as that before !

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ShapedLikeAPastry · 19/02/2025 20:32

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 20:30

Well those photos show them wearing clothes! I've not actually seen them wearing as much clothing as that before !

Can I suggest, OP, that maybe you'd be better off starting threads about topics you do actually have some knowledge of?

JHound · 19/02/2025 20:32

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 20:30

Well those photos show them wearing clothes! I've not actually seen them wearing as much clothing as that before !

So you made a whole thread based on inaccurate information?

JHound · 19/02/2025 20:34

LucyMonth · 19/02/2025 20:04

Rihanna hasn’t released new music since 2016 and last performed live in 2023 at the Super Bowl whilst heavily pregnant and wore a boiler suit which covered her from neck to ankles.

Beyonce most recent albums feature songs about racism, social injustice, recovering from her husband’s affair, Huricane Katrina, becoming a mother. Her ‘Renaissance’ album represented the Black queer community with club and house music. The title was an ode to The Harlem Renaissance which was specifically the cultural revival of African American creative excellence in the 1920s.

Her latest album is called Cowboy Carter and is owed to the fact that the word “cowboy” was originally used as a derogatory word for enslaved black men who worked with horses and cattle.

She’s also comfortable with her sexuality and has used it, in combination with her immense talents as a singer, writer and performer. She has built an empire off it. Her work very much appeals to the female gaze and female empowerment in their own sexuality. Her concerts aren’t full of slobbering straight men. They are full of joyful, vibrant women having the time of their lives. I’m lucky to have been one of them many times and will be again in June!

I will be there in June too - I have my cowboy boots ready!

LatteLady · 19/02/2025 20:36

You should also take a look at the stars of the musicals in the 30s, 40s and 50s, from Ann Miller, Cyd Charisse, Judy Garland... Take a look at Ann Miller singing and dancing to Shaking the Blues Away from Easter Parade and take a look at her tights and the modesty panel when her skirt is unhooked...

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 20:36

PinkArt · 19/02/2025 20:28

She's won more Grammy's than anyone else, ever. Her industry thinks she's incredibly talented.

I don't actually hold much respect for the music industry and I think the way it treats women is well known.
If the industry lauds her then fair enough.
I don't know her music to comment on it. I can only judge her by her presentation in the media and I certainly haven't seen anything on the way the media presents her to admire her.

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beAsensible1 · 19/02/2025 20:36

ThisFluentBiscuit · 19/02/2025 20:26

I thoroughly agree. Women being presented as sex objects encourages men to see all of us as brainless bimbos whose main job is to provide sex.

I think clothing is skimpier than ever these days, from what teens wear to girls and young women posing on Instagram wearing extremely small and suggestive clothing, to female sports stars wearing their uniforms up their bum cracks. Some of the Olympic dive teams practically had bare bums. I watch figure skating, and some of the women's costumes are the same in the seat area, and many of the costumes look like sexy lingerie as they make copious use of flesh-coloured material to look as if they're hardly wearing anything. It never used to be like this.

Skimpy clothing in public or on social media is simply tasteless, desperate, and cheap-looking, and nothing will ever convince me otherwise. Women and girls who dress like that make themselves look pretty dim, when they may be anything but. There's not much correlation between the amount of skin on show and how alluring you are. In the photos below, KM looks really sexy without having to get out her chest or bum or midriff.

Classy always starts with someone stick thin and white.

god forbid you have boobs a bum and rhythm and automatically everything becomes sexualised. It’s so boring.

taylor swift wears no more clothes than any other pop star. But cos she straight up and down no one even notices.

JHound · 19/02/2025 20:37

Ddakji · 19/02/2025 20:11

The patriarchy thank you for your service.

Beyonce’s fan base is overwhelmingly female.

Mmeme · 19/02/2025 20:37

JHound · 19/02/2025 20:22

But if these women wish to so be it. I really doubt a singer with the level of power Beyonce has js wearing leotards against her will.

She crafts her entire productions from start to end. (she was actually more covered up at start of her career when she had less creative power!)

I think that's a simplistic, reductive POV that ignores everything around it. If we reduce it to the level of But Beyonce Wants to Wear a Leotard, then the next generation of young female dancers wanting a more equal industry will not find anything better than the previous one.

But there we go. We think very differently about these things, obviously.