Cheating partner found on fab

[Chuckn]

A year ago I found my partner of over 22 years on fab. They had been meeting men for sex, attending sex parties, and sharing loads of explicit messages on telegram. I even found some images of a guy she had sex with in her messenger.
We have a few children together, but we are were never married. She did confess all when presented with the evidence, apologised, but it absolutely broke me. I suffered bad traumatic responses for over six months.
A year later, I tried to come to terms with it, I've tried forgiving, but honestly I don't know if I can.
There is a lot of history and family and children etc, but honestly should I move on?

What are the "bad traumatic responses"?
Does this include anything that is a danger to you or others?

Have you considered what life would be like seperated and why haven't you left?

You already have a thread about this. It'll be in your 'I'm on' tab.

Trauma responses have been flashbacks, imaginings. Everyone is more than safe. Moving on after 23 years and six children is not easy. Lots of history and everything is deeply entwined.

Leave, it’s unforgivable for you (understandably), live the best rest of your life separated.

Have you agreed to be exclusive? Have you been faithful too? For 23 years?

How on earth does she have time for all this with 6 kids?

I adore this thread, when it’s a man doing the cheating, leave him, he is scum.
when it’s a woman doing it, we need to make sure the person she is cheating on isn’t responding badly.
Wonderful double standards.