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To be shocked watching back kids movies from my childhood with DD

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Picklepower · 17/02/2025 17:10

DD is 6 and we watch quite a few films together, mixture of old and new. Last Halloween I was so excited to watch a film from my childhood, decided against hocus pocus but went with Casper. Well, turns out not once but TWICE Eric idle's character shouts BITCH at Carrigan. (She's is tbf but a bit much for a Pg film).

Just sat down to watch Charlie and the chocolate factory (from 2005!) and mike teevee says 'even a retard could figure it out'. What the hell!

Any other corkers you've come across watching back your childhood films?

OP posts:
Wintershealing · 17/02/2025 19:14

Picklepower · 17/02/2025 19:12

I'm the op, so I very much know my intentions.

I know, hence why I quoted you

Lemonyyy · 17/02/2025 19:14

My mum was a guide leader and did a movie night where they watched grease (having not watched it for ages and assumed it was as they remembered from their kid’s childhoods) and she was utterly mortified by the time the film finished! I honestly think a lot of stuff that would’ve gone over my head as a child does not go over the head of a 10 year old today either which makes watching a different experience….

thank you to the poster who suggested the film fly away home - I adored that movie when it came out and might watch it with my kids this weekend!

RafaistheKingofClay · 17/02/2025 19:15

TheChosenTwo · 17/02/2025 17:28

My youngest is now a teenager (13) and it’s a minefield sitting down to watch some of the old classics with him.
I went for a safe option the other night, trains planes and automobiles - all fine pretty much until Steve Martin goes off on a rampage and uses the word fucking about 20 times in a minute 😂
to be fair I don’t mind the odd bit of swearing in stuff and it was a 15 so my own fault!
But I do agree, and if anyone has any recommendations for any old classics to watch with nothing too hardcore I’m all ears.

I’d give four weddings a miss then although that’s a 15 too. 😂

BurntBroccoli · 17/02/2025 19:15

@ItGhoul
Yes described as a comedy horror usually.

Suzuki76 · 17/02/2025 19:16

There's a bit in Octopussy where Bond gives an Indian man a tip and says "That'll keep you in curry for a few weeks." DH and I were so shocked we laughed!

ReadingParty · 17/02/2025 19:17

Horriblevirusagain · 17/02/2025 18:06

I grew up watching horror movies and still love them. Am now 54 and never traumatized. My kids grew up with all Disney movies and Simpsons , sadly for me don't like horrors. I don't remember any movie in childhood where I was shocked with language. Us 54 year olds are hardcore because we were raised in the 70s 👍

I'm 52 and watched a pirate copy of Driller Killer when on a sleepover in 1982, and haven't watched a horror film since!

Goodnurseorgremlin · 17/02/2025 19:19

I've rewatched a few 80s films lately.

Both Teenwolf and Bill and Ted's excellent adventure use the word fag as an insult

Back to the future. When Biff has Marty's mum in the back of the car and is sexually assaulting her!

Still great films though.

BurntBroccoli · 17/02/2025 19:19

DopeyS · 17/02/2025 17:51

My parents took me to watch Jurassic Park when it came out. I worked it out the other day and I was 6 when I saw it in the cinema. I didn't sleep for a good few months after that. The kitchen scene was what did it for me. I was a sensitive kid though.

It very much depends on the kids. I found the Neverending Story scary too and still can't watch it with the swamp scene. Think it traumatised a generation 😂😂

I saw Towering inferno when I was about 8 at the cinema. Nightmares for years afterwards! Goodness knows why my mother took us to see that!

Mind you, I have always had to have a fire escape plan whenever I stay anywhere.

NoseyFarkers · 17/02/2025 19:20

Try Watership Down op, you'll realise how tame your previous watches have been then 😂

*Still shudder at WSD, decades later. Anyone else?

Oldglasses · 17/02/2025 19:22

ItGhoul · 17/02/2025 17:50

Gremlins was a 15 when it was originally released. It’s now a 12A so certainly not intended as a film for young kids.

We went to see it for a classmate's 11th birthday in the early 80s!!

Picklepower · 17/02/2025 19:23

Wintershealing · 17/02/2025 19:14

I know, hence why I quoted you

So why are you telling me what my intentions behind starting a thread were? As you can see, I ask for examples of when other people have found this and many people have given great examples, and managed to do so without being miserable sods

OP posts:
JandamiHash · 17/02/2025 19:24

TempestTost · 17/02/2025 19:08

You can hardly criticize the film for plot points you've totally made up.

I know I’m only joking! In reality they’d have split up by August 🤣

Knackered1 · 17/02/2025 19:25

Exactly this!

JandamiHash · 17/02/2025 19:25

Picklepower · 17/02/2025 19:23

So why are you telling me what my intentions behind starting a thread were? As you can see, I ask for examples of when other people have found this and many people have given great examples, and managed to do so without being miserable sods

Didn’t you know OP it’s Mumsnet Law that you have to put LIGHTHEARTED in a thread title otherwise posters must think you’re being Very Serious Indeed

PS - for the avoidance of doubt this post is LIGHTHEARTED

MirrorMirror70 · 17/02/2025 19:25

I watched Dirty Dancing for the first time when I was about 7-8 and I remember thinking Penny was “a bit poorly” and Baby’s dad made her feel better. The whole botched abortion thing totally flew over my head, thankfully!

Also, I’m slightly embarrassed to admit that despite watching Forrest Gump at least 30 times over the years since it first came out, it was only about 3-4 years ago that I realised Forrest’s mum has sex with the principal to get Forrest a place in the mainstream school 😶I was in my mid-30s!

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 17/02/2025 19:27

JandamiHash · 17/02/2025 19:24

I know I’m only joking! In reality they’d have split up by August 🤣

And he was definitely shit at athletics, considering he didn't even look where he was running 🤦.

Superhansrantowindsor · 17/02/2025 19:28

Goodies has a dodgy bit when mouth is translating packing instructions to the Spanish speaking lady. That made me wince when I showed dc.

Superhansrantowindsor · 17/02/2025 19:28

Goonies not goodies.

Youremylobster86 · 17/02/2025 19:28

OP I think it's the way you have worded the original post, sounds more like you're pearl clutching than it being light hearted.

'Pissworm" in Matilda, me and my brother would roll around laughing. Nothing in these films though would put me off showing age appropriate children, movies today don't even compare.

ChessorBuckaroo · 17/02/2025 19:28

Picklepower · 17/02/2025 18:03

Well obviously. The problem is the word retard not that his character isn't nice. The children in Charlie and the chocolate factory aren't nice, that's why the all end up the way they do

Apart from Charlie.

All of Dahl's books have a good child who contrasts with the others. For Charlie see James, Matilda, Sophie, George, Danny etc.

Most good stories have that protagonist (usually good)/antagonist angle.

Redheadedstepchild · 17/02/2025 19:29

ChompandaGrazia · 17/02/2025 18:28

The exact same day to be exact!

This marketing tactic intrigues me. On the face of it, you'd halve your profits by releasing films with similar target audiences on the same day but it doesn't work like that. Is it just, "I can't decide, so I'll have both?"

I wonder this in a lot of situations. I was stuck in Marseille airport for several hours recently and there were three or four different food outlets selling the same thing. All sandwiches, all more or less cold, bit of coffee, bit of cake, that was it.

I have watched a few youtube shorts of Rory Sutherland explaining how selling the same thing, close together works and I kind of half understand it.

meganorks · 17/02/2025 19:30

Not quite in the same vein, but recently thought DDs might like Shaun of the Dead. Its a 15 (they are 11 and 13) but we thought it's funny rather than scary and we like a bit of zombie chat in this house.

About 5 mins in: "Any of you cunts want a drink" 🙈
To be fair, I think it completely went ovwr their heads, so I suppose that is reasuring!

JandamiHash · 17/02/2025 19:31

MirrorMirror70 · 17/02/2025 19:25

I watched Dirty Dancing for the first time when I was about 7-8 and I remember thinking Penny was “a bit poorly” and Baby’s dad made her feel better. The whole botched abortion thing totally flew over my head, thankfully!

Also, I’m slightly embarrassed to admit that despite watching Forrest Gump at least 30 times over the years since it first came out, it was only about 3-4 years ago that I realised Forrest’s mum has sex with the principal to get Forrest a place in the mainstream school 😶I was in my mid-30s!

Someone pointed out to me that Jenny probably died from AIDS. I never thought much about her sickness!

FiveWhatByFiveWhat · 17/02/2025 19:31

BurntBroccoli · 17/02/2025 19:19

I saw Towering inferno when I was about 8 at the cinema. Nightmares for years afterwards! Goodness knows why my mother took us to see that!

Mind you, I have always had to have a fire escape plan whenever I stay anywhere.

My mum and dad saw Towering Inferno as one of their first dates over 50 years ago - my dad hates heights and apparently spent so long in the toilet that my mum thought he'd ran out on her 🤣

Wintershealing · 17/02/2025 19:32

Wolf of wall street is one of my dds (18) favourite films so the woke brigade isn't totally alive amongst the young!

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