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To think it's bonkers to not vaccinate against chicken pox

328 replies

Springadorable · 14/02/2025 18:05

Especially if you have multiple kids who haven't had it who would probably get it back to back meaning potentially 2-3 weeks off work for parents while waiting for them to scab over.

Genuinely curious as to why people don't vaccinate. It is more expensive to have the time off work than to vaccinate and it's a nasty uncomfortable avoidable illness for kids and a standard vaccine for a lot of the rest of the world. So if you haven't, why not?

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ahdlfj · 14/02/2025 20:25

@EmeraldShamrock000 but chicken pox is very well known to be harmful and is also a very prevalent virus. Your nonchalance shocks me I have to say. Mine got it naturally, but I would have sorted out a vaccine if they hadn't got it by a certain age.

Juicyapple44 · 14/02/2025 20:26

I am in England, it's not part of our childhood immunisations, when I looked into my GP put me off saying the immunity from the immunization
wears off by adulthood so they can then catch it as an adult which is more dangerous especially if pregnant

Covidwoes · 14/02/2025 20:27

@ThejoyofNC you do that every time you leave the house. Hmm, I don't worry about my DDs catching measles when they leave the house. Because they've been vaccinated.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 14/02/2025 20:33

Your nonchalance shocks me I have to say. Mine got it naturally,

I think it's an Irish thing, home remedies and good rest fix most issues.

GP visits are very expensive, medication is expensive, health insurance supplement is only offered in high paying jobs, private health insurance costs 1000's.

Thank goodness Google exists.

Heatherbell1978 · 14/02/2025 20:37

@ThejoyofNC I've got some pretty horrific pictures of my 4 year old DD in hospital with chicken pox. A doctor said to me at the time that she despairs of the urban myth that chicken pox is just a mild illness and a rite of passage.

Sunnnybunny72 · 14/02/2025 20:39

It's going to be implemented soon into the childhood schedule and combined with the MMR vaccine. Possibly later this year, almost certainly within the next two.
There is no word yet on whether there will be a catch up programme but big changes ahead.
Practice nurse.

SchoolDilemma17 · 14/02/2025 20:40

Springadorable · 14/02/2025 18:30

But will it cost you more than £140 to have potentially two weeks (if one child, longer if more kids) off work?

Key reason why mine are vaccinated. I am self employed and a day off will cost me more than the vaccine, let alone 2 weeks.

comedycentral · 14/02/2025 20:40

AmbridgeGirl · 14/02/2025 18:10

Probably not the answer you are looking for, but I didn't know there was a vaccine available until after my children had already had it.

Same, it was never even raised as an option when mine were smaller, and I didn't know you could vaccinate against it.

powershowerforanhour · 14/02/2025 20:45

"It doesn’t provide as much immunity as catching it"

If you're exposed to the wild type virus after having been vaccinated, why wouldn't it just act as a booster then?

Littlemisscapable · 14/02/2025 20:47

Springadorable · 14/02/2025 20:11

No. Anyone who has had chicken pox or the vaccine can get shingles (much more likely with catching chicken pox). Anyone who hasn't had to the vaccine or chicken pox is at risk of getting it much more severely as an adult.

But you cant get shingles if you haven't had chickenpox...it is a reactivation of the same virus that caused chickenpox. To get it, you need to have had exposure to earlier in life. So a UK vaccine for kids is a good thing long term.

TrixieFatell · 14/02/2025 20:49

For us it was cost, I was a student and my partner had a minimum wage job so we genuinely couldn't afford it. Then they all got it anyway, thankfully were not too unwell with it. If I could have afforded it I would have done so. Ive not long paid for my eldest to get vaccinated against men B before uni and that was an eye watering £220 (yes it is worth the peace of mind).

Emmacb82 · 14/02/2025 20:49

I have 3 kids and recently spent 6 weeks with them all having it one by one. I’ve never been in a position to be able to afford to get them all vaccinated but certainly would advocate it if you can. Luckily I work opposite my husband so don’t have any issues with having to take time off etc. Fortunately they were all fairly mild cases, one I wouldn’t have known he was ill, the worst was my 8 month old but that was mainly one rough day/night. I do hope they add the vaccine to the usual childhood ones as it potentially can be so nasty.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 14/02/2025 20:51

A doctor said to me at the time that she despairs of the urban myth that chicken pox is just a mild illness and a rite of passage

The NHS and HSE websites both state is a mild common illness, not a rite of passage.

It is mild for many children, there is always some children impacted by a virus more severely.

I am pro-vaccine for most jabs, when the benefits outweigh the risk.

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 14/02/2025 20:51

Whalesong · 14/02/2025 19:05

Sure, it's still working 6 years later, but she'll be much more vulnerable than her siblings in 20, 30 years time.

As many others have said, this is bullshit.

Boymama14 · 14/02/2025 20:53

My toddler is immunocompromised and cannot have the vaccine, however I would do so in a heartbeat if we could. Please vaccinate to protect those who can’t!

KidsDr · 14/02/2025 21:00

You're completely correct. Having seen some nasty complications in children, I have had all of mine immunised.

It isn't true that immunity doesn't last as long as that which results from infection. This was a theoretical concern which hasn't borne out.

Another huge benefit rarely discussed is that chickenpox immunisation does not cause shingles, so immunised children will not suffer from shingles in their adult lives.

There are two reasons it hasn't been included in the routine schedule:

  • Cost savings
  • Because exposure of adults to wild chickenpox circulating among children, increases the adults' immunity to shingles from their own latent chickenpox

Neither of those reasons is centering the child. It's in a child's best interests to be immunised against chickenpox (providing they are immunocompetent to receive the immunisation safely of course).

Increasingly, shingles in the elderly is now being prevented by administering the chickenpox immunisation to this population. Perhaps this is why the JCVI are now bringing chickenpox into the routine childhood immunisation schedule. Better to immunise children once and not deal with all the complications of chickenpox and shingles, then to have to repeatedly immunise them in later life.

KidsDr · 14/02/2025 21:03

For anyone interested, the recommendation by the JCVI to include chickenpox in the routine childhood immunisation schedule:

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/childhood-varicella-vaccination-programme-jcvi-advice-14-november-2023/jcvi-statement-on-a-childhood-varicella-chickenpox-vaccination-programme

The UK has been behind on this, glad we are catching up.

Londonrach1 · 14/02/2025 21:04

You do know it has a shelf life and you need to redo it in 10 years. It's not fool proof!

KidsDr · 14/02/2025 21:06

Londonrach1 · 14/02/2025 21:04

You do know it has a shelf life and you need to redo it in 10 years. It's not fool proof!

This is completely untrue.

ThePoshUns · 14/02/2025 21:12

I wish they vaccinated in the uk. My son had it at 8 weeks old. It was horrific. He has some awful scars and I still have some awful memories of it now 20 years on.

ThePoshUns · 14/02/2025 21:13

If I have grandchildren I will pay for them to have the vaccination of their parents want me to.

Russiandollsaresofullofthemselves · 14/02/2025 21:15

because it’s not routinely offered in the UK most people don’t even know a vaccine exists. I imagine the cost of the vaccine would be off putting.

Russiandollsaresofullofthemselves · 14/02/2025 21:19

I can’t afford the vaccine. I keep hoping my kids get chicken pox so they don’t get it as adults when it is much more severe.

ThePartingOfTheWays · 14/02/2025 21:28

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 14/02/2025 20:51

As many others have said, this is bullshit.

It is indeed!

Househunter2025 · 14/02/2025 21:30

cadburyegg · 14/02/2025 18:25

This. Presumably there's a reason why it's not been included in the childhood vaccination schedule?

I do know a child who was very poorly with CP but they are the exception rather than the norm. For my children and every other child I know it was a few days of mild illness then they were fine after. And now they are protected for life, but I believe with the vaccination they have to be re-vaccinated every 10 years for the rest of their lives (apologies if I have it wrong).

It is included now