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To think it's bonkers to not vaccinate against chicken pox

328 replies

Springadorable · 14/02/2025 18:05

Especially if you have multiple kids who haven't had it who would probably get it back to back meaning potentially 2-3 weeks off work for parents while waiting for them to scab over.

Genuinely curious as to why people don't vaccinate. It is more expensive to have the time off work than to vaccinate and it's a nasty uncomfortable avoidable illness for kids and a standard vaccine for a lot of the rest of the world. So if you haven't, why not?

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RBowmama · 16/02/2025 03:56

Not sure if this has already been shared but the UK are indeed looking to introduce CP vaccine to the childhood immunisation schedule https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/childhood-varicella-vaccination-programme-jcvi-advice-14-november-2023/jcvi-statement-on-a-childhood-varicella-chickenpox-vaccination-programme

It was initially felt that the vaccine would be too costly and concerns around the impact to adults immune response to shingles acquired through exposure to chickenpox in the community but this theory has since been disproven. Apparently chickenpox is still costly to the NHS with many parents visiting GPs over chickenpox concerns and queries, asking for medicines to be prescribed that should be bought and of course more serious cases that require hospital care. Not to mention the cost of caring for adult shingle patients. If we eradicate chickenpox then one day shingles too will be gone.

Dunnowhatimat · 16/02/2025 04:08

All vaccines, along with all illnesses, have risk/benefit. You do your best, (by actually looking into it properly, not taking anyone or anythings word as infallible) and decide for you and your family. It may turn out the risk outweighs the benefit or vice versa. Simples.
Plus, is it not still possible to catch CP, suffer it as bad, have all the side effects etc whether u take vaccine or not?

YankSplaining · 16/02/2025 04:58

faffadoodledo · 14/02/2025 18:29

My two were vaccinated. But that was nearly 30 years ago in the US. Interestingly it was I think a requirement for entering the state's school system. I wonder if that will change now with RFK at the health helm over there?

I’m 38 (born 1986) and I got the vaccine when it first became widely available in the US in 1995. My guess is that it wasn’t a requirement unless your kids were really little. I was one of the only kids I knew who got the vaccine, because most people had had chicken pox already. I remember friends being amazed that I’d made it to nine without ever having chicken pox.

YankSplaining · 16/02/2025 05:02

I didn’t realize it wasn’t a standard immunization in the UK. Over here in the US, my kids have the book Arthur’s Chicken Pox and I had to explain what chicken pox was, because they’ve never known anyone who’s had it.

Unless there’s a pressing medical reason not to have a chicken pox vaccine, I agree, OP.

TheatreTraveller · 16/02/2025 05:05

Both of my children were privately vaccinated.
Wasn't even a consideration not to protect them from something that i could do very easily.

InWalksBarberalla · 16/02/2025 05:18

Dunnowhatimat · 16/02/2025 04:08

All vaccines, along with all illnesses, have risk/benefit. You do your best, (by actually looking into it properly, not taking anyone or anythings word as infallible) and decide for you and your family. It may turn out the risk outweighs the benefit or vice versa. Simples.
Plus, is it not still possible to catch CP, suffer it as bad, have all the side effects etc whether u take vaccine or not?

Well yes it's still possible but much less likely. Do you not wear a seat belt when in a car because it is still possible to die in a car accident when wearing a seat belt?

TimeForATerf · 16/02/2025 05:25

DancefloorAcrobatics · 14/02/2025 18:55

^ This. It's relatively harmless in young & healthy children.
If immune compromised, adult or pregnant, then it's a completely different story. I'd say if you haven't had it by age 10-12 then it's worth having the vaccine.

I agree with this now, the vaccine wasn’t something I’d heard of when mine were little.

My DS had it as a toddler before his sister was born. His sister never had it.

When she started training as a HCP she had to have some extra vaccinations such HepB and was asked about CP. Since she hadn’t had it the hospital/uni did a blood test to check for immunity, if there was none she would have been vaccinated, she was 18. It turned out she had immunity anyway despite never having any CP symptoms.

She did go to nursery from being a baby so I can only assume she got a very mild case that didn’t present any spots.

BambiBambi44 · 16/02/2025 05:29

RBowmama · 16/02/2025 03:56

Not sure if this has already been shared but the UK are indeed looking to introduce CP vaccine to the childhood immunisation schedule https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/childhood-varicella-vaccination-programme-jcvi-advice-14-november-2023/jcvi-statement-on-a-childhood-varicella-chickenpox-vaccination-programme

It was initially felt that the vaccine would be too costly and concerns around the impact to adults immune response to shingles acquired through exposure to chickenpox in the community but this theory has since been disproven. Apparently chickenpox is still costly to the NHS with many parents visiting GPs over chickenpox concerns and queries, asking for medicines to be prescribed that should be bought and of course more serious cases that require hospital care. Not to mention the cost of caring for adult shingle patients. If we eradicate chickenpox then one day shingles too will be gone.

Yes, the MMRV vaccine will be phased into the standard childhood immunisation schedule soon.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 16/02/2025 08:23

Because I didn't know it was available as a private vaccine. DS got it age 3, I was still on mat leave with DD. She caught it from him, age 8 months. She was very ok unwell. It was just as well I was on mat leave. Both DC got bronchitis straight after cp. First spot to last cough was 6 weeks!

MontereyK · 16/02/2025 09:00

Yes, I find it bonkers, I live in Australia where it is part of the infant immunisation schedule so you hardly hear of anyone getting it.

Flipflop223 · 16/02/2025 22:29

Springadorable · 14/02/2025 18:05

Especially if you have multiple kids who haven't had it who would probably get it back to back meaning potentially 2-3 weeks off work for parents while waiting for them to scab over.

Genuinely curious as to why people don't vaccinate. It is more expensive to have the time off work than to vaccinate and it's a nasty uncomfortable avoidable illness for kids and a standard vaccine for a lot of the rest of the world. So if you haven't, why not?

The immunity doesn’t last which makes it problematic for girls - they could lose their immunity around pregnancy which would harm the child in a significant way

Natsku · 17/02/2025 03:36

Flipflop223 · 16/02/2025 22:29

The immunity doesn’t last which makes it problematic for girls - they could lose their immunity around pregnancy which would harm the child in a significant way

For the 500th time, we don't know how long the immunity lasts because its only been 30 years since they started giving the vaccine in the US, but we know from the US results that it last 30 years so far. There is no reason to believe, at this point, that immunity wanes more than any other vaccine. And the great thing about vaccines is, if they do wane, is that you can get boosters. Wild chickenpox, on the other hand, does not guarantee immunity, you can get it multiple times (a friend's child had it 3 times as a baby and toddler) and it gives you the delightful present of potential shingles one day (or several times).

TwatOnAHotTinRoof · 17/02/2025 06:55

Who made you the expert @Natsku ? Are you an actual expert on this or just on this mnet thread???

www.cdc.gov/vaccines/vpd/varicella/hcp/about-vaccine.html#:~:text=form%20of%20varicella-,Duration%20of%20Protection,to%2020%20years%20after%20vaccination.

Natsku · 17/02/2025 07:42

Did you read that? It says at least 10 to 20 years from studies done before it was widely used. That doesn't say it is limited to 10-20 years.
More recent studies have found no evidence of warning of effectiveness https://academic.oup.com/jid/article/226/Supplement_4/S425/6764809?login=false

"There is no evidence for waning of the effectiveness of 2 doses of the vaccine."

JassyRadlett · 17/02/2025 07:54

TwatOnAHotTinRoof · 17/02/2025 06:55

That link doesn't disagree with what the PP was saying, and elsewhere on the CDC website it notes that two doses give lifelong protection in most cases.

But let's go for primary sources. This study directly contradicts the PP's assertion that immunity doesn't last.

JassyRadlett · 17/02/2025 07:55

Snap, @Natsku, but I had my window open WAY longer!

The misinformation on this one is just crazy.

SlingaporeSing · 17/02/2025 08:00

Springadorable · 14/02/2025 18:30

But will it cost you more than £140 to have potentially two weeks (if one child, longer if more kids) off work?

What a shame your decision is based around you needing to take time off if your child gets chicken pox. That really has no place in the decision. Sorry.

ThePartingOfTheWays · 17/02/2025 08:03

Knowing that 1995 was 30 years ago is expert level knowledge, apparently.

Springadorable · 17/02/2025 09:09

SlingaporeSing · 17/02/2025 08:00

What a shame your decision is based around you needing to take time off if your child gets chicken pox. That really has no place in the decision. Sorry.

Or maybe, if you'd read what I'd actually written, you'd see I was saying that in addition to the huge health benefits it also makes sense financially?

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JassyRadlett · 17/02/2025 10:20

SlingaporeSing · 17/02/2025 08:00

What a shame your decision is based around you needing to take time off if your child gets chicken pox. That really has no place in the decision. Sorry.

The decision about whether it's affordable on an individual basis will be based on the relative up front versus subsequent costs. That's where the £140 comes in - is vaccination cheaper than the costs of time off work etc?

That's a separate assessment from the question of whether vaccination is desirable and beneficial - and hopefully a consideration that will become irrelevant given JCVI's recommendation.

Nice try, though a little bit too disingenuous to be convincing.

Crazyworldmum · 17/02/2025 18:10

No way would I ever give it it when real immunity is better . All off mine had it without any issues .

Whatlettuceisthis · 17/02/2025 18:27

Crazyworldmum · 17/02/2025 18:10

No way would I ever give it it when real immunity is better . All off mine had it without any issues .

Is real immunity better though @Crazyworldmum? The vaccine seems to protect better against developing shingles later on and that’s something definitely worth considering when deciding what to do. Also you don’t have the small risk of serious complications of chickenpox, or not as high a risk at least.

Whether the immunity the vaccine offers is as good or long-term as getting chicken pox naturally is another consideration of course, but it’s not the only one.

JassyRadlett · 17/02/2025 18:59

Crazyworldmum · 17/02/2025 18:10

No way would I ever give it it when real immunity is better . All off mine had it without any issues .

If "better" means "taking a significantly higher of getting a very nasty recurring disease later in life" then sure, the risk profile (small risk of very nasty complications) changes. But I'm not sure there is evidence than the vaccine- and wild-derived immunity is so vastly different after the two-dose regimen given at the right ages.

Rubyupbeat · 17/02/2025 19:17

Chickenpox vaccine wasn't aroundvwhen mine were small, my eldest caught it 6 times.

Natsku · 18/02/2025 03:59

Crazyworldmum · 17/02/2025 18:10

No way would I ever give it it when real immunity is better . All off mine had it without any issues .

This concept of "real" immunity being better has always baffled me. In order to get "real" immunity you first have to get sick, whereas with vaccine immunity you don't need to get sick. How is getting sick better than not getting sick?
And chickenpox is something you can catch more than once, plus can lead to shingles, which you can develop more than once too, so "real" immunity is definitely not better in this case in any way.

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