in a passive aggressive way when I'm really tired and need food by calling me 'nasty bb99' right when I need a bit of support.
Having spent the last 2 nights NOT sleeping, then going to FT work, having been snottily vommed on numerous times (inhaled snot with bm), after bfing DC, having to totally change etc etc Having been cheery and co-operative and even fulfilling my wifely duties of running the rest of the home and family, having supported DH being home after 7.45 on all nights this week and doing the joyless Nursery run - AIBU to expect DH to not be so f**g unsupportive when I leave DC in cot crying as I desperately need something to eat and drink (DC having been strapped to my breasts since getting home) when I don't joyfully skip down the stairs going 'ohhhh, I love the sound of my baby crying, especially when I'm really tired and hungry and a bit peeved and quite stressed....it's SOOOOO great when they don't get off to sleep....would you like to have a try my darling poppit precious DH?'
BUT for him to then turn around, twist, twist, twist the knife of my motherly failure and then jump up and down rubbing salt in the wound with patronising and unsupportive 'nasty bb99' comments....HE IS SO LIKE HIS SADISTIC BLOODY FATHER SOMETIMES, it is terrifying. His mum's an alcoholic, but seeing the way my FIL is with her, it's hardly suprising....
I could go downstairs right now and poke him in the eye with a great big pointy stick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!