Am I being unreasonable to expect xp to let me know sooner than thursday afternoon that dd has been invited to a child's birthday party on sunday?
His contact is he has her for a couple of hours tuesday evening and overnight from friday evening to saturday evening, the party is on sunday afternoon (which is the only time I get to spend one full day with her as I work full time, so my time with dd is very precious).
If I don't let her go (I know social interaction with other kids is important for her) I'll end up being the bad guy, but what's upsetting me is that for too long I've been stuck in a routine for sundays (family obligations) so last weekend I'd decided that I was definately gonna take dd out for the day and I've been really looking forward to it all week, especially with the weather being lovely, and now I can't.
When my mum handed dd over to xp last weekend he did mention an upcoming birthday over the next couple of weeks, but he never said on what exact date, and now I'm just expected to drop my plans.
Sorry, just needed to rant
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To expect xp to let me know sooner?
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TheUnsinkableMB · 08/05/2008 16:19
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