Over the past year or so 2 colleagues have struck a friendship, which in itself is totally fine everyone’s got to get through the work day somehow right..
however I heard a conversation that went something like this..
18yo female says: I’m upset and want to talk about what’s upsetting me and so on.
After a little while 30yo male interrupts: I had a great handjob the other day (proceeds to mention where and who by etc). They laugh.
I asked him after if that was appropriate he said it was just for impact and very much in line with their friendship.