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Major ick

44 replies

TeaAndCake28 · 09/02/2025 13:11

Going off someone because of:
Always on about trump
Always on about us being cashless one day
Boring hearing about it

Picks spots and eats the puss
Lives in a dirty place

Apparently I am naive as I dont care about trump and being cashless one day.

Apparently I am a snob and judge people and am out of order because I say you should not eat puss.

Major ick

Is there anyone that WOULD tolerate this though?

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Brenzett · 09/02/2025 13:14

Eats puss? Oh my dear God

MasterBeth · 09/02/2025 13:14

I feel 🤢

MrsJHernandez · 09/02/2025 13:15

Umm who TF eats pus? That is truly vile. I wouldn't kiss him after that 🤮

He/she sounds awful in every way you've mentioned.

Run away and don't look back!

theallotmentqueen · 09/02/2025 13:16

sounds totally grim. Not unreasonable to go off them at all!

Oioisavaloy27 · 09/02/2025 13:17

The word ick!

DustyLee123 · 09/02/2025 13:17

Please tell me that you don’t share bodily fluids with this person? 🤢

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 09/02/2025 13:18

OMG 😭😭😭

I was like what's wrong with 'eating puss'? Completely misread that 😅

Yanbu, ltb immediately!

LeavesOnTrees · 09/02/2025 13:18

That's disgusting. Where did you find this man ?
I bet he's messy and doesn't clean his house either.

boulevardofbrokendreamss · 09/02/2025 13:19

Oh good lord. You have to ask?

Brenzett · 09/02/2025 13:21

Oioisavaloy27 · 09/02/2025 13:17

The word ick!

Haha yep !!

TeaAndCake28 · 09/02/2025 13:23

Its not anyone I am seeing or sharing fluids with lol. I met him a year or so ago and never really got to know him that well until last few weeks. These things are a real turn off. I had to let it all out and then he twisted it around that I am such a judgmental person and uncaring and sit in my high horse judging everyone.

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TeaAndCake28 · 09/02/2025 13:24

Brenzett · 09/02/2025 13:21

Haha yep !!

Sorry. I just thought that was what people on here say. I do apologise and I dont use this word in every day language.

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RanchRat · 09/02/2025 13:32

I have never ever ever heard of a bloke eating puss. Made me fucking laugh though, what is he? A giant slug?

Brenzett · 09/02/2025 13:41

TeaAndCake28 · 09/02/2025 13:24

Sorry. I just thought that was what people on here say. I do apologise and I dont use this word in every day language.

To be fair - don’t worry I say it as well!!

TeaAndCake28 · 09/02/2025 13:42

RanchRat · 09/02/2025 13:32

I have never ever ever heard of a bloke eating puss. Made me fucking laugh though, what is he? A giant slug?

Me either. I saw it and was instantly shocked and in disbelief that anyone would consider doing that let alone do it. Its vile. Apparently I am judgmental though....

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PickAChew · 09/02/2025 13:45

TeaAndCake28 · 09/02/2025 13:24

Sorry. I just thought that was what people on here say. I do apologise and I dont use this word in every day language.

It's a perfectly apt word for that sense of revulsion that you cannot come back from.

Lampzade · 09/02/2025 13:50

Good grief he sounds awful
Ick is the understatement of the year.
My vagina has dried up in solidarity for you.
No, just No

LeavesOnTrees · 09/02/2025 13:51

Maybe you've done him a favour by telling him, if he's single and looking to date.

republicofjam · 09/02/2025 13:52

Note to self: Don't scroll Mumsnet just before lunch.🤢

FoxtonFoxton · 09/02/2025 13:53

What the actual fuck have I just read?! Sickening 🤮

Musntapplecrumble · 09/02/2025 13:54

Voted yabu for even being in the same room as them after the pus comment...Envy😂

hideawayforever · 09/02/2025 13:55

yuck, yuck yuck, eats puss???? ffs just NO. how can you be with him just for this alone??

Crazybaby123 · 09/02/2025 13:56

Everyone is entitled to a political opinion, annoying if it is being shoved doen your neck and no other conversation. This is a personality clash and a sign that the perskn isnt for you long term. Some people might enjoy the conversation topics or debate, but if you are not then a sign that you are not well matched.

But eating puss wtaf :((( this is a definite sign to end things.

TeaAndCake28 · 09/02/2025 14:06

We are not an item but I have been getting to know him more in recent weeks. I havent kissed, cuddled or been near him intimately.

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StrawberryWater · 09/02/2025 14:09

I wouldn't even be friends with anyone that grim, never mind date them. Where the fuck did you find him? The sewer!