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Bin men! Ridiculous

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SassyCrab · 06/02/2025 18:54

Has anyone else got this problem with there local council! The bin men take the rubbish every 2 weeks, so our rubbish mounts up to the point we have to put it on top of the bin, bare in mind we have baby and a dog so we have quite a lot of rubbish in the two weeks when they bother to collect. They’ve come yesterday and emptied our bin but just left the rubbish on the top!!!!! So now our bin is full again and still got 2 weeks to go. So annoyed with it, I just don’t understand why they can’t come every week.

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Notatallanamechange · 08/02/2025 02:32

SassyCrab · 06/02/2025 22:13

Yeah I’m happy to answer people genuinely helping, it’s the ones telling me to get my life together etc it’s just rude and don’t see why they waste there time commenting just to start an argument it’s weird..

but anyway we have a tiny food waste bin at the front of our house. I do use recycling but just not for everything, I need to get a seperate bin for recycling in the house. Do you have to wash your jars and things before putting them in? We just put normal rubbish in the bins I don’t understand why we have so much but I guess I’m not recycling as much as I should! & if I don’t put puppy mats he will just toilet by the garden door in the middle of the nights it’s really irritating. Before anyone comments saying he should go out before I go bed, he does!!! But he always wants to go around 2am and I don’t always hear him, he’s toilet trained but he’s stubborn and goes if he needs to go and won’t hold it in

So it’s a you issue. Sorry! But you’re not recycling as expected for a standard household, largely everyone else manages it.

Have you checked through local council website whether you are entitled to a bigger general waste bin, now you have a baby? We were and it instantly fixed our woes.

LouiseTopaz · 08/02/2025 02:33

You need to recycle everything we also have a baby and just manage to keep everything in one bin with no overflow even at Christmas. My neighbour has three kids and also just manages, sometimes the bons slightly open but it is possible to do.

MaryMaryQuiteContraryHow · 08/02/2025 04:27

Deeperthantheocean · 07/02/2025 22:02

Had (an awful) neighbour who had 2 bins he crammed full of everything, including toxic waste. Council soon got to know about him and crushed one of his bins. Huge uproar from him, then he started burning said toxic waste in his garden. Total twat! Yes he was reported for that as well.

There's always one...

We had a elderly neighbour who burned his rubbish in the bin. Cue a visit from the Fire Brigade.

Apparently, he was used to burning rubbish in the bin in the days when bins were metal and his brain hadn't caught up with the times.

Eventually he was moved into a care home where presumably he couldn't burn anything.

BobnLen · 08/02/2025 06:59

A lot of councils are going to 3 or 4 week collections and I bet those are the ones that have put the council tax up the most. Enjoy

LillyPJ · 08/02/2025 07:18

Grammarnut · 07/02/2025 23:51

Some of us have better things to do than squash cardboard and plastic bottles, and sorting out recycling.
And fortnightly collections are a health hazard.

Edited

Better things to do than save the planet? It really takes almost no time at all to squash a box.

CeeJay81 · 08/02/2025 07:32

Ours is 3 weekly and the nearest tip we can use is now 28 mile's away. Closed down local one and aren't allowed to use one in a different council area. It is a pain, having to clean everything for recycling but it's just something that has to be done.

Familysquabbles23 · 08/02/2025 07:51

I put rubbish in loose or smaller bags BC you get more in, just putting bin bags in doesn't maximise the space. I use a cardboard sheet on top to press it down. We can just go 4 weeks, 2 adults , 1 toddler, but it's a struggle. We could put tins in the recycling,but you have to rinse them out and it's faff or they go in wet and ruin the cardboard so I disagree that it's useful recycling. We use about 5 cans a week and I fill them with tbags etc so they don't really take up space.

You can compost food waste, but we have a rat problem so I stopped that.
Other thing is dry packets, eg the outer crisp bag etc, if we are struggling for space I put those aside and dump them in a passing waste bin. They are light and clean.

Ilovemyshed · 08/02/2025 07:54

We have a fortnightly refuse and a fortnightly recycling. Next year this will move to three weekly for refuse and more recycling in between. At the moment we have no separate food collection but will next year, plus separating recycling more and adding bottle collection.

OP you need to concentrate on recycling more and stop whinging. The rest of us manage.

Ilovemyshed · 08/02/2025 08:03

I think also one of your problems in Havering is that they still collect black sacks, rather than general waste going in a wheelie bin. Its quite old fashioned to still have operatives lifting bags and throwing them in a truck.

However, its almost better for the resident as you can put out multiple black sacks and not "fill the bin", so not sure why you are making such a fuss. Just store your full bags securely in a bin or shed and put them out on rubbish day.

Lovelysummerdays · 08/02/2025 08:06

Needmorelego · 06/02/2025 19:07

Yes but why should people have to do that?
Councils should be collecting peoples rubbish and recycling. Why provide a system but then do it half arsed?

It’s incredibly expensive to dispose of general waste though, much cheaper to get rid of recycling and can get money for some of it. My council sells wood, metal, glass and cardboard. Food waste goes to composter. The general waste costs £££s though. So they try and reduce.

Callingallbutterflies · 08/02/2025 08:15

MurdoMunro · 06/02/2025 19:18

Here’s a list, I can see a few things missing, but its a starter for ten -

  • Youth services
  • Libraries
  • Parks, open spaces and galleries
  • Leisure facilities, including swimming pools and recreation centres
  • Social care for older people, children and other vulnerable members of the community
  • Support for the voluntary sector
  • Planning and building control
  • Refuse collection, street cleaning and other environmental issues
  • Maintenance of roads and bridges
  • Traffic management and road safety
  • Parking services and control
  • Elections, registrars of births, marriages and deaths
  • Cemeteries, crematoria and mortuary services
  • Consumer protection
  • Economic development and regeneration
  • Community development services
  • Housing, including the provision of social housing, housing strategy and advice and services for the homeless
  • Housing Benefits and Council Tax administration.

Exactly and in Scotland you can add Education to that list. The amount allocated to waste collection will be a shockingly small percentage. This information will be on your Council's website. Councils have national targets to achieve for recycling and reducing landfill. The collection cycle is designed to help achieve those targets. However, we all have a responsibility to recycle and deal with our waste properly.

oOiluvfriendsOo · 08/02/2025 08:16

People who put rubbish on top of bins are the bane of my life.
I am constantly picking rubbish off my drive and out my garden which has blown from rubbish left by others.
I'm not just talking a bit of paper here and there. Because of the way the wind blows I get all the loose rubbish.

Jack80 · 08/02/2025 08:20

Me and my husband have had this discussion recently about why the bin men won't take someone's rubbish on top of the bin and what do we pay our council tax for. It is to do with health and safety but the daft thing is the council clean up team will come out and move the rubbish so that's another vehicle moving the rubbish the bin man could 🤦

Crumpleton · 08/02/2025 08:47

DdraigGoch · 08/02/2025 00:11

While this would be a bit extreme, I reckon that the cat produces more non-recyclable waste than I do. I should probably switch to tins, how does everyone stop them going funny in the fridge because obviously he cannot have a full tin in one go?

Edited

Our cat used to have half a tin of meat a day the rest was left in a tin, you can/could buy plastic lids that fit onto them to stop any smells.

If worried about storing the tin in the fridge you could decant to a plastic tub like the chinese takeaway type.

angela1952 · 08/02/2025 09:54

TheignT · 07/02/2025 19:08

I never boiled nappies, just soaked them in Napisan, emptied the bucket in the morning and rinsed the nappies. It really wasn't that big a deal. This was the early 70s.

I agree, you do have to have a bucket somewhere but putting the nappies into the washer doesn't take long. A modern heat-pump dryer isn't that expensive to run and also takes seconds to load, or a heated drying rack works well and is very cheap to run - I use one for my DGC's washing. I used the synthetic washable liners, so it didn't matter if the nappies dried a bit crispy. Smelly poo went in the loo so nothing nasty to go in the bin either.
I had four DC (last was born in 1985) and disposables were available then but I only used them if I was out and about so didn't want to cart dirty terries about.

CuriousQuestioningGal · 08/02/2025 10:10

I collect the sift plastic packing and films and take them to Tesco. This has reduced our normal waste/ rubbish substantially! Where we are (Scotland) they do general rubbish, recycling, glass bin and garden (extra). But the soft plastics I gather are equally a black bag worth every 2/3 weeks for 2 of us. A family would be even bigger. See if your local Tesco does it. There’s normally a big container thing near the door. I just drop them in on my way shopping.

angela1952 · 08/02/2025 10:11

Lovelysummerdays · 08/02/2025 08:06

It’s incredibly expensive to dispose of general waste though, much cheaper to get rid of recycling and can get money for some of it. My council sells wood, metal, glass and cardboard. Food waste goes to composter. The general waste costs £££s though. So they try and reduce.

We have a really excellent recycling service that takes everything except soft plastic which I can recycle at the supermarket or return to an online grocery store. We live on an estate so are very lucky to have large communal bins for card/paper, tins and glass, similar to the ones found in many large supermarket car parks.

Landfill rubbish goes into large communal bins too, and we're always shocked to see just how much recyclable rubbish goes into these - cardboard boxes that haven't even been flattened for example. People just can't be bothered to separate their trash, even if the recycling bin is just a minutes walk away.
I appreciate that disposable nappies are ultra-convenient but apparently they one of the biggest contributors to plastic waste globally
https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2021/nov/20/disposable-nappies-plastic-waste-diapers

Reuse? Compost? Dump? Solving the eco-conundrum of nappies

Disposable diapers are one of the biggest factors in global plastic waste. Efforts to address the problem are popping up all over the world

https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2021/nov/20/disposable-nappies-plastic-waste-diapers

angela1952 · 08/02/2025 10:13

CuriousQuestioningGal · 08/02/2025 10:10

I collect the sift plastic packing and films and take them to Tesco. This has reduced our normal waste/ rubbish substantially! Where we are (Scotland) they do general rubbish, recycling, glass bin and garden (extra). But the soft plastics I gather are equally a black bag worth every 2/3 weeks for 2 of us. A family would be even bigger. See if your local Tesco does it. There’s normally a big container thing near the door. I just drop them in on my way shopping.

I put my soft plastic inside the carrier bags when I return them to my online grocery store too.

MurdoMunro · 08/02/2025 10:14

Jack80 · 08/02/2025 08:20

Me and my husband have had this discussion recently about why the bin men won't take someone's rubbish on top of the bin and what do we pay our council tax for. It is to do with health and safety but the daft thing is the council clean up team will come out and move the rubbish so that's another vehicle moving the rubbish the bin man could 🤦

It’s not really about health and safety, for the bin men anyway. That’s an old tired trope.

Bottom line is that the amount of waste we are creating has gone up massively. We buy so much stuff with too much packaging, we throw ridiculous amounts of food in the bin, we buy cheap goods then throw them out and replace them. Asking people (and businesses) nicely to think about this hasn’t worked over the last 20 years.

People, and businesses, (generalising) don’t want to pay extra for their excess waste and won’t engage with recycling unless they are forced to.

Lovelysummerdays · 08/02/2025 10:34

angela1952 · 08/02/2025 10:11

We have a really excellent recycling service that takes everything except soft plastic which I can recycle at the supermarket or return to an online grocery store. We live on an estate so are very lucky to have large communal bins for card/paper, tins and glass, similar to the ones found in many large supermarket car parks.

Landfill rubbish goes into large communal bins too, and we're always shocked to see just how much recyclable rubbish goes into these - cardboard boxes that haven't even been flattened for example. People just can't be bothered to separate their trash, even if the recycling bin is just a minutes walk away.
I appreciate that disposable nappies are ultra-convenient but apparently they one of the biggest contributors to plastic waste globally
https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2021/nov/20/disposable-nappies-plastic-waste-diapers

I’m generally quite an eco friendly person. I haven’t been on a plane in over a decade. I recycle everything I can. I used disposables. At my peak I had a toddler and twin babies in nappies. I was so painfully sleep deprived. I couldn’t take on more stuff. I know people say it’s just a minute but when you are already overwhelmed you can’t add more.

I really think it should be up to manufacturers to consider safe disposal for the products they bring to market. Disposable nappies, period pads have similar issues. For many years it was a struggle to recycle aplastic drinks bottle or milk carton as manufacturers made them out of three different plastics one for label, one for lid, one for bottle which couldn’t be recycled together. A change in legislation ( I think it was the Glasgow cop) pushed the manufacturers to take responsibility which is why we now have bottles that can be recycled as one.

MurdoMunro · 08/02/2025 10:40

Totally agree @Lovelysummerdays we need far for pressure (penalties) at source. If it’s import taxes on fast fashion, plastic do-dahs, on manufacturers at source or retail distribution centres then I’m all for it.

If it becomes too expensive for them to sell us over packaged goods or stop them putting 1/3 of the fresh food on the bin before it even gets to the shelf then they will very quickly find another way.

Lovelysummerdays · 08/02/2025 10:40

MurdoMunro · 08/02/2025 10:14

It’s not really about health and safety, for the bin men anyway. That’s an old tired trope.

Bottom line is that the amount of waste we are creating has gone up massively. We buy so much stuff with too much packaging, we throw ridiculous amounts of food in the bin, we buy cheap goods then throw them out and replace them. Asking people (and businesses) nicely to think about this hasn’t worked over the last 20 years.

People, and businesses, (generalising) don’t want to pay extra for their excess waste and won’t engage with recycling unless they are forced to.

I used to work for the council and this was my area. Binmen are told not to take extra waste as if they do it once or for one person then everyone wants extra waste lifted. It’s the slippery slope arguement. Some people are excellent recyclers, some people will never recycle anything, lots of people recycle because they can’t fit everything in the bin
otherwise.

TangoFoxtrotCharlie · 08/02/2025 10:54

My council collects bins, recycling (mixed) and garden waste weekly with no limits. Heavily subsidised parking in council car parks too. It was honestly one of the reasons I was keen to buy in this area. It's not common but it is possible and I'm happy to pay my council tax and re-elect them every time.

luckylavender · 08/02/2025 10:55

SassyCrab · 06/02/2025 18:54

Has anyone else got this problem with there local council! The bin men take the rubbish every 2 weeks, so our rubbish mounts up to the point we have to put it on top of the bin, bare in mind we have baby and a dog so we have quite a lot of rubbish in the two weeks when they bother to collect. They’ve come yesterday and emptied our bin but just left the rubbish on the top!!!!! So now our bin is full again and still got 2 weeks to go. So annoyed with it, I just don’t understand why they can’t come every week.

That's normal.

theemmadilemma · 08/02/2025 11:07

Every 3 weeks and our won't take the bin of the lid is more than an inch open.

I watched them leave next doors the other week because it was too open.

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