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Anyone else not enjoy the season change to Spring?

90 replies

Soniastrumpet1984 · 30/01/2025 07:34

I know this is an unusual one but I get seasonal affective disorder for spring not autumn.
In my neck of the woods, there are little signs of spring coming, and it makes me feel very low. Once it's here I get used to it and like it, and I enjoy summer but its the change that upsets me. Anyone else?

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lucysnowe2 · 30/01/2025 10:22

Sceptical123 · 30/01/2025 08:22

Like PP’s have mentioned I think it’s the change some of us don’t like and the visual reminder that the year (TIME) is progressing - this is perhaps the bigger aspect, time slipping away and what that means existentially to us etc. it can feel quite depressing and the fact we have no control over it. We need to try to focus on the things in the year to look forward to each season and take each one as it comes ☺️

Yes I totally agree with this - reminds me of this Larkin poem:

The trees are coming into leaf
Like something almost being said;
The recent buds relax and spread,
Their greenness is a kind of grief.

Is it that they are born again
And we grow old? No, they die too.
Their yearly trick of looking new
Is written down in rings of grain.

Yet still the unresting castles thresh
In fullgrown thickness every May.
Last year is dead, they seem to say,
Begin afresh, afresh, afresh.

Sceptical123 · 30/01/2025 11:01

lucysnowe2 · 30/01/2025 10:22

Yes I totally agree with this - reminds me of this Larkin poem:

The trees are coming into leaf
Like something almost being said;
The recent buds relax and spread,
Their greenness is a kind of grief.

Is it that they are born again
And we grow old? No, they die too.
Their yearly trick of looking new
Is written down in rings of grain.

Yet still the unresting castles thresh
In fullgrown thickness every May.
Last year is dead, they seem to say,
Begin afresh, afresh, afresh.

I’ve never come across this before - I love it, thank you for sharing 🩷

2dogsandabudgie · 30/01/2025 11:06

ChanelBoucle · 30/01/2025 08:23

I kind of know what you mean op. I remember feeling for years a sense of queasiness and dread as the season changed to spring. It was so strange, looking back at it, and I remember telling a friend who said her dad had the same thing! It’s something about the weak evening light and sound of birds. I used to feel it right up until well into my thirties.

Now I don’t really feel it at all, and quite like the sense of spring emerging. But I remember the feeling well.

Editing to add that I don’t feel it AT ALL with any other season; autumn to winter and spring to summer just feel like natural transitions that I barely notice, and I positively embrace summer to autumn, it’s one of my favourite times of year sensing the summer fade and slow down and the smoky autumn start to filter in.

Edited

Yes this was me, felt like this until my early 40s. Had a sense of dread when spring approached, found it difficult to explain.

I'm 60 now and haven't felt like that for 10 years or more. Very strange.

memoriesofamiga · 30/01/2025 11:12

I'm another one who feels this, I find the turning of seasons brings out some complicated emotions for me. I knew it was spring about a week ago (live in the south west), which feels early this year. I'm not sure it's SAD exactly but I feel the season changes quite intensely. My favourite season change is Summer to Autumn, I can tell you the exact day it happens every year where I live, it's like someone flicks a switch.

So interesting there's a few of us who feel this way.

Cappuccinowithonesugarplease · 30/01/2025 11:57

I embrace all the seasons changing but sometimes struggle in the middle of winter, it drags on!

TwinklyFawn · 30/01/2025 15:55

I feel the same. I do like the fact that it gets lighter. However i feel as though spring is just an extension of winter. Summer is either too hot or a wash out. I love the change to autumn.

Abhannmor · 30/01/2025 16:10

Now with the Springtime
The days will grow longer
And after St Bride's Day
My sail I will raise. *
St Brigid's Day is next Saturday. Celtic spring ...but always feels too cold?

  • Anois teacht an Earraigh / Now comes the Spring. Anton O'Raifteri
Soniastrumpet1984 · 30/01/2025 18:06

memoriesofamiga · 30/01/2025 11:12

I'm another one who feels this, I find the turning of seasons brings out some complicated emotions for me. I knew it was spring about a week ago (live in the south west), which feels early this year. I'm not sure it's SAD exactly but I feel the season changes quite intensely. My favourite season change is Summer to Autumn, I can tell you the exact day it happens every year where I live, it's like someone flicks a switch.

So interesting there's a few of us who feel this way.

Me too..what's weird is I don't know why I feel it!

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OneLilacGuide · 30/01/2025 18:08

I LOVE coming into winter but this time of year really drags for me. It’s nice the days are getting longer but summer still feels like a million miles away! It’s not getting warmer and in fact February/March usually brings snow 🥲

sarahssO · 30/01/2025 18:10

I have written a post like this before. I totally understand where you're coming from and the feeling you're experiencing.
For me, I think it's something to do with how I think, and how I seem to feel very different mentally at different points in the year. I seem to struggle at every change in season, although less so spring to summer and autumn to winter, but more do winter to spring and summer to autumn.
I feel like I need to adjust my thinking to the new season, and then I am okay, but it can take me 2/3 weeks each time. I guess it can do with being quite a sensitive person, I know I am.
Also, on another note I think I dread summer because I have to see and hear my neighbours more which irritates me, but that's another story!

soccermum10 · 30/01/2025 18:10

Nope. I get SAD during January, February and middle if March. As soon as that spring weather and lighter nights peek round the corner I feel so much better

sarahssO · 30/01/2025 18:12

memoriesofamiga · 30/01/2025 11:12

I'm another one who feels this, I find the turning of seasons brings out some complicated emotions for me. I knew it was spring about a week ago (live in the south west), which feels early this year. I'm not sure it's SAD exactly but I feel the season changes quite intensely. My favourite season change is Summer to Autumn, I can tell you the exact day it happens every year where I live, it's like someone flicks a switch.

So interesting there's a few of us who feel this way.

Also south west, would you say it's the second half of September? I have noticed this too (hoping we have the same day now! ☺️)

Theextraordinaryisintheordinary · 30/01/2025 18:12

I felt elated tonight when I left work and saw the sky was blue, heard the birds singing, saw the snowdrops out and daffodils pushing up. I felt lighter.

Boomer55 · 30/01/2025 18:19

I love Spring - a time of renewal and rebirth.🥂

Drivingoverlemons · 30/01/2025 18:27

I used to feel the same, but then I moved in with DH who does not like the heating on. I felt so happy today to be able to sit in a patch of sunshine, like a cat.

DerekFaker · 30/01/2025 18:49

Macrodatarefiner · 30/01/2025 07:35

I wonder why?

I LOVE the signs of life emerging

Seasonal Affected Disorder can actually occur at any time. Some people get it in Summer!

mizu · 30/01/2025 18:55

Spring is definitely my least favourite season but I think for me it's more to do with the slowness of the weather getting warmer. There are signs but it can be bitterly cold Feb and March.

I love September to December as the nights draw in.

Game0fCrones · 30/01/2025 18:58

Yes, I get anxious as Spring approaches.

Ive seen Daffodils starting to push up, birds singing loudly, and the tree buds starting to show and its still light when i leave work now.

Ive always felt this way. I think its because I'm a home body and like Autumn and winter as its quieter outside and more acceptable to stay inside. Give it another month or two and the place will be teaming with people shouting, playing loud music, dogs barking, people banging about doing DIY, cars farting up and down the roads with music blaring, festivals, markets, fairs and god knows what other noise.

Ilovelowry · 30/01/2025 19:04

I do love spring, the smells, the light mornings and the sun on my face, and fully intend to sit on the patio in my anorak and drink a glass of Rose this weekend.

BUT. It also means jobs. Lawn mowing, weeding, cleaning stuff, keeping overgrown stuff back, the ability to sit down at the weekend and just relax is gone.

Could it be that?

Appalonia · 30/01/2025 19:13

I love the signs of spring, makes me feel so hopeful. It was cold but sunny today and I had so much more energy. It's the dull, dark, wet grey days that really get me down.

Macrodatarefiner · 30/01/2025 20:21

DerekFaker · 30/01/2025 18:49

Seasonal Affected Disorder can actually occur at any time. Some people get it in Summer!

I thought this was defined as a response to lack of sunshine. Like a chemical deficit. As in, there is a physical, tangible cause. Its just feelings then?

Coolasfeck · 30/01/2025 20:28

We have this exact same thread every year.

Not saying the following this you OP but as soon as April hits you have the thread where people are ‘dreading’ a heat wave because last year was so hot’, despite it barely getting over 25C last year even in the South East.

Then those same people are looking forward to it being winter and being ‘cozy’ and drinking ‘hot choc’.

LyndaSnellsSniff · 30/01/2025 20:38

I feel weird about spring too. But only as an adult; as a child I loved it. I think it's because in the summer months I (irrationally) feel pressure to be out and about and spontaneous and sociable. None of which particularly appeal to me and this irrational pressure makes me feel anxious and sad! In autumn and winter it's more permissable to hibernate and disappear into myself (again, irrational I realise). Spring to me feels like I'm being forced to emerge from hibernation and I feel exposed and vulnerable.

Having said all that, once we get to May I enjoy the warmth and flowers. But July/August? Hate, hate, hate!!

DerekFaker · 30/01/2025 20:49

Coolasfeck · 30/01/2025 20:28

We have this exact same thread every year.

Not saying the following this you OP but as soon as April hits you have the thread where people are ‘dreading’ a heat wave because last year was so hot’, despite it barely getting over 25C last year even in the South East.

Then those same people are looking forward to it being winter and being ‘cozy’ and drinking ‘hot choc’.

But that's not what the OP is saying. She said she likes Summer.