My house not good enough

[NiftyDreamer]

My sister is very well off. Big house, large salary etc. I’m a SAHM out of choice so our home is smaller and we have a modest lifestyle. She rarely visits us (always an excuse) and when she does she acts as if she’s in a hovel or something. My house is cosy, clean and we can afford it. This upsets me and I should say something. But I want to maintain a relationship with her.

Are you able to explain to her how her behaviour makes you feel and ask her to tone it down?

The words 'fuck off you snobby bitch' are really quite versatile and can solve most situations but the maintaining relationships bit could be tricky. How much do you really like her?