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Bonnie blue

292 replies

Poppyfun1 · 26/01/2025 10:32

I don’t know why I’m so bothered about it but is anyone else disgusted by it, I’m more disgusted by the men who actively went there to have sex with her. I have no idea why it’s annoyed me so much but everytime I see something about it it gets my back up!

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Tricho · 26/01/2025 18:35

ImagineRainbows · 26/01/2025 18:26

I judge both her and the 1000+ men in this situation.

But she’s made 6 figures from this stunt and the men did this for free. So I definitely judge them more.

Can you imagine it the other way round? No way would 1000 women queue up all day to have 45 seconds with someone, no matter who they were!

I think the list of men should be released so everyone knows who to avoid.

I'm sorry, you think what??

Jesus wept

CeceliaImrie · 26/01/2025 18:37

I can't help worrying about her poor fanny too but in all seriousness potentially normalising and at least fetishising what we've just seen in France from the Gisele Pelicort case. Gang bang rape in the mainstream news and the rest of us are practically Mary Whitehouse for being horrified.

CeceliaImrie · 26/01/2025 18:38

@MinnieCauldwell Spain have legalised what!

AlpacaMittens · 26/01/2025 18:39

I do not give a single shit and I would have been happily oblivious who she is f it wasn't for mumsnet threads popping up. Honestly who gives a shit?

hairalert · 26/01/2025 18:40

Tricho · 26/01/2025 18:26

There's a lot more pressing things you should be outraged about than consenting adults having sex

Classic Mumsnet trope of "women should have the right to do what they want with their bodies, UNLESS, ots something I dont agree with.

We can care about more than one thing. Not that old trope. And yes we should care about the degradation of society actually.

hairalert · 26/01/2025 18:42

AlpacaMittens · 26/01/2025 18:39

I do not give a single shit and I would have been happily oblivious who she is f it wasn't for mumsnet threads popping up. Honestly who gives a shit?

Me. I give a shit. And many others. Who asked you to even post if you don't give a shit. It's all YOLO for you I guess.

ImagineRainbows · 26/01/2025 18:45

Tricho · 26/01/2025 18:35

I'm sorry, you think what??

Jesus wept

What’s the issue?

They all signed release forms, they all agreed to be filmed.

ThoroughlyModernNotMillie · 26/01/2025 18:51

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 16:39

I and others don’t feel they are acceptable and we can’t complain when men use them if we do the same.

and I won’t and do not use abusive terms to describe her or any other woman. I will discuss the behaviour. But I feel no need to sink so low as hurl mysogynistic abuse.

Why is calling her a tart and slag misogynistic ? It's aimed at her specifically, not all women. If men use those words to describe her too that's fine, it's what she is.
For people saying she must have mental health issues or be mentally ill to engage in such behaviour, it's perfectly possible to behave in a very unusual, strange, dangerous or risky way and be perfectly mentally normal. It's the same thing as people on here saying the Southport killer must have been mentally ill, he isn't, it's just that some mentally normal people behave in terrible ways.
She's decided to do this, hasn't been coerced, she's just an ignorant, stupid woman with no standards, no integrity, decency or foresight and with an awful family who are all motivated solely by money. There are plenty of people like that to a greater or lesser extent.

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 19:14

torreli · 26/01/2025 16:09

Companies house would disagree

That was the least offensive word I could think of- I can think of words & that way worse

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 19:15

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 11:50

Not according to her they didn't

She’s another tart

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 19:19

Lavenderfarmcottage · 26/01/2025 12:23

What saddens me the most is how narrow minded we are about life and people. The reactions on here about how she’s a tart - it’s so backward.

I would put money on this woman having unresolved complex trauma or being molested as a child of having some sort of mental illness & being detached as a result.

I feel genuinely concerned for her and the narrow life path available to her after this and also a lifetime contending with people that are quick to judge & judge inaccurately.

Have you even watched her podcast & the message she sends out to young girls that might look up to her, that’s its ok to have sex with over a 1000 guys, including barely legal & dads & sons together- that’s truly fucked up!

ChristmasPudd1990 · 26/01/2025 19:59

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 19:19

Have you even watched her podcast & the message she sends out to young girls that might look up to her, that’s its ok to have sex with over a 1000 guys, including barely legal & dads & sons together- that’s truly fucked up!

Exactly. I think it's disgusting that people say women(and I use that word loosely)like that are "empowering" 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮. What planet are you on? I despair. She's disgusting and I hope she crawls back under her rock soon and we stop hearing about it. Turns my stomach 🙄🤦‍♀️🤮

AlpacaMittens · 26/01/2025 20:46

hairalert · 26/01/2025 18:42

Me. I give a shit. And many others. Who asked you to even post if you don't give a shit. It's all YOLO for you I guess.

The OP "asked me" to post when she posted in AIBU asking if she was being unreasonable.

Ffutv · 26/01/2025 20:47

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 17:56

& like dads & their sons together 😩

Noooo that’s gross

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 21:02

infertilitychallenges · 26/01/2025 18:14

True. Shes definitely got some regrets coming her way at some point.

Bonnie will wake up one day & won’t be Bonnie any longer. No one will give her a side ways glance😔

RedRidingGood · 26/01/2025 21:29

Dads and sons? That can't be real. I despair if it's true.

MrsSkylerWhite · 26/01/2025 21:33

RedRidingGood · Today 21:29
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Dads and sons? That can't be real. I despair if it's true.

Me too. That’s sick.

thomasinacat · 26/01/2025 21:58

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 26/01/2025 12:01

I’ve pondered if these young women make other young women less safe in society? They are so accessible sexually that I feel like it gives men an idea that every young girl is up for a gang bang. I suppose it’s a societal pushing back of boundaries that makes me uncomfortable.

I'm sure it does - she targeted university students, which must have been pretty intimidating and undermining to female students there. Did she actually go onto University Campuses to advertise? Can't understand why blatant soliciting is suddenly allowed. Doesn't look like the universities took any action against her, which I find odd. This is not something that should be accepted on university campuses. Stupid, selfish woman.

Can imagine being around any peers who participated in this perversion, would feel v threatening indeed - the whole thing is so seedy and horrible. It shouldn't be normalised. A total lack of respect for women that I find deeply disturbing.

Wondering whether there were any student protests about this. Our SU protested against having The Sun Newspaper because of page 3, but this is OK??? Or is it deeply uncool to challenge this because it's 'empowering' and sexual freedom. Feels like we have gone seriously backwards.

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 22:04

RedRidingGood · 26/01/2025 21:29

Dads and sons? That can't be real. I despair if it's true.

I can assure you that’s what she said she liked

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 22:05

She’s on a podcast on YouTube

Porcelainpig · 26/01/2025 22:29

When I think of the word 'tart', I think of Lilo Lill from Bread and the woman going outside her house and shouting:
SHE-IS-A-TART!

Is anyone verifying these numbers? I find it hard to believe that anyone can be organised enough to round up 1,000 desperate, rancid weirdos and keep them in check enough to have a conveyor belt of 1,000 cocks timed perfectly for each shag.

And the cleaning! I guess if you've got a lot of wallpapering to do and no paste, it is worth dropping by.

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 23:24

Tricho · 26/01/2025 18:26

There's a lot more pressing things you should be outraged about than consenting adults having sex

Classic Mumsnet trope of "women should have the right to do what they want with their bodies, UNLESS, ots something I dont agree with.

Like what?joining the EU again 🙄

SallyWD · 27/01/2025 07:37

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 23:24

Like what?joining the EU again 🙄

Well yes, that would be a worthwhile thing to consider.

MinnieCauldwell · 27/01/2025 08:34

CeceliaImrie · 26/01/2025 18:38

@MinnieCauldwell Spain have legalised what!

I can't remember where I read it and too nervous to Google it😱

MissTrip82 · 27/01/2025 08:47

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 10:35

She’s a tart, her parents must be so proud- imagine when she has to explain to her children what she did for a living-
much more different to women who genuinely have to work the streets to make money to put food on the table to feed the family

I don’t know why I open threads about this because the fucking blatant misogyny has been truly disgusting.

What the fuck is a ‘tart’?

All the vitriol directed at this woman do you have anything to say about the men?
Every one of them will have been shaped by the same hatred of women you’re cheerfully espousing.

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