hi all, I’m in shock. I recently posted on here several times about my now ex partner- he was showing signs of abuse, control and aggression. Anyways long story short, I think this is the final straw.
we went out to bingo tonight and he’s been in a foul mood for days. Anyways he kicked off yet again because he’s desperate for money and didn’t win- I did. We got the bus back to his road. When I got off the bus- he was behind me as I got off first. He also started walking really close behind me and I said normally to him “you can walk in front I don’t like people walking behind me it makes me feel threatened”. He then kicked off and started shouting and fuming “WHATEVER I CANT EVEN HOLD YOUR EFFING HAND” then he started storming off. I called after him but he didn’t stop walking I stopped expecting him to turn back but he didn’t. I’m a young woman with a handbag walking down a really dodgy road with dodgy people and alleyways. He stormed off far ahead and didn’t care. So I turned to another road like the strong woman I am deep down, made sure I was safe and stopped at a small main road by a church and I called a taxi home. Even though I had £0.00 on my card and have now gone overdrawn by nearly a tenner, because it’s my safety and I am done with this abusive POS. It’s not right what he’s done is it?
I know deep down I did the right thing and put myself first. He’s abusive and I’m so shocked this happened tonight. He is Jekyll and Hyde. I’ve locked all my doors up, drawn the curtains.
he has been texting twice and called twice but I’m not answering. I came on here because everyone on here has great advice and I don’t know where else to turn or who to talk to.
thank you , I’m proud of myself :)