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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to have a wee in the middle of sex?

38 replies

TheDevilWearsPrimark · 06/05/2008 15:41

It happens rarely, but sometimes a girl's gotta do...

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stripeymama · 06/05/2008 15:43

In the toilet?

Or as a sex thing?

MamaG · 06/05/2008 15:43

God thats gross! My mate did that

Carmenere · 06/05/2008 15:43

I presume that you mean stopping and physically going to the bathroom?? If so yanbu and if you are the type of weirdo who likes weeing on men I suppose yanbu either

Lulumama · 06/05/2008 15:44

go before you start!

nametaken · 06/05/2008 15:45

Some men do enjoy a golden shower - is that what it's called.

I think my dh would punch my lights out though!!!!!

TheDevilWearsPrimark · 06/05/2008 15:45

Oh god, of course I mean stopping and running to the loo.

It only really happens soon after pregnancy or when very drunk.

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2point4kids · 06/05/2008 15:45

in the toilet i hope??
even so, why cant you just have a wee before you start if you've got a habit of needing to go half way through!

TheDevilWearsPrimark · 06/05/2008 15:46

(spot the deliberate thread juxtaposition)

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Carmenere · 06/05/2008 15:47

No yanbu it is very important to empty your bladder to avoid the dreaded cystitis, let him wait a minute, it won't kill him

TheDevilWearsPrimark · 06/05/2008 15:47

Plus surely sex doesn't have a specific 'start' time, so if it just starts then when is the best time to politely run to the loo? lol

Oh it's too early in the day for this god knows why I started this thread.

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Lulumama · 06/05/2008 15:49

we have specific start times..! got to set the moood, light the cnadles , lock children away etc... so you know, a wee is part of it !

CatWithKittens · 06/05/2008 17:38

No ? but it might dampen the ardour!

alfiesbabe · 06/05/2008 20:44

YANBU. You can't enjoy the rest of it when you have the urge.

FromGirders · 06/05/2008 20:47

Well I (and dH) reckon it's better to say "excuse me for a minute" go and pee then come back, rather than have an accident over him!
It's not my fault he pokes my bladder!

Divastrop · 06/05/2008 20:48

YANBU.i personally cant,ahem,'finish' if i need a wee,as im afraid if i relax and let go it will come gushing out.i do try to go in advance if i get hints though(such as dh making physical contact with me)

TinkerbellesMum · 06/05/2008 21:21

Oh dear, I fear this may get too much information...

My partner is circumcised (genuine medical reasons - says she who gets passionate about circumcision on American sites) and I find he really upsets my bladder so it's not uncommon for me to have to stop or go quickly afterwards.

How can you enjoy yourself if you have a full bladder?

LynetteScavo · 06/05/2008 21:29

When very drunk, I have been known to stop for a wee, or be sick, then carry on.

But not in the last 10 years.

morningpaper · 06/05/2008 21:29

lol yes I have had people stop and be sick and carry on

ahh the joy of youth

BarcodeZebra · 06/05/2008 21:33

That you can remember.....

BarcodeZebra · 06/05/2008 21:34

Oh Bugger! That might have been funny if I'd managed to post it after Lynette's post.

Janni · 06/05/2008 21:38

YANBU. You could have a little chamber pot next to the bed

crankytwanky · 29/12/2008 01:03

Of course yanbu!
I find if certain, ahem, spots deep within are stimulated, I need to pee.
At least it goes on long enough for you to develop the need. If I need during sex I know I only have to wait a few minutes....

lisad123 · 29/12/2008 01:07

i have never needed to go half way though, but always after wards but that might change soon as my pelvic floor isnt what it used to be

MoccaMint · 29/12/2008 01:40

Well, once as we were getting started with foreplay DH went for a wee, came back and then fell asleep!!!

He'd been very busy at work that week...

No hard feelings but still took the piss out of him (sorry, couldn't help that )

MadamDeathstarOverBethlehem · 29/12/2008 01:46

If you are a gardening enthusiast - do not (as I did) google the name of the beautiful David Austin rose "Golden Showers" when looking for photos of said rose ----just don't OK.

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