Long story short, we have a DD in her early 30s who has been difficult to deal with since she was about 15. She was a previous (?) drug addict, got married 3 yrs ago to an absolute idiot who is currently residing in prison and has been for nearly 2yrs. She moved away to stay with friends and got a job seemed happy and settled then at the beginning of December asked if she could stay for a few days and is still here no job, not even giving the impression she's looking. The thing that I cannot deal with is she goes NC every so often will not answer messages or phone calls nothing. She has been seeing someone seemed very happy but last week she said she was going to visit a friend and didn't come home, her boyfriend contacted the police as she wasn't answering his calls etc, had the police at my door on Monday to ask when we last saw her and if we had a recent photo. I've come home from work today to find her back,no explanation nothing and is now up in her room. So my question is wwyd?